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I know what backbitting is but it is not so clear...like if i tell my mother about how some relative behaves with me ..is it backbitting ? Whenever someone hurts us isnt it that we tell others so that we feel light..is it backbitting.eg if a person tells me that u look like a zoombie..i get angry nd tell my friend wht she said in order to feel better..is it backbitting ?

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now the defintion  backbitting but i fail to apply it on some situations..i cant decide whether they account for backbitting or not..Please can u explain these situations  individually.......(1) my relative always says negative remarks to me..i told it to my parents so that they keep small distance not to cut the relation..is it backbitting ???  (2) my classmate hurted me by telling that you look like dead body and always makes fun of me...i got hurt .I told my bestfriend just to feel better ..is it backbitting ?? ( 3) my friend  told me that her friend was telling that i have no dressing sense ..i replied to my friend  that your friend has not right to tell this she wears so cheap clothes ,first of all she should look at herself...is it backbitting ???

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Salam,

There are three types of backbiting (gheeba):

1. Insulting or name calling someone behind their back.

2. Belittling someone behind their back.

3. Exposing someone's past sin that was concealed to the public.

#2 is usually committed the most by people. If any of the cases you mentioned fall into the above category, then it is gheeba.

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6 hours ago, Hassan- said:

Salam,

There are three types of backbiting (gheeba):

1. Insulting or name calling someone behind their back.

2. Belittling someone behind their back.

3. Exposing someone's past sin that was concealed to the public.

#2 is usually committed the most by people. If any of the cases you mentioned fall into the above category, then it is gheeba.

I am not able to decide .

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On 03/11/2017 at 9:01 AM, Guest Guest said:

I am not able to decide .

Reply my dear brothers n sisters

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Salaams,

"...my friend  told me that her friend was telling that i have no dressing sense ..i replied to my friend  that your friend has not right to tell this she wears so cheap clothes ,first of all she should look at herself...is it backbitting ....?

 

Out of the three, onnly this one seems to me like backbiting^^^ imho

 

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