Jump to content


Basic Members
  • Content count

  • Joined

  • Last visited

About 5araName

Profile Information

  • Religion
    Muslim shia

Previous Fields

  • Gender
  1. Salam Is it haram for a guy to Call a girl ugly and hurt her feelings? I while ago I liked a guy and I was stupid enough to tell some people that i considered my friends. They ended up telling everyone and Then he found out. He found me on facebook and told me that if i was pretty he Would have felt sorry for me. He kept telling me (in arabic) that i was as ugly as a shoe and that he has never Seen anyone with such a high level of ugliness. Obvioussly this really broke my heart and I know that what I did was wrong and I totally admit it and I have also asked God for forgiveness. But I was just wondering if he committed a sin by telling me this?
  2. Imam Ali quotes

    Salam, Does anyone have really good quotes about knowledge and learning by Imam Ali?
  3. Salam, Is it haram to be attrackted to the opposite sex even though they are not doing the act? Like lets say that a girl is attrackted to other girls but she does not come near girls in any seksual matter. I was just thinking that some people can not control their feelings and what they are attrackted to. I mean Allah put that in them. But is it still haram just to have the thoughts in your head even if you still pretend to like guys?
  4. Nose job

    Salam I just want to ask if it is haram to get a nosejob? I absolutly hate my nose and i have been bullied so much because of it. I really want to get a nosejob but i dont Think that it will ever happen because i am afraid that it is haram. I follow Sayed Mohammad fadlallah and i Think that according to him it is allowed. Anyways, so my question is, is it haram or not?
  5. Dream meaning

    Salam I have a dream on my mind that i had a long time ago. When i was about 14 i used to cut myself because of depression ( i know that selfharming is haram) and it once got out of control and the cuts became deeper and more serious. Then i dreamed that the skin on my leg was gone and i could see my flesh and bones. I do want to point out that i eventually stopped even though i still suffer from depression. (I am 18 now). But i never really Got this dream explained. So Does anyone know what it meant?
  6. Why am i so ugly

    I did suffer from depression i few years ago and i even used to cut myself. But i came over it and now i am a mentally healthy person but sometimes i just dont feel good about the way i look. But i for sure dont have depression.
  7. Why am i so ugly

    Salam I know this is a weird topic but i am really tired of how ugly i look. I pray, i fast, i wear hijab and long clothes (mostly black). I do everything that a muslim should do but i just still hate myself inside and out. So many people even my mom tells me that i am ugly. All my friends even people who i dislike are so much prettier than me. I am not trying to get attention from guys but when I am with my friends all the guys look at them and say that they are pretty besides me. Two guys told me this other day that I am ugly ( this really happend). This makes me really sad. I hate going outside because of this and I even wonder if I will ever get married. I just turned 18 and i feel like i am just getting uglier and uglier. So i just want to ask if anyone knows a Duaa that Can make me prettier? I know this is stupid but i just want a solution.
  8. Mentally abusive parents

    You know exactly what i mean. I did study but there will always be a subject that i am bad at more than another.
  9. Mentally abusive parents

    Salam i just went to an exam and i Got a bad grade. (I Got a D) And when i came home and told my parents they started yelling at me. I know that all parents get upset when their child gets a bad grade but my parents overreacht. They told my that i suck at everything and that i dont study and stuff like that. So far i have gotten pretty good grades. But when i get a good grade they dont Seem to Care as much. I have been crying for the past two hours because of their yelling. They are telling me really horrible stuff. So finally my question is, is it ok in islam to mentally abuse your child until they have a breakdown? and what they are telling me cant be described. I honestly Think that if it wasnt haram in islam to comit suicide, i Would have done it a long time ago. I have to go through this every single year. And No i am not overreachting. I am really sick and tired. i do want to point out that i am 17 years old.
  10. Exam

    Salam I have an exam tommorrow that I am soooo nervous about. I dreamed that a Got a 4 on that exam which is the same as a D. I live in Denmark so the grades are Different here. I do want to point out that my mom gave me a dua this other day and Said that if i read it and Pray i might see which grade i will get in my dream. First night i didnt see anything but this night i Saw that i Got a 4 (D). Does anyone know what this means? What Does the number 4 mean in a dream and am i really gonna get this grade?
  11. Looking too old

    Thank you for your answer. But do you Think it is more right to wear more islamic kinda clothes or should i wear something that is more tight fitting and more western
  12. Looking too old

    Salam There is something that makes me really really sad which is the way i look. I am a 17 year old girl who likes to wear long and black clothes for the sake of my religion. I dont like to show off my body at all. I dont wear makeup unlike my other friends. But what really makes me sad is that because of the way i dress and look, people Think i am way older than what i actually am. A girl once thought that i was my dads wife. And whenever i tell my teachers that i am only 17 they get really surprised. And today a guy at my school thought that i was 27 and he also told me that i look really ugly. To be honest this made me cry alot. So i was just wondering if i should change the way I dress and start wearing make up? Or should i just ignorere what people say? and i want to point out that i am lebanese and that i live in Denmark. And the boy that i was talking about is syrian.
  13. Dua for finals

    Salam does anyone have a Duaa for exams? i have 7 finals comming up and i am reallllllllyy nervous so i am looking for a Duaa that Can calm my nerves and give me good grades. i Can read arabic but i am not that great so a short dua with translation Would be Nice
  14. Beating children

    Hi i just want to ask if it is haram to beat or hit your child and mentally abuse them? My parents used to hit me A LOT when i was younger. And i am not talking about just smacking me, they Would literally beat me and it hurt a lot. And they Would even call me fat and stuff like that. It Got to a point where i was not allowed to enter the kicthen and eat. I ended up having depression and i started selfharming when i was about 13 or 14. So i just want to ask is Allah going to punish my parents or is this ok in islam?
  15. Dream meaning

    I had a dream that i was shot in the back and then i died as a shahide. Does anyone know what this means?