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  1. confused about my job

    As sincere as you think this problem is, I agree with Monad. It sounds like a retail job? Just go in, do your hours and leave. If you don't even like music, you won't focus on it in the background. If you don't like how they talk, don't talk to them. I'm sorry but this is hardly hardly a problem. Your faith isn't in danger though? You still don't like music and you still don't curse. If you don't like the place and being there makes you uncomfortable, then find another job FIRST an then leave. Don't leave with hopes that a job will fall into your lap. I have a funny anecdote.. Once there was this guy drowning at sea and he thought- it's okay, God will save me. A boat comes past and tries to help.. the man refuses. "God will save me!" he says. A second boat comes by.. same thing. Third boat.. Eventually, he dies. At the gates of heaven he asks God " Why didn't you save me!" God replies "I sent you three boats!"
  2. Confessions...

    My dissertation topic submission date was 8th december.. I still havent chosen a topic.
  3. Tough Guys Wear Pink

    Whoever voted false is a h8r. #swag
  4. Help

    In my duas inshallah ! Next thing you know your wife will be back home and you'll have your lovely daughter in your arms, ameen ya rab!
  5. Confessions...

    Just a post where you can take a load off your mind and just make a confession. That deep dark secret thats been haunting you for years.. Free yourself off its shackles and come and confess! (Note: This is just a lighthearted topic, if you have a confession that requires legal/professional help, please refrain from posting and seek the right outlet/guide)
  6. Thoughts 2017

    i have a research methods postgrad exam on friday and half of it is statistics and the other half is like qualitative and quantitative data and i hate it all.
  7. Why Is Allah Doing This to Me?

    I wish I had that much devotion and knowledge about my religion when I was 14! Mashallah bro you need to give yourself more credit. You're stronger than you think. I'm not sure what the problem is so I can't correctly guide you, but my main advise to you is no matter what happens- don't leave your salah. You said yourself how salah is quite a strict pillar in our faith, so you already know of its importance! Thats great, try to stick to it, no matter what. This problem may be tough but inshallah you are able overcome it لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا“Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…” (Qur’an, 2:286).
  8. Jaw Surgery in 6 days.

    In my duas for sure, inshallah it all goes well! Have you made a decision?
  9. The american health care system is a joke. It completely baffles me how someone can be denied life because they cannot afford it. Just think of how many people have died in the US simply because they cant afford medication. Heck- there was a whole TV series about how someone started making and selling crystal meth just to pay their healthcare bills!! (Breaking bad, obvs) I just googled it, and an average cost for a c-section in the US is $50,000 !?!!?! ITS FREE IN THE UK. I remember watching some documentary years ago, and basically if you go into A+E, you arent denied help.. I think its free aswell. And there was this woman with cancer, or something wrong with her lungs.. Anyway, she couldn't afford health care but when things got bad she was taken to A+E and they would sorta just temporarily heal her and send her home. She said it was horrible, it was like dying slowly. By the end of the show she had passed away. It was sad and shocking.
  10. Can I have mutah with different men?

    Lool does it really matter who it is? They posted something something people replied, khalas. If it's a genuine question, cool I hope you got your answers. If the person isn't genuine.. I really envy the amount of time you have to waste!
  11. Can I have mutah with different men?

    Don't do that. Shes come on here to ask a genuine question about something that is allowed in our deen and is approved of by God. Don't try to degrade her. Everybody is different. Alhamduliah you found your life partner at a young age and you are happy. Maybe the sister has zero interest in long term marriage and wishes never to get married. It is not haram. Like sister notme- you could give islamic knowledge on what is permissible and how it works, but also some friendly islamic advice on why it is not encouraged. But at the end of the day everyone is free to do as they wish. I'm sure the sister that asked the question is old enough to make her own decisions.
  12. Anyone with ADHD?

    Judge-y much? I appreciate your concern bro. I didn't take loads over a long period of time, and like I said- I'm not dependent and was never addicted. When I shared my first comment, I genuinely wanted to know if OP wanted an opinion from someone who doesn't have ADHD but has taken the medication. We've all made mistakes and done things in the past, at least I was honest. I didn't think saying something would have someone with a "holier than thou" attitude jump down my throat. I thought this was a forum where I could be open and honest with open minded people, but at least I know better now.
  13. Anyone with ADHD?

    If you don't have ADHD and you take it, it helps you become super focused. Many students take it for studying. I know, you shouldn't take any medication if not prescribed for you. But all the cool kids were doing it. (I say this in jest, I wasn't hooked, dont worry!)
  14. What do you do when you're home alone?

    My mum do chores?! When I still live in the house?! Never! (except laundry coz I hate laundry) .. but to be fair I iron and fold so...
  15. Anyone with ADHD?

    I don't have ADHD but I took the medication- does my opinion count?
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