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I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

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Kay    1

If he/she sees your profile, doesnt it mean your friend is also on it.... :unsure:

so you can make fun of them aswell..... ;)

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(salam)

I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

completely bad exp.... not some thing that i was looking when my friend registered there his details.

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Cee    2

^Lol, let's make a deal, you get me a black shia, I find you a cambodian sister =)

Shiamatch? LOL, how gay!

Edited by Cee

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(salam)

I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

LOL, ws Bro./Sis.

The best thing to do would be marry the guy/girl you like/love cuz most of the time, (i believe) ppl put profiles on SC but most of them arent sincere.

1. Search Yourself. (You can if youre mentally mature enogh to do, but better to leave this to elders)

2. Ask your parents to search for you.

3. Juss keep looking around for a Bakra.

4. Dun register on SM (my opinion), even if you do ask someone in your family to do it for you.

If youre a guy then S'Ok :P

Edited by hussainak

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i don't think it's a big deal, i am sure they will respect your intentions

besides, if they see YOUR profile, then that means they must be on it,right?

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^ you seem to be a democrat :blink:

WHY do you come to that conclusion?

All I'm saying is that it isn't as accurate as it may seem. The profiles are altered to suit one's personal appearance and to externally influence others to subscribe to his or her demands.

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If they broke the laws, they wouldn't be able to continue at all. Isn't it better that they help those who are above 18 to find their spouse, than help nobody at all?

Besides, under 18 should be consulting with parents, ideally.

Actually, I think the Shiamatch br and sis are misinformed about this issue

In the US, at least, age of consent is 16. Some states(I'm not sure which ones) it's 14 or 15.

So if your prospective husband or wife or your age = age of consent for your state or country,

but <18, then you'll need your parent's permission (written permission), but you can still get

married, it's not illegal. I guess there trying to be on the safe side by making it 18. I don't

have any need for the site, but maybe some of you younger br and sis who want to use

it can contact the site admins and let them know about this rule.

If you are below the age of consent, then you can't get married(legally). So for those br and sis

who are in that situation, I suggest you wait a few years.

The sad part of all of this is that younger br and sis use sites like 'Myspace' to 'hook up'

every day but yet, probably if the same ones used something like 'Shiamatch' to find a legitimate spouse for marriage

(instead of a 'fling'), then probably their would be a 'hue and cry' from right wing politicians and others in the US saying

'See, look at those muslims, there trying to marry of underage boys and girls', not realizing that these same 'underage boys and girls' are 'acting married' by using other sites like 'Myspace' and these same 'concerned parents' don't seem to care too much about that. So if 'Shiamatch' does decide to do the right thing and help this group of younger muslims and muslimahs complete 1/2 their religion, they should expect to be attacked by these munafiqs and kaffirs, but we shoudl also be prepared by being informed of the issues.

Edited by Abu Hadi

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WHY do you come to that conclusion?

All I'm saying is that it isn't as accurate as it may seem. The profiles are altered to suit one's personal appearance and to externally influence others to subscribe to his or her demands.

bro, alimohamed40 answered you :angel:

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(salam)

I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

No conincidence there, as a male there is no way i search/look at other male's pic/profiles... You are completely safe

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