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Hamodiii

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  1. I disagree, sorry, but no! If you are that bad, Allah would not have guided you. Stop lying to yourself. Inshallah you are loved by Allah, closer to Allah than any human being. Respect. Repenting ain't easy.
  2. It is a test from Allah, testing you, stop worrying, and its time to be pious.
  3. The benefit of Polygamy is that the women tend to work harder to satify her only husband, It is in her nature, kind of cute tbh. But putting that aside, since when did women want more than 4 males to live with? She is usually attached to one character, that is in her nature. She can't let go, but when she does let go, she never goes back. Women are really independent, I can really see that, that is why they are always chasing, been there, gone through a lot. They can supports themselves but they need this manhood in their life, that is what life is all about, the marriage is perfect in that way, and she only needs one, but the man tend to like to have more than one, but that is just who we are as men, but that does mean we should get more wives. Polygamy exists even cause to protect the women who does not have support, secondly it exists cause to protect the men to do zina even though they have a wife, we have a high imagination, imam khomeini told the truth when he said, if women knew how we see them, then they would wear a suit of armor.
  4. Agreed, but if we do wrong, Is it ok for you do wrong as well? :O Just cause one sins, you should not follow him, right? That is childish thinking. Both genders are wrong. Men have desires that women needs to accept, and men need to accept the women for who they are, If she says no, then its a no, but that does mean she should say no all the time, then what is the point of marriage? I rather be single than having a wife who does not listen.
  5. The question is... Is this even possible? Women are senseitive, and gets jealous easily. It is not possible, only if you find two pious women, or serval.
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    Now ... l Want to Know . . .

    Brother, you can get all my money for free.
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    Iraq Election Results

    Why do people hate maliki? Only cause he agreed upon the death of saddam? If you hate saddam, you should love him? :/
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    My First Ramadan

    DUDE DATES! EAT A DATE! Highly recommended.
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    Baby Boy Name

    Brother, you never find a better name than Ali, or mahdi. God bless you.
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    Divorcing infertile husband

    It is usually the opposite, where the men tend to leave the women! You found a daimond, and you want to lose it for silver only cause you get bronze with it for free? That is what I am reading. Meaning your furture husband has probably judgemental thoughts about you when you talk to him, and this will affect your life further on. D What would Fatima Zahra do? What did Imam Hussein do when he was against Yazid? I wanna run cause I want to survive? No! Sayida Zainab said if this pleases you to Allah, then take more. And I think stop complaining, and start seeing the good things.
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    Thoughts 2018

    People seem to forget the month of shabaan and the month of Rajaab, they are important stage to ramadan. People only put effort to remember imam Hussein in muharam, but what did I hear? Every day is a ashura, people will soon realize that life would not be about complaining with time. Months are there but people fail to realize the meaning of the months. We cry when we fail a test, and we have parents whom care more about status, but what if we for once look at Imam Hussein, what was his agenda? What was he fighting for? Cause If he was fighting for fame.... Then dude, then you should not consider to be muslim.
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    Thoughts 2018

    Women should look at themselves in the mirror thinking I am looking nice instead of looking at themselves, and thinking I am ugly. Secondly instead of thinking this is my body I can do whatever I want with it? Think like this, this is my body and I am beauitful and no one can touch it only the one who deserves it, in this case your husband, you have a power, don't ruin it. May Allah be with you. Men should look at themselves in the mirror and instead of having low esteem, they should feel confident cause surely Allah loves the strong, and in the mirror remind yourself you are not an animal who rushes to animal desires, cause surely they are vain desires, and surely women are not objects that belongs to you, surely we all belong to Allah, the one true God. Thank you, ShiaChat.
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    Thoughts 2018

    Why are people not grateful for what they have? Me included. May Allah change every ungrateful person.
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    Criticize the user above you

    I wonder if your heart as black as your profile picture.
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    missing someone

    It takes real courage to asks for help! That is one reason why you are strong, stay happy! May Allah be with you.
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    Thoughts 2018

    Death is always right behind you.
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    Thoughts 2018

    Constant astagfurillah is good.
  18. What are your thoughts about men? Use a rate of 0-10, like what do you guys prefer? And what kind of characteristic does he need to be worthy?
  19. Well said, but I wonder if people are down to do that.
  20. You complete your religion through marriage, why? It is cause you find your second half, meaning that men can be weak and feel strong with her, and she can feel safe despise her problems. If she really is independent then why does every woman who is over 30 depressed? :/ ''Men don't want us.'' I wonder why? That is quite ironic. Note that even men need emotional support, but some don't want to admit it, makes them look weak, but surely here I am telling the truth. Men are weaker than females, but society does not let them talk, that is why they keep silent, but despise this I hear ungrateful females complain. Which is absurd.
  21. No, It is in arabic as well. Generally in fact. Well, I never it had a gender, but generally the woman's job is to be a housewife, and the men provide, which gives the task a gender? And if she does not want to be one, then I don't mind. She is free to do whatever as long it is not out of Islam.
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    Oneness of Allah

    Ever heard the phrase ''You don't understand the oneness of Allah without loving Ahlulbayt.''? How true do you think it is? I find it logical, cause it is our duty to love them.
  23. Not true, but generally we men tend to be more stronger and that is why our duty is to provide food to our kids and wives. Secondly women tend to be good at certain things, and likewise for men. Men have their strong suit, so does the female, the task may not have a character but we make it have one, which ends up with a character. Like we call clocks for a female, ''She is 11 pm.'' Got me? But people refuse to admit that there is a difference between a female and a male. I mean Imam Ali (as) used to help Fatima Zahra (as) in the household, but he did not do everything. That duty belonged to her, which we can read and see how they lived, may Allah bless them both. Only Allah has no gender, yet He says that ''He is the most merciful.'' With other words, he is claiming indirectly that men tend to be the protector and provider. In fact women are much more attractive when they are weak, but not too weak to the point of depression. Weakness in them shows how strong we are, we tend to like to have control, (Maybe it is only my belief, who knows?) and we will be grateful that Allah created us men strong.
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    starting from scratch

    When you run a mile, and you win, how does that feel? Now you converted, you won, don't let things stress you, and cmon I bet you are strong enough to attend prayers, and something alike. You are only weak in your eyes, surely Allah sees you as a precious human being capable of doing anything If you obey him. May Allah bless you, just like he blessed ahlulbayt. Take that aside. I am impressed in your courage, and facts are clear that you seem to love shia islam! Good luck! From this absurd guy.
  25. I hate fathers like that. They are arrogant, I really despise them, Inshallah things turn to normal. Cause remember that Allah loves the patient, and indeed Imam Mahdi is indeed waiting for us. Hope this experience does not change you as a person. Recommending to you to talk to Imam mahdi or the imam or the member of ahlulbayt you are close to, just like you talk to us. Surely, they have a god-given knowledge that we normal people will never achieve, and through them you can reach Allah. May Allah bless you.
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