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#1 zainally

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Posted 24 March 2007 - 01:16 PM

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I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

#2 Bonafide Hustler

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Posted 24 March 2007 - 01:22 PM

who cares, plus i recommend u go wife hunting outside the internet.

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Posted 24 March 2007 - 03:29 PM

If he/she sees your profile, doesnt it mean your friend is also on it.... :unsure:

so you can make fun of them aswell..... ;)

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Posted 25 March 2007 - 01:27 PM

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It's not safe to give out personal detail on internet. They could be many sickos out there :wacko:

Just use a pseudonym.

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Posted 06 April 2007 - 10:04 AM

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I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.
How can one look for a match then? Any clues?
Zain Ally


completely bad exp.... not some thing that i was looking when my friend registered there his details.

#6 Nevermind

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 01:12 AM

I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match.

There is no worth in that site.

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 11:13 AM

well slightly irrelevant..but umm I know a couple who met on shiamatch.com :wub: theyre the cutest couple everr!! theyve been married since yearsss now alhamdulillah!

#8 Ibn al-Hussain

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 11:18 AM

w0000t! I'm finally 18! I CAN REGISTER @)

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 11:41 AM

^^^ OMG u must be sooo excited!!!!! FINALLY being able to find the girl of your dreams!

Let me know when you find her and she turns out to be the same person then I will think about it. :!!!:

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 11:43 AM

lol any cambodians there

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 01:55 PM

^Lol, let's make a deal, you get me a black shia, I find you a cambodian sister =)

Shiamatch? LOL, how gay!

Edited by Cee, 08 April 2007 - 01:56 PM.


#12 hussainak

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 06:54 PM

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I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally


LOL, ws Bro./Sis.

The best thing to do would be marry the guy/girl you like/love cuz most of the time, (i believe) ppl put profiles on SC but most of them arent sincere.

1. Search Yourself. (You can if youre mentally mature enogh to do, but better to leave this to elders)

2. Ask your parents to search for you.

3. Juss keep looking around for a Bakra.

4. Dun register on SM (my opinion), even if you do ask someone in your family to do it for you.

If youre a guy then S'Ok :P

Edited by hussainak, 08 April 2007 - 06:56 PM.


#13 Wise Muslim

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 07:02 PM

^You guys are lucky, your 18. I still can't register. But honestly, I think the internet is the WORST place to find your match. Lots of people would alter their personalities to suit that certain individual..

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 07:20 PM

^ you seem to be a democrat :blink:

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 08:09 PM

i don't think it's a big deal, i am sure they will respect your intentions

besides, if they see YOUR profile, then that means they must be on it,right?

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Posted 08 April 2007 - 09:27 PM

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who said marriage age is 18?

thats so stupid how can they call that shia match?

isnt shia match should folow shia law?

it should be called "western appologetics match"

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Posted 09 April 2007 - 12:49 AM

^ you seem to be a democrat :blink:


WHY do you come to that conclusion?
All I'm saying is that it isn't as accurate as it may seem. The profiles are altered to suit one's personal appearance and to externally influence others to subscribe to his or her demands.

#18 Abu Hadi

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Posted 09 April 2007 - 07:48 AM

If they broke the laws, they wouldn't be able to continue at all. Isn't it better that they help those who are above 18 to find their spouse, than help nobody at all?

Besides, under 18 should be consulting with parents, ideally.


Actually, I think the Shiamatch br and sis are misinformed about this issue

In the US, at least, age of consent is 16. Some states(I'm not sure which ones) it's 14 or 15.
So if your prospective husband or wife or your age = age of consent for your state or country,
but <18, then you'll need your parent's permission (written permission), but you can still get
married, it's not illegal. I guess there trying to be on the safe side by making it 18. I don't
have any need for the site, but maybe some of you younger br and sis who want to use
it can contact the site admins and let them know about this rule.

If you are below the age of consent, then you can't get married(legally). So for those br and sis
who are in that situation, I suggest you wait a few years.

The sad part of all of this is that younger br and sis use sites like 'Myspace' to 'hook up'
every day but yet, probably if the same ones used something like 'Shiamatch' to find a legitimate spouse for marriage
(instead of a 'fling'), then probably their would be a 'hue and cry' from right wing politicians and others in the US saying
'See, look at those muslims, there trying to marry of underage boys and girls', not realizing that these same 'underage boys and girls' are 'acting married' by using other sites like 'Myspace' and these same 'concerned parents' don't seem to care too much about that. So if 'Shiamatch' does decide to do the right thing and help this group of younger muslims and muslimahs complete 1/2 their religion, they should expect to be attacked by these munafiqs and kaffirs, but we shoudl also be prepared by being informed of the issues.

Edited by Abu Hadi, 09 April 2007 - 07:57 AM.


#19 hussainak

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Posted 09 April 2007 - 09:22 AM

WHY do you come to that conclusion?
All I'm saying is that it isn't as accurate as it may seem. The profiles are altered to suit one's personal appearance and to externally influence others to subscribe to his or her demands.


bro, alimohamed40 answered you :angel:

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Posted 09 April 2007 - 01:06 PM

^Oh, you were reffering to my age. Well, yeah, I prefer to adhere to the laws of the land. In this case it's an online rule, and I can't break it.

Edited by Wise Muslim, 09 April 2007 - 01:07 PM.


#21 Logic

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Posted 09 April 2007 - 06:11 PM

(salam)

I came across a thread here relating to Shia Match. My question is, if you created a profile on Shia Match and one of your friends comes across it by coincidence, he will make a lot of fun of you. I will definitely not like that.

How can one look for a match then? Any clues?

Zain Ally

No conincidence there, as a male there is no way i search/look at other male's pic/profiles... You are completely safe



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