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12 hours ago, starlight said:

:hahaha::hahaha::hahaha: Sorry sis,but I literally doubled over laughing. How is this even possible unless we are assuming that all evidence about father carrying the Y chromosome is wrong. Either that or the eggs of the abused females run like certain Islamic figures ran from battles as soon as they see a sperm with a X chromosome approaching them. 

Haha!

I've read this too, actually.  Supposedly it has to do with the woman's hormonal balance and her body eliminating some sperm and allowing others. They say x-sperm and y-sperm swim differently and have different lifespan.  But whether it's true or not, I'd much rather this information isn't spread around.  Many "Religious" men would beat their wives just in hopes of stressing her out sufficiently to produce a son rather than a daughter.  

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4 hours ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

But this is not islamic contry and people don't mind living separately. Here parents want their privacy. 

:) The country where you are living may not be Islamic but you are a Muslim. Parents wants their privacy everywhere not only in your country. But at certain age, they need the care. 

4 hours ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

In pakistan things are different people do make money they just want their parents to feed them. 

Again, you are unable to realize that at certain age parents become dependent of their kids. The kids need to take care of their every need including their food.

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1 minute ago, Salsabeel said:

:) The country where you are living may not be Islamic but you are a Muslim. Parents wants their privacy everywhere not only in your country. But at certain age, they need the care. 

Again, you are unable to realize that at certain age parents become dependent of their kids. The kids need to take care of their every need including their food.

Brother who said people here don't take of their parents. I am going to tell you one thing and very important thing... people here are more religious than people in pakistan. In Pakistan people have no Iman (most of people) everyone is ripping off other people. Nobody is doing there job properly, corruption is everywhere. From a peon to prime minister everyone is corrupt.  

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7 minutes ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

In Pakistan people have no Iman (most of people) everyone is ripping off other people. Nobody is doing there job properly, corruption is everywhere. From a peon to prime minister everyone is corrupt.  

Yes that's why our poet also write the peotry like that:

"Bay imaan, chahoon tujhay subh o shaam"

Will you not appreciate our prime minister(ex) who when disqualified by court of law, says "mujhay kyoun nikala"

 

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On 9/13/2017 at 10:57 PM, notme said:

Haha!

I've read this too, actually.  Supposedly it has to do with the woman's hormonal balance and her body eliminating some sperm and allowing others. They say x-sperm and y-sperm swim differently and have different lifespan.  But whether it's true or not, I'd much rather this information isn't spread around.  Many "Religious" men would beat their wives just in hopes of stressing her out sufficiently to produce a son rather than a daughter.  

How long before a hardliner mullah gets wind of this brilliant piece of scientific research that also inadvertently "proves" the scientific benefits of wife-beating?

Q) Ya shaykh what can I do to have a son?

A) Do the following: pray to Allah and beat your wife every time before you make love to her. Hope that helps.

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salam,

Bismillah

whatever intentions we have Allahسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى knows... even to that minutest intention, thus we can fool all but not ourselves.

Mut'ah is abused! do we seek Mut'ah to seek Allah's pleasure or His nearness or just to fulfill our desires? whatever the case Heسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى knows about. let us not deceive ourselves.

Should (Allah forbid) OP find himself in a wheelchair someday, would he divorce his wife so he won't be a burden for her?

we have desires, yes! desires are the lower self, let go of yourself & be true to your lady, who knows, maybe youe ssalvation is with her

with her chubbiness, it is just a test! Allahسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى man is ungrateful! & in surah dahr Allah says, ' 

Has there also passed on man a period of the endless time when he was not yet a thing worthy of mention?1 Indeed, We created man from a mixed sperm drop,2 to try him,3 and therefore We made him capable of hearing and seeing.4 We showed him the way, whether to be grateful or disbelieving.5

sorry am running late but read surah dahr to understand your position

and am a nothing...

ws

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