MariyahLaleh

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  1. Salaams: Ok what are the rules and how does a basic old person such as myself obtain a signature? is there a point in time where I will not be monitored and have every post scrutinized, Just curious is all, I dont see that information posted for new member to the forum. Thank you
  2. if you read that in an English translation I would say that that was erroneous. The verse that you are referring to does NOT state that in Arabic. Arabic takes a skilled scholar to accurately translate it to a passable English statement. I know its erroneous but am not skilled enought to translate that as well as I am NOT a scholar. Could you please share with us the name of the person who translated the version you are referring to?
  3. Wa alaikum Asalaam. I feel for you sister. But the person to ask is someone you really respect or is more knowledgeable in Islam. [Personal information was edited out.] My request to you sister is this: If you are in a country where Islam is not the majority religion, you may need to look into all possibilities. I know you stated that you have. When you say you love him, have you met his family, his friends? Take a female companion and your Turbah, go attend a noon Jummah meeting in the masjid he attends and see how you are treated by the other sunni women. Let them see you pray as a Shia, do not hide it. And I would advise you to consult with a Shayk or learned person of your comfort and see if this is a viable choice. First and foremost, Supplicate and inquire to Allah SuhanAllah Wa ta'ala. if you are receptive, He will answer. Do not marry in haste. May you be shown the path that is most correct for you dear sister. ma'Salaama.
  4. Asalaam alaikum. Rappers are using names in these verses more as a political tool. They also are using the names of some of the prophets. In their world use of these names are not limited. I simply may email some of these rappers and let them know their use of holy prophets and of Allah is not appreciated. I don't know about blasphemy but I know of some individuals from my Sunni past that would take exception to the use. Best to consult a marja?
  5. This is an excellent topic..If there could be higher than five stars JakakAllahu
  6. Wa alaikum Asalaam. I feel for you sister. But the person to ask is someone you really respect or is more knowledgeable in Islam. I was born Sunni hanafi, and was married to a like minded person in my first marriage. We had five children together and he died when I was 28 and had these five small children alone. I went to school for nursing in those two year I remained a widow. Life was difficult alone, and my uncle and brother were always looking for a suitable remarriage prospect for me. In the sunni world it never came. I was still young but most men did not want the burden of dealing with my five orphan children. I was expecting to have to hoof it and spend the rest of my life alone. Then came T.... My current husband who has Alzheimers and cannot remember some things. The Shia Jafari honorable man who took on a lonely 30 year old widow with 5 small orphan children and who treated them as he did his four daughters by his first marriage. For this we were blessed with one son together. He always encouraged me to have them (my five sunni children) attend programs in their fathers madhab, and to raise them with their fathers name and heritage. I was not always well received in the Sunni masjids after that point. I was even told to my face that I was kafir and that my marriage was invalid and I was committing zina because my husband was Shia. Funny how not ONE shia had ever treated me in that manner in all the years I would accompany him to the various Majlis and programs during the years I have been married to him. I made a decision to migrate to the Jafari madhab this past Muharram. It actually has been a 20 year journey. My request to you sister is this: If you are in a country where Islam is not the majority religion, you may need to look into all possibilities. I know you stated that you have. When you say you love him, have you met his family, his friends? Take a female companion and your Turbah, go attend a noon Jummah meeting in the masjid he attends and see how you are treated by the other sunni women. Let them see you pray as a Shia, do not hide it. And I would advise you to consult with a Shayk or learned person of your comfort and see if this is a viable choice. First and foremost, Supplicate and inquire to Allah SuhanAllah Wa ta'ala. if you are receptive, He will answer. Do not marry in haste. May you be shown the path that is most correct for you dear sister. ma'Salaama.
  7. What I have found in this walk in life in my 59 years is that humans can and will change if the basic elements are in place. This lady at least loves her husband enough to "fake it" by making the effort to go to an Islamic center and reciting the Kalima, or testimony of faith and belief. Possible just this act may either make or break her Atheist beliefs. Only God, Allah, knows what is in her heart and knows the condition of her heart.She may find something meaningful in this visit. To a person in the right heart condition there is nothing quite as beautiful as an adhan calling the faithful to prayer in a musllim land. It calls to people, and the shia Adhans are for the most part breathtaking. Inshallah this lady will at least find God in any way, and reignite the love of her husband for his Rabb,
  8. I have to agree on that one. Astaghfirullah. Reading Nur (24:1-31) would solidify that statement.
  9. This is a View according to a quote in a publication featured on Al-Islam.org the hadith referenced is from a Al sunnah hadith collection. " Based on a parallel (Mutawatir) tradition upon whose authenticity all Muslims agree, the Messenger of Allah (S) informed his followers in several occasions that he would leave them two precious/weighty things and that if Muslims adhere to both of them, they will never go astray after him. They are the Book of Allah (Qur’an) and the Members of the House of the Prophet (Ahlul-Bayt), peace be upon them all. It is narrated in Sahih Muslim as well as many other sources that: Someday (after his last pilgrimage) the Messenger of Allah (S) stood to give us a speech beside a pond which is known as Khum (Ghadir Khum) which is located between Mecca and Medina. Then he praised Allah and reminded Him, and then said: "O’ people! Behold! It seems the time approached when I shall be called away (by Allah) and I shall answer that call. Behold! I am leaving for you two precious things. First of them is the book of Allah in which there is light and guidance...The other one is my Ahlul-Bayt. I remind you in the name of Allah about my Ahlul-Bayt. I remind you in the name of Allah about my Ahlul-Bayt. I remind you in the name of Allah about my Ahlul-Bayt. (three times)." Sunni Reference: • Sahih Muslim, Chapter of the virtues of the companions, section of the virtues of ‘Ali, 1980 Edition Pub. in Saudi Arabia, Arabic version, v 4, p1873, Tradition #36. • And many others such as Sahih al-Tirmidhi, Musnad Ahmad (see below). For the English version of Sahih Muslim, see Chapter CMXCVI, v4, p1286, Tradition #5920" Link to view: https://www.al-islam.org/shiite-encyclopedia-ahlul-bayt-dilp-team/quran-and-ahlul-bayt If you want to confirm that this is correct, I suggest you either reference it in Arabic or a pre Saudi influenced English translation, I found the Turkish translation in my Dayi (uncles collection of hadith volumes which were my grandparents from the Ottoman Era) to say this very statement. Allah knows best.
  10. Insha Allah
  11. Asalaam alaikum-I too traveled from the Hanafi madhab to the Jafari madhab, You should check online at Al-Islam.org for an online collection of PDF Books and publications by knowledgeable people and leaders. type in your search question and go. I have found following the Alhul Bayt comforting and simple contrasted to all the confusion of the school I was previously following. Welcome to the forum https://www.al-islam.org/feature/why-they-became-shia You can obtain some literature at this book if you like your books in hand: https://shop.al-khoei.org/collections/Books
  12. Then we will eat the bear: wait, he probably is not halal....;
  13. Afwan, Insha'Allah
  14. Shukran Jazillian. I am rather relentless in my self education. I Too share your views on what you mentioned. It took me a month to get rid of that "ameen " after the sural al hamd.
  15. I will not be a basher, but can answer about Sunnis in My part of the world. I was born and raised in the region near Adana, turkiye near the Syrian border.