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  1. Is Istikhara mandatory before marriage

    Why do you think you are in a lonely state? We are followers of Allah, AhlulBayt a.s and Imam Mehdi (a.s). Our belief is in presence and help of our Imam of our time. When Allah s.w.t has said in quran "وَلَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا الْإِنسَانَ وَنَعْلَمُ مَا تُوَسْوِسُ بِهِ نَفْسُهُ ۖ وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ الْوَرِيدِ - 50:16" And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein" He is closer to us than our jugular vein and knows what our soul whispers to him, why do you feel alone then ? also many sisters from this forum ( including yours truly) are with you, there is no need to feel lonely or lost. Trust in Allah, ask for a halal relationship ( ask your parents, aunts from mothers / dad's sides ) and I am 100% sure you will find a great partner. Live your life, but just keep doing two things (1 wajib prayer and 2 Ziyarat -e- ashura) and Imam Hussain a.s. has himself said he will take care of the person who reads ziyarat-e-ashura for 40 days.
  2. Is Istikhara mandatory before marriage

    my opinion, which I posted earlier is, that neither you, nor your family can find true closure by talking to him, his parents or anyone in particular. You can find revenge, not closure nor justice. And seeking revenge should never be a part of us. We have the best example of all our Imams for this. Only praying to Allah s.w.t can bring you closure and justice. As I PMed you, trust in Allah, and read ziyarat e ashura, everything will fall into place. 100 % agreed to this. Block him, delete him, cut him off completely. You have to be strong and pray when weakness comes. You will find happiness and satisfaction at the end of this tunnel.
  3. Going to Hajj - money to Saud Family ?

    I am not a brother I would be very uneasy if I knowingly missed a prayer.
  4. Praying Salat with Sunni's

    ofcourse, I am not against it, nor am I saying not to participate in it..but I would like to pray in the safety and away from "bad-looks" of others
  5. Should we have kids if we live in the West?

    1. Yes always think beforehand you bring kids into this world in any enviorment 2. There are good / bad things in all environments, its upto parents to guide and inform their kids towards the right path and make them understand why things are good/bad. Good parenting trumps all environments and challenges 3. We are believes of Al-e-muhammad s.w and Allah swt , so use knowledge and ilm to present your arguments and reasoning to kids instead of force and they will never try to rebel against logic and reasoning.
  6. Going to Hajj - money to Saud Family ?

    lol..I am saying MY mind would be much more at peace. Maybe, I know MY mind more than you buddy.
  7. Will Israel-Hizbollah war break out?

    Please read again..US and UK allowed jews and Holocaust survivors ( jews) to join Israel ...otherwise Israel wouldve getting beaten badly - "During the 1948 War, around 10,000 Jews were forced to evacuate their homes from Arab dominated parts of former Mandatory Palestine.[226] But in the three years from May 1948 to the end of 1951, 700,000 Jews settled in Israel, mainly along the borders and in former Arab lands,[21] doubling the Jewish population there.[227] Of these, upwards of 300,000 arrived from Asian and North African nations.[228][229] Among them, the largest group (over 100,000) was from Iraq. The remaining came mostly from Europe, including 136,000 from the 250,000 displaced Jews of World War II living in refugee camps and urban centers in Germany, Austria, and Italy,[230]and more than 270,000 coming from Eastern Europe,[231] mainly Romania and Poland (over 100,000 each). On the establishment of the state, a top priority was given to a policy for the "ingathering of exiles", and the Mossad LeAliyah Bet gave key assistance to the Jewish Agency to organize immigrants from Europe and the Middle East, and arrange for their transport to Israel. For Ben-Gurion, a fundamental defect of the State was that 'it lacked Jews" Israeli Forces 1948[173] Initial strength 29,677 4 June 40,825 17 July 63,586 7 October 88,033 28 October 92,275 2 December 106,900 23 December 107,652 30 December 108,300
  8. Praying Salat with Sunni's

    I would pray at home...because I want to much rather pray openly, without fear, without judgement, without any issues and with peace of mind , where I can concentrate on Allah s.w.t and the sacrifice of Imam Hussain a.s , that he gave his head and family just so that I can bow before Allah and which allowed me to still practice this religion. end of.
  9. Will Israel-Hizbollah war break out?

    "America was not there"....ofcourse it was..it had just been fighting the Nazis in the world war and was providing security to the jews running away from them...lol America has always funded, supported and helped Israel. Ofcourse not saying American doenst want Israel..but its not because of Israel being the superpower ...instead its the opposite. The sheer number of forces Arab countries have, and the fact that its surrounded by muslim countries, if muslim countries wanted ( and they werent in bed with America in the back channel), Isreal wouldve had no chance to succeed.
  10. How to avoid haraam in western world

    If you are a practicing muslim in Iran, you can easily be a practicing muslim anywhere else. If you wanna commit sins, you can do that anywhere in the world aswell. After a certain age ( when you become an adult, I believe that the environment stops affecting you that much and you can practice and focus on what you want)
  11. For what reason Saddam Hussain was Hanged?

    Shia's killed him ? id you miss the whole American invasion of Iraq in 2003 ? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2003_invasion_of_Iraq American killed him.
  12. Will Israel-Hizbollah war break out?

    lol...Israel's countless victories...Israel doesnt need America...lol..The day, the day america even for a second backs out of supporting of Israel, it will no longer cease to exist. Israel is america's b----, every kid knows this.
  13. Khums

    what does most Marajes say about it ?
  14. Hafez Al-Assad, America's ally

    US wont let an anti-us regime settle in anywhere...they simply dont want another iran
  15. Why will Allah punish the non-believers?

    Just my opinion below : I think for you to be a non-believer, you need to know what you dont believe in...i,e they got the message, but still choose to be a non-believer. If you never got the message ( this is another discussion that does everyone get the message in one way or the other) , you are ignorant, not a non-believer..i,e you dont know what you dont believe in..kinda like explaining a color to a person who has never seen..he doesnt know what he hasnt actually ever seen
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