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  1. I mean a full relationship, which I completely know was the wrong thing to and it should have never happened but I never knew that we can not marry ever if this happens
  2. Does this mean there is no way around my situation? Is it absolutely impossible then?
  3. Salam Alaikom, I have a question and I was hoping someone would be able to direct me or shed some light on the matter. I was married a couple of years back but it did not work out and we got divorced. However before the divorce we were separated by about 2 months (I cannot remember the exact time period). During that time I met a guy and we developed a relationship. Now I have heard before that its not permissible for a women to have a relationship while still married but that is all i knew. I never knew the exact reasons behind it. However it was couple of months after my divorce that I found out that if you have a relationship while still being married or during the 3ida' period, you can never marry that guy and he is forbidden to you. But I never knew that, I just knew that it shouldnt happen, but I never knew he will forever be haram for you and you two can never get married. He is sunni and I think sunni's don't believe in that or they dont have that concept, but I know to shias that its an actual thing. After finding out, I kept it to myself in fear that it will ruin our relationship, I was scared of losing him. But now we want to get married, but I dont know if we can. Can someone please help me or tell me if its true and if so, is there a way around it? I cant bear the thought of losing this guy but at the same time I want to live with him the halal way and have kids, I dont want to live in sin! I would appreciate your help