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cubster

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  • Birthday 04/15/1985

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  1. Topics in hidden sections on a forum are not searchable. I am on a forum with hidden sections for males and females as well as another hidden section so that members can post and ask questions they do not want searched and it works. The report button will not help anything. Its not about creating an elite club, its about creating a place within the forum where sisters can post freely, without having to worry about the prying eyes of brothers. Where a sisterhood bond can be formed because sisters feel able to share information, ask questions etc without having to worry about brothers seeing what they are posting. I've seen threads on menstruation and what not in here. Sure, these are topics that men may come across in real life but its not something that you can discuss comfortably knowing that men are reading what you post. Even with anonymity. In real life, you don't always control your surroundings. We live in a world that is increasingly mixed. Woman have to go out to work and you have to mix with men at work, at school, everywhere. I doubt sisters are walking into the men's prayer area in the masjid, because thats what you make it sound like. Where we can be segregated we are. We can be segregated here. Its not rocket science people. Just create two hidden sections that allow access for males and females to each section. Problem solved!
  2. It is possible to make the sections hidden and to give access to members to each section exclusivley. I came across this on a gaming forum I was on years ago and I moderate another Muslim forum where we have this in place and it works very well. The only schlep is that the mods have to do this for each member. What we do is have a thread where members can request permission to join which ever section they want and the mods give that member access. The post is deleted after and no spam is allowed so that it is always clean and easy to maintain. The respective sister and brother mods moderate the forums they have access to so you don't lose that aspect in the hidden sections.
  3. Have you tried doing dhikr before you go to sleep. That will keep your mind occupied and should help inshaAllah
  4. I still maintain that SC should have the Brothers and Sisters Sections hidden. Access to the respective sections is restricted; for example members would need a certain number of posts/ and have spent a certain number of time on the forums to gain access. Mods can have power over admission. If someone chooses to create a new account and pose as a Brother/Sister just to get in, then they will have to deal with the consequences on the day of judgement. They would also have to be really crazy to put that much energy into making people believe that they are a brother or sister. With the chat feature and if someone is regular enough you can tell if they are female or male. But my point is, hide the sections.
  5. salam, salawat bar

    Mohammad wa Aalay Mohammad

    may Allah bless you on your birthday

  6. VISIT THIS FORUM

    A Global Campaign For Zahoor e Imam-e-zaman (ajf), Trying to make an effort for the quick return of our beloved Imam.

    and post ur comments. thanks.

    http://www.shiachat.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=234951799

    if we love IMAM E ZAMAN ajtfs then we have to do some thing that shows our love for him.

  7. salaams sister. I ahve a question. What does apartheid have to do with the lady in your sig?

  8. thanks for the birthday wishes all the way back. I suck with the internet :P

  9. happy birthday again *teehee*

  10. Reading Pms

    No, its like for some reason the PM is blank. They're from different people. Its just weird.
  11. lol yeah. *giggle*

  12. and to think ill meet you here *teehee*

  13. :lol: Oh my what next?!? Kaka wears an "I Belong To Jesus" T-shirt in every game he plays lol...
  14. Reading Pms

    Okie so this sounds trivial, but for some reason, when I open my PMs they don't have the message content in them :blink: Is it just me?!?
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