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#1 Syed Hassan Raza

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Posted 03 November 2008 - 08:40 AM

Hello Brothers and Sisters,

Is there any dua's to make someone forgive you and fall back in love with you... I love this girl, we were getting married and our parents had some issues just before the wedding..and our wedding broke off, now she is really upset with me. i love her and i wanna get married. Can anyone please tell me how to make her ok with me again, were not talking...ive prayed so much, ive done a wazifa aswell...but nothing seems to happen...please if there is a dua out there which can make her forgive me and marry me, please let me know..

thanks

Syed Hassan Raza

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Posted 03 November 2008 - 09:42 AM

Salam,

Marriage is bigger than love and attraction; if the marriage broke off before the wedding day how could you gurantee that it will last if you return back to her?

Talking out of context; marriage life is an agreement between two based on understanding and negotiation and for whatever reason this didnt work both should discuss it and either pursue with it or end it peacefully.

It doesnt matter if you love her but it does matter if you both could make a family. after marriage your families issues should not interrupt your lives and for sure should not affect its success if it is truely strong. Leaving somebody because of family issues or anything outside their relationship that was initially accepted is totally unfair.

Love could bring two together but mistrust could take them apart.

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Posted 04 November 2008 - 07:10 PM

Salam,

Marriage is bigger than love and attraction; if the marriage broke off before the wedding day how could you gurantee that it will last if you return back to her?

Talking out of context; marriage life is an agreement between two based on understanding and negotiation and for whatever reason this didnt work both should discuss it and either pursue with it or end it peacefully.

It doesnt matter if you love her but it does matter if you both could make a family. after marriage your families issues should not interrupt your lives and for sure should not affect its success if it is truely strong. Leaving somebody because of family issues or anything outside their relationship that was initially accepted is totally unfair.

Love could bring two together but mistrust could take them apart.


(bismillah)
(salam)

Im throwing the jewel here ..

*recite surah (ikhlaas) tauheed (kul-ho-Allah ho ahad ...) 41 times .Mark the date of beggining as you would need to do this for 90 days consecutively.If you forget one day then start from beggining..

Recitation should be done before going to bed or sleeping

Start surah ikhlaas every time with bismillah (full)


Pray upon completion of 41 times to god almight (every day till 90 days) and do recite salwaat before starting and after finishing

Insha Allah things will get ok for you

thanx..
khudda hafiz

#4 DrEaMa

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Posted 04 November 2008 - 09:52 PM

Salam Alaykum,

Try not to force things, if Allah swt wills it to happen it will. And if it doesn't work out, be thankful to Allah swt. Sometimes we don't understand why things happen at the given time but later on we become grateful. place your faith with Allah swt and let things be.

Fi Amanillah

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Posted 05 November 2008 - 08:21 PM

I was reading this duaa book I've had since i was about 10...........it's BLAATANTLY a paki thing because it's got this particular duaa that says

"recite the name al------- (a name of God) over sherbert an blow in it...then make the one you want fall in love with you drink it"

boy.. as soon as I read that I ran to the shop, bought a can of Fanta and went lookin for Salma hayek.


If she aint lovin you cuzzn then get over it, there's plenty more chicks on shaadi.com

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Posted 05 November 2008 - 08:24 PM

LOL

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 02:39 PM

Hello Brothers and Sisters,

Is there any dua's to make someone forgive you and fall back in love with you... I love this girl, we were getting married and our parents had some issues just before the wedding..and our wedding broke off, now she is really upset with me. i love her and i wanna get married. Can anyone please tell me how to make her ok with me again, were not talking...ive prayed so much, ive done a wazifa aswell...but nothing seems to happen...please if there is a dua out there which can make her forgive me and marry me, please let me know..

thanks

Syed Hassan Raza


Just face it... YOU messed up!! Stop bothering her!!

#8 Aabiss_Shakari

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Posted 11 November 2008 - 02:41 PM

Payer in five time prayers. Inshallah evey thing will be fine :)

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Posted 12 November 2008 - 06:06 PM

Payer in five time prayers. Inshallah evey thing will be fine :)



LOL aren't you the optimist! Khurram Jafri!!

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 12:39 PM

Salam,
Its sad to hear the news.
Just keep up your prayers, and recite Quran everyday. Allah will do what is best for you! So dont worry.
I can udnerstand your situation. Try talking to her to make things right, if she doesnt listen, than leave it in Allah's hand.

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 12:56 PM

Hello Brothers and Sisters,

Is there any dua's to make someone forgive you and fall back in love with you... I love this girl, we were getting married and our parents had some issues just before the wedding..and our wedding broke off, now she is really upset with me. i love her and i wanna get married. Can anyone please tell me how to make her ok with me again, were not talking...ive prayed so much, ive done a wazifa aswell...but nothing seems to happen...please if there is a dua out there which can make her forgive me and marry me, please let me know..

thanks

Syed Hassan Raza


tell them (your parents) if you will not let me marry this girl, i ll marry a sunni girl :!!!:

Salam,
Its sad to hear the news.
Just keep up your prayers, and recite Quran everyday. Allah will do what is best for you! So dont worry.
I can udnerstand your situation. Try talking to her to make things right, if she doesnt listen, than leave it in Allah's hand.


Your Allah has body ? :!!!:

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Posted 18 November 2008 - 12:58 PM

^God! Its just a saying!
Allah's Will
Happy now?!

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Posted 30 November 2008 - 10:29 AM

(bismillah)
(salam)

Im throwing the jewel here ..

*recite surah (ikhlaas) tauheed (kul-ho-Allah ho ahad ...) 41 times .Mark the date of beggining as you would need to do this for 90 days consecutively.If you forget one day then start from beggining..

Recitation should be done before going to bed or sleeping

Start surah ikhlaas every time with bismillah (full)


Pray upon completion of 41 times to god almight (every day till 90 days) and do recite salwaat before starting and after finishing

Insha Allah things will get ok for you

thanx..
khudda hafiz


Do you have some source of it that shows that its from ahl'ul bayet

#14 toocoool66

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Posted 30 November 2008 - 10:44 AM

assalamoallaikom

this is a good site for duas

http://www.duas.org/

may Allah help u all amin

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Posted 30 November 2008 - 03:14 PM

I'm sorry :( I hope it works out for you. I think any dua is fine, just ask Allah for help, and if it does not work out and you are still sad, then patience. If it doesn't work out with this girl I hope you find someone else you like and are happy with

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Posted 30 November 2008 - 07:21 PM

Salam Alaykum,

Try not to force things, if Allah swt wills it to happen it will. And if it doesn't work out, be thankful to Allah swt. Sometimes we don't understand why things happen at the given time but later on we become grateful. place your faith with Allah swt and let things be.

Fi Amanillah



Good answer Dreama


Inshallah everything will work out as you want bro just keep praying

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Posted 01 December 2008 - 01:10 AM

Is there any dua's to make someone forgive you and fall back in love with you... I love this girl, we were getting married and our parents had some issues just before the wedding..and our wedding broke off, now she is really upset with me. i love her and i wanna get married. Can anyone please tell me how to make her ok with me again, were not talking...ive prayed so much, ive done a wazifa aswell...but nothing seems to happen...please if there is a dua out there which can make her forgive me and marry me, please let me know..


Careful what you pray for... you may actually get it :)



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