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Must have watched a lecture about (Very) Early Marriage :P

Haha I don't blame the guy though, if I could I would get married right now but yeah. :rolleyes:

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Lol I know and yes i may have listened to this sort of lecture before, but anything is possible so yea you never know :)

Yeah anything is possible but at 14 years old you still haven't finished high school, no qualifications, no job and still living with your parents so you can't support a family or a wife yet. Plus you wont find anyone in today's age marrying their daughter at 14, that's just the reality of it.

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Surely our mullahs r running the best show. I wish they could also put all their words in use, rather than just sitting on this butt n giving lame lectures. i wish if they could actually think of small marriage office to support our youth, get married early (for 18 n Up) . But they dont, they just eat rice n lamb n sit on their fat butt up there ...ya up there, on Mimbar n speak like a Saint :lol:

In the west, there r no islamic funds or offices to support our youth. Irony, we r the cream of shia world, millions go in khums to Sistani from the west. But no funds for us.

The REal Mullah, Ayatollah Sadiq Shirazi (h.a)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vkabJdFamk&feature=related

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In the west, there r no islamic funds or offices to support our youth. Irony, we r the cream of shia world, millions go in khums to Sistani from the west. But no funds for us.

That money doesn't belong to you, so you needn't feel so nostalgic about it.

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Mashallah Brother

you are 14 and you want to get married .

I support you ! go for it . Don't fall into sinning , go get married ...Inshallah with the support of your parents, it will not be hard .

Well I cant say I don't admire your support in encouraging him ^_^ him but let's be realistic, firstly he probably lives in a western country so it's illegal. Secondly were can he find a family willing to marry their daughter at 14 years old? I mean it's hard enough already. Thirdly he probably isn't ready for marriage, if he is just going to marry because of a desire then... I don't think the marriage will be so good. These are just some of the things, but that can be just how I personally view it.

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Well I cant say I don't admire your support in encouraging him ^_^ him but let's be realistic, firstly he probably lives in a western country so it's illegal. Secondly were can he find a family willing to marry their daughter at 14 years old? I mean it's hard enough already. Thirdly he probably isn't ready for marriage, if he is just going to marry because of a desire then... I don't think the marriage will be so good. These are just some of the things, but that can be just how I personally view it.

Maybe around 18, that would be more realistic especially in the current world we live in today.

And I don't want to get married just because of a desire. Lol I just feel that 10 years might be too long

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Maybe around 18, that would be more realistic especially in the current world we live in today.

And I don't want to get married just because of a desire. Lol I just feel that 10 years might be too long

Good that it's not because of a desire, imagine when this conversation takes place:

Wife says "So, why did you marry me :wub: "

You say "Well you see... I was horny :!!!: "

= Divorce

Yeah I don't see why not at 18 because by then it will be possible for you to support a family and yeah, I know what you mean, I have to wait those 10 years too and it's definitely going to be long, but at 18 if you can then you should :)

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Dude Im with early Marriage, but lets be realistic, in the old days people got married at a very young age because they were more responsible and matured faster, these days a 14 year old cant be responsible for himself..so defenitely not for a family..if u dont want sin, i suggest mut'a

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Good that it's not because of a desire, imagine when this conversation takes place:

Wife says "So, why did you marry me :wub: "

You say "Well you see... I was horny :!!!: "

= Divorce

Yeah I don't see why not at 18 because by then it will be possible for you to support a family and yeah, I know what you mean, I have to wait those 10 years too and it's definitely going to be long, but at 18 if you can then you should :)

Lololol :lol: that was really funny especially with the emoticons

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