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  1. hi, not sure when we spoke last......must have been couple of years. lot happened since then......hope you are happy and doing well. How is ur daughter?

  2. salaam,

    if you read my post it says "i will give you an example that the brother who started this thread gave me" (so i got that example of prophet dawood from the person who started that thread (i dont even remember anymore who it is) but perhaps you can contact him. sorry...if i find a quote i will pass it on to you.

  3. oops sry...u posted it on page no. 2 :)

  4. dear sis...i found this post on "NEED A SUPER DUPER POWERFUL DUA" page......there u posted this comment on page no. 3.....so plz if u could help me out where did u find this??

  5. Salaam Alaikum, One year is nothing, people try for a few years often before conceiving. Definately stress doesnt help. You can find all the medical info on tips to help conceiving from your doctor or even online, there are a few things that help with it, that Im not going to post on here. As for Duas, people usually make mannats or nazr of hazrat ali asghar (each tradition has its own ways). There is a book called "A Mothers Prayer" it has excellent duas and is an amazing book it talks about before conceiving, after conceiving etc (unfortunately i lend mine to a friend so Im not sure if it has any duas for conceiving) but I will give you my miracle dua for every thing....(recite ziyarat-e-ashura every day for 40 days or more) and inshaAllah your duas will be fulfilled. wasalaam sis ansoo
  6. Salaam Alaikum, First of all, I totally agree with the last post, DO NOT marry her if you can not get over her sexual past. She had sex three times with a guy, whether it was rape, whether she enjoyed it, whatever the reason was, it's a fact, she had sex 3 times. Can I tell you something though...this is a sin between her and Allah, it's actually none of your business. WHAT IF she didn't tell you? What if you get married to this perfect hijabi girl and 10 years into the marriage you find out she had a bad past, so what? Sometimes in life, we need to learn to let go of things not in our control. Its not like she cheated on you, because you and her did not have a relationship. At the moment, you are not much different from her, because you are having a relationship with her (you are telling her you love her), Im assuming she is na-mahram to you, in which case your words and feelings to her are not exactly halal, so she committed physical sins and you're committing emotional ones. If youm really want to lead a good Islamic life, the first things is that you should decide if you want to be with her and turn this relationship into a halal one and encourage her to turn herself into a good muslim by turning this relationship into a halal one and by observing hijab and modesty infront of na-mahrams. Maybe she did everything she did for reasons you dont know or can not understand. You can not live anyone's life for them, believe me, you were not in her shoes. Its very easy for us to accuse others and assume things about others but we can not imagine how difficult it must be for that person. I can not stress enough...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE....if you can not find it in your heart to let go of what she has done, then DO NOT marry her. Theres no forgiveness between you and her because she didnt do any sin against you, the repentance is between her and Allah swt and if I remember correctly in dua abu hamza thumali there is a verse something about how if we forgive what others have done Allah will forgive our sins (pls dont quote my source for this). Again its not forgiveness between you and her, she didnt have to even tell you. BUT this is not a pity party....dont think that if I dont marry her no one will. All that nonsense dies as soon as you have your first fight. Marriages go through a lot, there are periods where you hate the person more than anything in the world, and periods where you love the person more than anything in the world. If you can not find yourself to let go of her past you will end up hurting her by bringing this up when you are at the period of hate, and that will shatter her emotionally and mentally, and when you have kids, your kids will suffer too. Take it from A LOT OF experience, you will not be helping her in anyway if this is always going to be in the back of your mind. If you want her to be a good Muslim you need to take the first step, remember monkey see monkey do, we all elarn by examples. If you can not let go of her past pls end this relationship before it gets worst. wasalaam sis ansoo
  7. salaam sis,

    I got your msg. Im not sure what you're referring to (it must have been a long time ago) anyways can you do me a favour and send me the entire post or thread and perhaps it would trigger my memory as to where I got this from. Most of my posts were written a few yrs ago, when i was crazily on the computer and always responding, reading and researching passionately (u...

  8. Prophet Dawood was told that his son would die and so he prayed to Allah to stop the death, but his son still died so he stopped praying. And then he was told "O Prophet Allah, do you not believe that We can give life to the dead?".

    sister plz tell me that in which surah did u find this???it would b so nice of u.

  9. VISIT THIS FORUM

    A Global Campaign For Zahoore Immam-e-zaman (ajf), Trying to make an effort for the quick return of our beloved Immam

    and post ur comments. thanks.

    http://www.shiachat.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=234951799

    if we love IMAM E ZAMAN ajtfs then we have to do some thing that shows our love for him.

  10. (salam) I'm looking for a contact for Shaikh Ansari who resides in Windsor, Ontario. If anyone can please pass me the phone number, that would be great. JazakAllah sis ansoo
  11. salams sis :)

    It would be a pleasure to have you as a member on the ShiaSisters.net Forum!

    www.shiasisters.net/forum

  12. 3id Mubarak. May Allah (swt) bless you and please remember me and my family in your duas, InshAllah.

  13. Hi..i duno if u read and got my mail???i hope u r doing fine..tc..bye

  14. Kabhi ham miskeenon' ko bhi salam keh diya karain.

  15. ^Thanks!! nebita: How do you know the shoppers (life brand) doesnt have gelatin? I cant seem to find info on it on the net. Also, I checked out some other brands of prenatal vitamins, I think have to be really careful because a lot of them have yeast extracts and too much of that can cause yeast infections. While some doctors might tell you that its not uncommon to have yeast infections during pregnancy, if its too often or left untreated it can spread in the cervix too. I'll see what else I can find...
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