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Salaam Brothers and Sisters,

 

On speaking to many Muslims I continue to see and here the same problem over and over again. Many Muslim young man are marrying non muslim women and therefore there is a growing number of beautiful muslim women who are staying single for a prolonged time.

 

There needs to be some kind of event, forum, website to successfully introduce brothers and sisters to eachother and inturn inchallah them getting married and our community growing.

 

Does anyone have any ideas?

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yesterday I met really really beautiful girl, she saw my son and said mashallah very cute baby looks like his dad, alas I forgot to take her cell number.  :cry: my wife was with me  :no:  :donno:  :lol:

 

count me in if you plan for section in forum for polygamy.

Edited by Highflyer

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(salam) 

 

Unfortunately the :Muslim women of today have forgotten how to be wives, have got careers instead, don't know how to be mothers, drink fluoride water, take vaccines, think they are men, want love hollywood/bollywood style, don't accept polygamy, don't accept :Mutah, not really interested in being the 313 and are not so beautiful compared to the non muslims.

Whereas all my wives and the wives of my sons are from non muslim backgrounds, reverts, take Islam as a deen and not a religion, don't have careers, accept polygamy, accept mutah, accept the absolute authority of the husband,  and wants him to lead her to :Al-Hujjat (as).

I have not found one muslim woman in my life with the above attributes, except for 1 or 2, unfortunately their parents did not allow them to enter into such marriages.

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Salaam Brothers and Sisters,

 

There needs to be some kind of event, forum, website to successfully introduce brothers and sisters to eachother and inturn inchallah them getting married and our community growing.

 

Does anyone have any ideas?

Salam. If you look at the top of the ShiaChat homepage, there is an ad banner for ShiaMatch.com

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there are already events ( speed dating ) and websites.

 

I suggest, looking at your own personality and asking your self, why do you fear women that you cannot approach them, without appearing like a pervert.

 

Take Highflyer as an example, married, has a kid, but is on the web telling us how he was memorized by a younger female, what do you think that tells us about his personality and mind set?....

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Salaam all,

 

do these websites really work and wow so much animosity towards muslim women. I believe there needs to be an easy way for brothers and sisters to meet. The problems is getting out of control

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Maybe you just suck man, and not women with al the respect. Accept reality and just get a house and a job. It increases you chance for marriage . But all of us want to be this kind of pioneer alof muslim reform in their attitudes towards marriage and maintain this ideal view that aanyone should be able to marry as long as they are religious . Its cool and all , but if you just want to get married just get a house and a job. small chance you wont be finding a wife. Its easier than being a pioneer.

However if you still want to get married quick. Try Moving to a muslim country more muslims there so a bigger chance of marriage.

Edited by El-shia

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