Im sorry, I didnt realise how emotional i was getting in this matter
You see, I usually think ican distinguish Shia Maulanas from Sunni Maulanas by their looks, so I was just trying to prove that. Sorry if I was offensive.....
Wassalam and have a nice day
Not sure if this has been mentioned yet, but in Ayat. Sistani's risaalah it says (paraphrasing) that men should not imitate women in their dress and clothing (and vice versa - women should not imitate men). As far as whether earrings are themselves "haraam," that's a question for your marja, but that one line in Sistani's risaalah is enough for me to avoid them.