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I love the doctors on this site.

 

readers should realise, this is a case of mental health and a psychologically damaged person, that requires rehabilitation. The person is not corrupt or evil, they probably never had the luxuries you had or will have. There is no point in starting your day with the praise of your god as compassionate, when your own minds lack empathy and are self centered to compare evils done by choice to one who is searching for the mercy of mind, to find solace in being normal, while knowing life may never shines its rays on them.

We agree upon being strict and not allowing her to be emotionally manipulative due to her health, which may espouse a poor habit of reliance and lack of responsibility. Our responsibilities are to evoke solution finding not throwing out garbage, perhaps a refresher course on the religions that you all aspire to might assist. And asks your self this simple question, when you all commited sin, should not you all have been caste out and burnt in the depths of hell, yet your Gods took a pity on thou, and allowed respite, but how quick are we to condemn for own praise and safety from the oven.

 

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15 hours ago, Afsaneh14 said:

brother do you think it will be useful to show her this once she recovers? how reliable is this information and is it thought provoking enough for her to at least understand?

You need to wait for a right moment. 

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40 minutes ago, monad said:

I love the doctors on this site.

 

readers should realise, this is a case of mental health and a psychologically damaged person, that requires rehabilitation. The person is not corrupt or evil, they probably never had the luxuries you had or will have. There is no point in starting your day with the praise of your god as compassionate, when your own minds lack empathy and are self centered to compare evils done by choice to one who is searching for the mercy of mind, to find solace in being normal, while knowing life may never shines its rays on them.

We agree upon being strict and not allowing her to be emotionally manipulative due to her health, which may espouse a poor habit of reliance and lack of responsibility. Our responsibilities are to evoke solution finding not throwing out garbage, perhaps a refresher course on the religions that you all aspire to might assist. And asks your self this simple question, when you all commited sin, should not you all have been caste out and burnt in the depths of hell, yet your Gods took a pity on thou, and allowed respite, but how quick are we to condemn for own praise and safety from the oven.

 

You've put this so beautifully, thank you. Everyone should read this post. 

The truth is that your sister is only like this because she has been extremely traumatized and wants to find a kind of "motherly" care and love through being with the same gender. Some people who are gay are that way because their connection with the same-sex parent has been destroyed wether through death of the parent, or not getting enough attention, or if the parent leaves. There's a cycle of thinking, "since my parent left me, then I must be unlovable, so if I learn to love someone of the same gender, then I will feel whole and complete and lovable again." Instead of condemning the person to hell, we must assist that person by

1. Making sure she attends her psychiatric appointments

2. Refrain from talking about religion NOW and waiting until the right time

3. She must seek intensive therapy because this a person who is psychologically traumatized and nothing more. In the words of my therapist, "you put the most stable and healthy person under enough pressure and even that person will break." 

We are not invincible. People who are healthy today may not be healthy tomorrow. How much do you think a 13 year old can take? Stating how orphans in other countries have it worse will never help because

1. You are undermining her feelings and the extent of the psychological trauma

2. You are not proving to be very empathic as people deal with trauma differently. 

I'm sure that if any of you lost both parents when you were young you would show a bit more compassion and probably make unhealthy choices yourself.

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1 hour ago, monad said:

I love the doctors on this site.

 

readers should realise, this is a case of mental health and a psychologically damaged person, that requires rehabilitation. The person is not corrupt or evil, they probably never had the luxuries you had or will have. There is no point in starting your day with the praise of your god as compassionate, when your own minds lack empathy and are self centered to compare evils done by choice to one who is searching for the mercy of mind, to find solace in being normal, while knowing life may never shines its rays on them.

We agree upon being strict and not allowing her to be emotionally manipulative due to her health, which may espouse a poor habit of reliance and lack of responsibility. Our responsibilities are to evoke solution finding not throwing out garbage, perhaps a refresher course on the religions that you all aspire to might assist. And asks your self this simple question, when you all commited sin, should not you all have been caste out and burnt in the depths of hell, yet your Gods took a pity on thou, and allowed respite, but how quick are we to condemn for own praise and safety from the oven.

 

honestly I am so lucky. nearly everyone has shown so much care support and open mindedness. it's only one or two people who are have shown that their minds are still in like 6th century Arabia, and believe they have the authority of God to judge us. but let them. Allah knows best

you have put this in the most beautiful way, than kyou. everyone please take note

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31 minutes ago, Islandsandmirrors said:

 

1 hour ago, monad said:

I love the doctors on this site.

 

readers should realise, this is a case of mental health and a psychologically damaged person, that requires rehabilitation. The person is not corrupt or evil, they probably never had the luxuries you had or will have. There is no point in starting your day with the praise of your god as compassionate, when your own minds lack empathy and are self centered to compare evils done by choice to one who is searching for the mercy of mind, to find solace in being normal, while knowing life may never shines its rays on them.

We agree upon being strict and not allowing her to be emotionally manipulative due to her health, which may espouse a poor habit of reliance and lack of responsibility. Our responsibilities are to evoke solution finding not throwing out garbage, perhaps a refresher course on the religions that you all aspire to might assist. And asks your self this simple question, when you all commited sin, should not you all have been caste out and burnt in the depths of hell, yet your Gods took a pity on thou, and allowed respite, but how quick are we to condemn for own praise and safety from the oven.

 

You've put this so beautifully, thank you. Everyone should read this post. 

The truth is that your sister is only like this because she has been extremely traumatized and wants to find a kind of "motherly" care and love through being with the same gender. Some people who are gay are that way because their connection with the same-sex parent has been destroyed wether through death of the parent, or not getting enough attention, or if the parent leaves. There's a cycle of thinking, "since my parent left me, then I must be unlovable, so if I learn to love someone of the same gender, then I will feel whole and complete and lovable again." Instead of condemning the person to hell, we must assist that person by

1. Making sure she attends her psychiatric appointments

2. Refrain from talking about religion NOW and waiting until the right time

3. She must seek intensive therapy because this a person who is psychologically traumatized and nothing more. In the words of my therapist, "you put the most stable and healthy person under enough pressure and even that person will break." 

We are not invincible. People who are healthy today may not be healthy tomorrow. How much do you think a 13 year old can take? Stating how orphans in other countries have it worse will never help because

1. You are undermining her feelings and the extent of the psychological trauma

2. You are not proving to be very empathic as people deal with trauma differently. 

I'm sure that if any of you lost both parents when you were young you would show a bit more compassion and probably make unhealthy choices yourself.

 

this is really helpful sis thanks so much xxx

I find it so disgusting that people think it is ok to undermine someone's feeling like that.

like I said, she has been missing her psyc sessions, which clearly made her worse. in terms of the gay aspect, the psychiatrist herself is a lesbian, as she explained to me. she will only encourage her to be gay by saying your depressed because you are in the closet.... but I just want her to get better, through any means.  

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2 minutes ago, Afsaneh14 said:

honestly I am so lucky. nearly everyone has shown so much care support and open mindedness. it's only one or two people who are have shown that their minds are still in like 6th century Arabia, and believe they have the authority of God to judge us. but let them. Allah knows best

Do you have any muslim psychiatrist over there? 

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Just now, Ron_Burgundy said:

Do you have any muslim psychiatrist over there? 

honestly, not that I know of, however I will try my best to look. my only problem is that I will have to find a private psychiatrist, and that costs a lot of money, which I may not be able to afford. right now we are using the NHS service, so it is currently free

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1 minute ago, Afsaneh14 said:

this is really helpful sis thanks so much xxx

I find it so disgusting that people think it is ok to undermine someone's feeling like that.

like I said, she has been missing her psyc sessions, which clearly made her worse. in terms of the gay aspect, the psychiatrist herself is a lesbian, as she explained to me. she will only encourage her to be gay by saying your depressed because you are in the closet.... but I just want her to get better, through any means.  

I agree first priority should be her health when she is better and will be doing well you could discuss her sexuality, but i doubt that she is going to listen to you. You could pray for her tho... I know a person who was married to a beautiful woman after 18 years of marriage he realized that he is not into women anymore so he filed for divorce and now he is gay. 

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Just now, Ron_Burgundy said:

after 18 years of marriage he realized that he is not into women anymore so he filed for divorce and now he is gay.

I cannot imagine what that poor woman must be going through. may Allah protect us all

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Just now, Afsaneh14 said:

honestly, not that I know of, however I will try my best to look. my only problem is that I will have to find a private psychiatrist, and that costs a lot of money, which I may not be able to afford. right now we are using the NHS service, so it is currently free

I thought medical is free in UK.... I don't knwo how it works there but if you could find a decent psychiatrist in your network you should consider him/her.

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1 minute ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

I agree first priority should be her health when she is better and will be doing well you could discuss her sexuality, but i doubt that she is going to listen to you. You could pray for her tho... I know a person who was married to a beautiful woman after 18 years of marriage he realized that he is not into women anymore so he filed for divorce and now he is gay. 

Astaghfurullah Rabi watub alaih 

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Just now, Ron_Burgundy said:

I thought medical is free in UK.... I don't knwo how it works there but if you could find a decent psychiatrist in your network you should consider him/her.

only medical care from the National health service. however you can choose private care as well, but you have to pay for that. If anyone knows any muslim psychiatrists in the UK please tell me. I am willing to consider any option

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1 minute ago, Afsaneh14 said:

only medical care from the National health service. however you can choose private care as well, but you have to pay for that. If anyone knows any muslim psychiatrists in the UK please tell me. I am willing to consider any option

Just for your knowledge... I am not recommending anything here but there is a shock therapy I know someone who does that... so they make you watch gay clips and give you shock and i have heard after couple of sessions you will start hating homosexual acts. 

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Just now, Ron_Burgundy said:

Just for your knowledge... I am not recommending anything here but there is a shock therapy I know someone who does that... so they make you watch gay clips and give you shock and i have heard after couple of sessions you will start hating homosexual acts. 

know I don't believe in these therapies personally. I just think they are so morally wrong to put someone through physical pain, when they are clearly already experiencing emotional pain.

also from what I have heard they hardly ever actually wrote. and the likeliness that they offer it here in the UK is really low. probably have to go to Iran or something

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1 minute ago, Afsaneh14 said:

know I don't believe in these therapies personally. I just think they are so morally wrong to put someone through physical pain, when they are clearly already experiencing emotional pain.

also from what I have heard they hardly ever actually wrote. and the likeliness that they offer it here in the UK is really low. probably have to go to Iran or something

Actually thats a good idea you should take her to iran just for visiting tho. Imam Reza (a.s) could show you a miracle. 

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1 minute ago, Afsaneh14 said:

only medical care from the National health service. however you can choose private care as well, but you have to pay for that. If anyone knows any muslim psychiatrists in the UK please tell me. I am willing to consider any option

Sister, I am not sure if you studied recent reports where I read that "gay genes" are lies. 

Just like a human can be molded into criminal, a person can be made to psychologically kidnapped. 

That's how terrorists are made.

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Just now, Ron_Burgundy said:

Actually thats a good idea you should take her to iran just for visiting tho. Imam Reza (a.s) could show you a miracle. 

yes defo. the only problem is that usually when we go to iran we stay with family- but now that family will, undoubtedly, not want to even consider our existence because of what happened. sadly ziyarah packages now a days are so expensive

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Just now, Afsaneh14 said:

yes defo. the only problem is that usually when we go to iran we stay with family- but now that family will, undoubtedly, not want to even consider our existence because of what happened. sadly ziyarah packages now a days are so expensive

@repenter any suggestions for our sister here?

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2 minutes ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

Actually thats a good idea you should take her to iran just for visiting tho. Imam Reza (a.s) could show you a miracle. 

yes defo. the only problem being we always go to iran really cheap, as my family lives there and we stay with them and they take us around ziyarah etc. now that this has happened, family will undoubtedly not even consider our existence, let alone let us travel. we will have to go in a group, and ziyarah packages are expensive. but inshaallah we will be able to go

I really can't wait for Muharram. I feel like it will be a massive milestone for her. for me, muharram is a month of solace

 

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5 minutes ago, Sindbad05 said:

Sister, I am not sure if you studied recent reports where I read that "gay genes" are lies. 

Just like a human can be molded into criminal, a person can be made to psychologically kidnapped. 

That's how terrorists are made.

I sent her a PDF which says that there is no scientific proof for gay gene.

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2 hours ago, Afsaneh14 said:

Yess she already is having pschiatry treatment. I met with her psychiatrist yesterday, as it turned out she herself has not been attending sessions. And just my luck this psychiatrist happens to be a lesbian herself- she told me about her partner, who went through something similar. So hooray ! Just wonderful

Okay, this is most likely where things went wrong. After looking at some movies, reading things, and just reflecting upon this over the past few years, i have come to the understanding and opinion that this is a very dangerous area, which needs to be fully and deeply looked at by muslims. Yes i am talking about these normal psychiatrists. Most of the people are non muslims who have their own belief systems completely opposite to islam. I personally know of a young lady in the mid 20's who started seeing a non muslim psychiatrist. The young lady more or less has left Islam. 

I saw a movie about a psychiatrist as well, there was some lesbianism in that. I'm sorry but i don't know how these people could 'fix' people, they have their own demons and the only thing i can think they'd do is push their world view and opinions on anyone else. 

I am not ruling out psychiatrists, but i would only ever send a loved one who needed one to a Muslim psychiatrist of the same gender. Never to a non muslim.  

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17 hours ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

https://concernedwomen.org/images/content/bornorbred.pdf

 

And right now she should be your priority don't discuss anything with her. Try to be friendly with her and show your love and don't discuss anything. 

@Sindbad05 here you go. 

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1 minute ago, YAli said:

Okay, this is most likely where things went wrong. After looking at some movies, reading things, and just reflecting upon this over the past few years, i have come to the understanding and opinion that this is a very dangerous area, which needs to be fully and deeply looked at by muslims. Yes i am talking about these normal psychiatrists. Most of the people are non muslims who have their own belief systems completely opposite to islam. I personally know of a young lady in the mid 20's who started seeing a non muslim psychiatrist. The young lady more or less has left Islam. 

I saw a movie about a psychiatrist as well, there was some lesbianism in that. I'm sorry but i don't know how these people could 'fix' people, they have their own demons and the only thing i can think they'd do is push their world view and opinions on anyone else. 

I am not ruling out psychiatrists, but i would only ever send a loved one who needed one to a Muslim psychiatrist of the same gender. Never to a non muslim.  

If only I had known about this before. the thing is I also had a psychiatrist who was also non-muslim but the only thing she did was prescribe medication, maybe the occasional bit of advice and check up on me every now and then to see if I was still alive

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"Majlisi, Mohammad Baqir, Biar al-Anwar, various publications, Islamiyah Publications, Tehran, pp . 104, p . 38 . 3) Wallets, purses, wallets, buttons Wallets, purses and wallets Back to section Wardrobes, tableclothes, napkins Back to section Wallets, purses Field filled not right Согласен получать предложения от других компаний Cancel By submitting a question, you confirm your agreement with user agreement goods Countertops made of artificial stone Countertops made of artificial stone Poetry, Muhammad ibn Muhammad, Jamea Al-Akhbar, First Edition, Radi Publishing, Qom, 1405 AH, p . 159 . 4) O'Be'b Abdullah Qal Qal Rasulullah أي امرأة همطببت و منجلة من بتها فهي طلعن Even الله إلي بيتها ماتي ما رجعت »Tabretsi, Sheikh Hassan, Makarem El-Elahlaq, Fourth Edition, Sharif Radi Publications, Qom, 1370, p . 44 . 5) "Pirofhova F'enltsaafh Yazhub al-Sakhymeh" Majlesi, Mohammad Baqir, Bihar al-Anwar, Various Printing, Islamiyah Publications, Tehran, vol. 74, p . 161 . 6) I am the Prophet of the Prophecy of the Immaculate Conception of the Prophet (pbuh), p . 364, p . 364 . 7) Sometimes the bag is interrupted; "Sometimes, it is a matter of time, and it is a matter of time," and the book of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH & HP), the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH & HP), said: "Tabarsei, Sheikh Hassan, Makarem al-Elahlaq, Fourth Edition, Sharif Razi Publications, Qom, 1370, p . 21 . 8) I am Fayyat al-Amalah al-Imalah - Imprisonment for the words of the Qalam al-Dani'ah al-A'f al-Faynar "Majlisi, Mohammad Baqir, Biar al-Anwar, various publications, Islamiyah Publications, Tehran, J73, p . 364 . https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&js=y&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mehrnews.com%2Fnews%2F3723495%2F%D8%A2%DB%8C%D8%A7-%D8%AD%D8%AC%D8%A7%D8%A8-%D9%81%D9%82%D8%B7-%D8%AF%D8%B1-%DA%86%D8%A7%D8%AF%D8%B1-%D8%B2%D9%86%D8%A7%D9%86-%D8%AE%D9%84%D8%A7%D8%B5%D9%87-%D9%85%DB%8C-%D8%B4%D9%88%D8%AF-%D8%A7%D9%86%D9%88%D8%A7%D8%B9-%D8%AD%D8%AC%D8%A7%D8%A8-%D8%B2%D9%86%D8%A7%D9%86-%D9%88-%D9%85%D8%B1%D8%AF%D8%A7%D9%86&edit-text= https://www.mehrnews.com/news/3723495/آیا-حجاب-فقط-در-چادر-زنان-خلاصه-می-شود-انواع-حجاب-زنان-و-مردان
    • What's interesting was that I expected this to be the moral consensus, with our scholars taking perhaps an even more rigid stance. This hasn't turned out to be the case. As @E.L King was mentioning earlier in the chatroom (correct me if I'm wrong), Sayyed al-Hakeem and as-Sistani both have issued rulings declaring human cloning and gene editing, respectively, to be halal in and of themselves, even to the extent of them being used simply for vain purposes like increasing one's beauty.   EDIT: He's beat me to it.
    • hi i my opinion the hijab for women is because of men with illness in their hearts because the first Gate that Shaytan Temps men is from eye & seeing in men. https://www.aparat.com/v/PZit4   Hijab in the Qur'an    What links here ...  Hijab with Fatima Zahra  GG jurisprudential issues  Hijab  Culture > Theology > Religion > Shia > General > Quranic topics  (cached) Concept and dimensions of hijab in the Quran Purpose and philosophy of veil Eye veil Hijab in speech Behavioral Hijab Veil and chastity Elderly Women's Hijab Is hijab an obstacle to all social delinquency? See also: References:

      In the Holy Quran, there are more than ten verses about the veil and the sanctity of looking at the nonhuman . 
      One of these verses is verse 59 of the surah al-Ahzab: " Or Ilah al-Nabi al-Qarlazwuj and Benatk and Nas al-Momenin Iindenīn Alīān, Ibn al-Jadīn al- eqn-e-dān-e-yarfn-fla-yuzin and khanullah ghafūra rahima " (O Prophet, tell your women and daughters, To cover up, to be known and not to be offended, and Allah is All-Compassionate, Merciful.) 
      It means a national cover; that is, a woman must wear all her body so that she is protected as a gentle flower from the swordsmanship. 
      In Sura Noor, verse 31, too, a great deal of talk about hijab and honoring the unworthy look is spoken.  Concept and dimensions of hijab in the Quran The veil in the word means the barrier, curtain and cover. The use of this word is more than the meaning of the curtain. The word covers the concept that the curtain is a cover, but not every veil, but it is called the cover of the hijab through the back of the curtain. 
      The hijab, meaning ladies' Islamic cover, has two dimensions: a positive and negative one. The positive aspect of it, the necessity of covering the body and its diminutive dimension, is the forbiddenness of being revealed to the non-mahram; and these two dimensions should be together with each other so that Islamic veil can be realized; sometimes it may be the first dimension, but not the second dimension, in this case It can be said that Islamic hijab has been realized. 
      If, in the general sense, we call hijab any cover and impeding the receipt of sin, the hijab can have different types and different types. One kind of this veil is mental, intellectual, and spiritual; for example, belief in Islamic teachings, such as monotheism and prophecy, is one of the examples of the right veil, mental and spiritual, which can lead to sins and sins of mind and mind, such as infidelity And Shrek. 
      In addition, in the Qur'an, there are other types of hijab manifested in man's external behavior, such as hijab and cover in the eyes that men and women are advised in the face of the non-Mahram.  Purpose and philosophy of veil The main purpose of the ordinance of the laws in Islam is to God, which is obtained through the cultivation of self and piety:  إن أكرمكم عند الله أتقكم (حجرات; 13) is magnanimous and most honorable to you with God.
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      He is the God who raised among the people of Ammi (a people who did not know the reading and writing) a great prophet from the same people, to recite God's revelation to them, and purify them (from the ignorance of ignorance and ugly ethics), and the book of celibacy and wisdom In fact, before that, everyone was in a state of ignorance and misguidance. 
      The Holy Qur'an is used for the purpose of securing the divine commandment, the requirement of Islamic hijab, to achieve cultivation of the soul, purity, chastity, and purity. Verses like:  Let us convey the believers' eyes to the unworthy eyes and protect their bodies and their bodies, which is the best of their bodies and their purity.   Eye veil O my Apostle, tell the believing men to put their eyes in vain view.   قل للمؤمنات أضضضان من أبصارهن (نور; 31) Tell the messenger to the believing women to cover their eyes with an unwise look.   Hijab in speech Another type of hijab and cover of the Qur'an is the hijab of women's speech versus non-law:  Falla is a great deal of pain in your heart (parties; 32) So do not talk to men with thin, soft lips; lest you fall asleep (sickness and despair).   Behavioral Hijab Another type of hijab and cover of the Quran is the veil of women's behavior against the non-Islamic. It is instructed that women should not walk in ways that would attract unharmed attention by showing their ornaments.  And let our Lah al-Jahran be tempted to blow us away (Ibn. 31), and they should not foot to the ground to reveal the ankles and their hidden ornaments.
      Of the discussed topics, it is clearly used that the meaning of Islamic hijab is to cover and protect the coexistence of women with nonhuman men in different forms of behavior, such as how to cover, look, talk and walk. 
      Therefore, the veil and cover of a woman is also a constraint and an obstacle to nonhuman individuals who intend to infiltrate and capture the honor of others. There is also the same notion of banning and refusing the lexical roots of chastity;  Veil and chastity The two words "veil" and "chastity" are essentially the meaning of common denial and refusal. The difference between prohibiting and restraining hijab and chastity is the difference between appearance and inwardness; that is, the prohibition and inhibition in the veil is related to appearance, but the prohibition and inhibition in chastity is related to the inner and inner, because chastity is an internal state, However, given that the effect of appearance on the interior and the external impact on appearance is one of the general characteristics of man; therefore, between the veil and the apparent cover, and the chastity and inner restraint of man, is the effect and the mutual influence; so that whatever the veil and the covering The appearance and the better, this type of veil is more effective in enhancing and enhancing the inner and inner mood of chastity, and vice versa, the greater the inner and inner envy of the The veil will look better in the encounter with aliens.  Elderly Women's Hijab The Holy Quran has pointed to this impact in a subtle way. First, it allows elderly women to dress their clothes like a tent against a non-sanctuary without the intention of throwing themselves out, but ultimately says: "If they are sober, it even means clothes like tents." Not better.  And Al-Qawada'm Al-Nawa'ah Al-Naha'ah Al-Fayyid Allah Jinnah, the Prophet of Allah, the Exalted and the Most Merciful,
      In addition to the previous relationship, between the apparel cover and esoteric dignity, the relation between the sign and the sign holder is also; that is, the apparent hijab is a sign of a certain stage of esoteric dignity with the owner of the veil. Of course, this does not mean that every woman who wears a veil and a cover is necessarily of all levels of chastity.  Is hijab an obstacle to all social delinquency? Given this point of view, the answer to these forms and the doubts of those who, for the ineffectiveness of revealing the veil and the apparent cover, is to blame the offenses of some women with hijab, because the problem of these women, the weakness in the inner veil And the lack of strong faith and belief in the positive effects of hijab and apparent cover and has passed since the Islamic veil has a wide dimension, and one of its most important dimensions is the inner and inner veil of the person who faces sin and corruption , It enjoys inner convictions and faith; and, essentially, this veil of mind and ideology, as a foundation stone for other veils, including hijab and p It is apparent, because human thoughts and ideas form their behaviors. 
      Of course, just as hijab and overlays do not necessarily mean all chaos, chastity can not be imagined without observing the apparent cover. One can not deny a woman or a man who appears naked or half naked in public, because we said that the apparent cover is one of the signs and symbols of chastity, and between the amount of chastity and veil, the relationship of influence and affection There is mutual. Some consider the relationship of chastity and veil to be a kind of relationship between root and fruit; the veil, the fruit of chastity, and chastity are the roots of veil. Some people may have apparent veils, but they have not created extraneous chastity. This hijab is the only shell and appearance. On the other hand, people claim to be chastity, and they say, "I have a heart-warming heart, God works with hearts," they entertain themselves; such humans must, in their minds, have to point to the essential thing that is within the pure, external It will cleanse and never purify the heart, it will not induce the fruitless fruit of the wilderness.  See also: Hijab with Fatima Zahra  References: Interpretation books  https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&js=y&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&u=http%3A%2F%2Fdaneshnameh.roshd.ir%2Fmavara%2Fmavara-index.php%3Fpage%3D%D8%AD%D8%AC%D8%A7%D8%A8%2B%D8%AF%D8%B1%2B%D9%82%D8%B1%D8%A2%D9%86%26SSOReturnPage%3DCheck%26Rand%3D0&edit-text= http://daneshnameh.roshd.ir/mavara/mavara-index.php?page=حجاب+در+قرآن&SSOReturnPage=Check&Rand=0
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