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Asra02

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  1. Hijab

    Salam alaykum! I live in the west too, or i used to. I moved to Iraq this summer and i wear abaya now but not the one over the head. anyway. I wore the hijab when I was 11 years old and I was so proud. I still remember how my mother smiled at me because I choose to wear the hijab on My own, it was my decision. She was so proud. I couldn't stop thinking about how much Allah SWT would be smiling at me, because he loves me more than My own mother and he loves you more than your own mother loves you. Wouldn't you be glad if Allah SWT would smile at you, your creature? You might have low selfesteem but that will only make Allah SWT more happy, because he knows how hard it was for you. My cousin wore it when she was about 20 years old. She did really want to wear it but she had low selfesteem. exactly like you but she did it anyway, she wore the hijab. She was so proud of herself. You will feel that too. Nothing is easy. You asked if it's halal to wear jeans with a long top. It is halal because you live in the west and it's normal there. No one will pay attention, but if you wore that in a arabic country every singel guy would be staring. Therefore it isn't permissible to wear jeans and a long top in those countries. I really hope that I could help you and inshallah you will wear hijab.
  2. Cosmetics

    I know there are more females that put makeup on their faces but that doesn't make it permissible. Foundation makes you a little bit more beautiful therefore its not allowed. It's a few females that don't put makeup but it doesn't change the fact that it is haram. I follow sayyad al sistani and according to him no makeup is permissible except mascara. Thats according to al sistani but not everyone says the same, i think.
  3. Sinning intentionally

    What i've heard is that if you commit a sin intentionally and then repentance and ask Allah SWT for forgivness with your whole heart you will be forgiven. Even if you commit the same sin a hundred times. You will be forgiven as long as you will keep coming back to Allah SWT and repentance. Allah SWT is the most forgiving and the most merciful. He forgives anything except when you hurt another person, unless that person forgives you. If he forgives you Allah SWT will as well forgive you
  4. Anime

    If it delays you to do what Allah SWT has commanded you to do (for example praying in time) then it's haram. If not then you are allowed to watch anime.
  5. Cosmetics

    It's not permisseble to put any makeup on your face except mascara, according to sayyad al sistani. I hope I could help
  6. Fear

    Allah SWT is the most forgiving. He forgives everything if you truly, with your whole heart repentance. The only thing Allah SWT doesn't forgive is when you hurt another person. If that person doesn't forgive you Allah SWT won't either. If that person forgives you, Allah SWT will as well forgive you.
  7. Hijab

    @Ron_Burgundy you are supposed to help her, not to make her feel bad. If you live in the west and are a muslimah and wear hijab, some people will stare and some will even be rude. They will treat you different. That's insluting. Maybe she can't handel that. How do you have the heart to tell her that she's bad because she have a weakness? This might be easy for you but it's not easy for everyone. She might be strong at something that you are weak at so you don't have the right to make her feel bad.
  8. Hijab

    Salam alaykum! I live in the west too, or i used to. I moved to Iraq this summer. anyway. I wore the hijab when I was 11 years old and I was so proud. I still remember how my mother smiled at me because I chose to wear the hijab on My own, it was my decision. She was so proud. I couldn't stop thinking about how much Allah SWT would be smiling at me, because he loves me more than My own mother and he loves you more than your own mother loves you. Wouldn't you be glad if Allah SWT would smile at you, your creature? You might have low selfesteem but that will only make Allah SWT more happy, because he knows how hard it is was for you. My cousin wore it when she was about 20 years old. She did really want to wear it but she had low selfesteem. exactly like you but she did it anyway, she wore the hijab. She was so proud of herself. You will feel that too. Nothing is easy. You asked if it's halal to wear jeans with a long top. It is halal because you live in the west and it's normal there. No one will pay attention, but if you wore that in Iran every singel guy would be staring. I really hope that I could help you and inshallah you will wear hijab.
  9. Fed up

    There is not anything wrong with you. Some people hate muslims thats just the way it is. I don't know if its because you are muslim but it could be a reason. You can always ignore them. Don't even pay attention. You don't need them. The only person you need is yourself. Be good even if they are rude, kill them with kindness. I've gone through the same thing but i didn't care, i didn't pay attention. Don't let this bother you. Isn't there other muslims in your school? maybe you should try to talk to them?
  10. swedish muslim

    ja e oxÄ svensk muslim ;)
  11. Treatment

    Salam sister! You need to listen to the holy Quran. It helps, a lot. Listen every night or before you'll be around people. I used to have social anxiety too. Salah and sabr made it all go away. You just have to be patient. Make dua to Allah SWT that he removes it and inshallah it will be removed. I will make dua for you as well. You have 2 options either seek help or turn to Allah SWT
  12. I understand how you feel, i really do. I've been where you are at. But do you know what sticked me together? salah, salah is what sticked me together. To convert to another religion is not going to do things better. You might think that at first and maybe the first 2 months or so you are going to feel great but I promise you the pain will still be there. What's going to do things better is salah. It will calm you down and make you feel better. So what if the people are rude? Kill them with kindness. You need to learn more about the religion (islam). You need Allah SWT you don't need to convert to another religion. Allah is testing you. Don't fail this test. Be patient. Allah loves the patient. If the people doesn't like you what about Allah? Don't you want Allah to love you? Are the people more important than your religion? I understand that you are in a dark place right now but you are not alone. To convert to another religion is not going to change that. It's not going to change anything
  13. Debt (sort off)

    you can give it back to him and then ask him and Allah to forgive you
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