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  1. salam freinds suppose you marry with someone and after marriage you find out your spouse was a transsexuall and now she/he is a woman or man! what's your reaction? do you cut off this relationship or continue?
  2. تنها مسیر - استاد پناهیان

    این مرد این همه محتوا رو از کجا میاره؟فوق العاده است پناهیان...البته شنیدم یه گروهی داره که بهش کمک میکنن
  3. Islamic education

    https://sites.google.com/site/studyinqum/Home/StudyingInQum and http://www.shiachat.com/forum/topic/235036391-hawza-in-qom/
  4. 1- Let's FEEL the resemblance of Night of Destiny to the Resurrection Day If we contemplate a bit, we can sense the similarity of the Night of Destiny to the Resurrection Day. The Night of Destiny resembles the Resurrection Day since that's when the fate of individuals will be set, and the entire past (life) of a human would be evaluated and his/her future would be sketched, with the exception that there is no loss of face during the Destiny Night, and there is still the opportunity to bounce back as God's mercy and compassion is ALL OVER. 2- We need to be optimistic and not settle for less The loving God has established the night of power so that we can compensate all of our shortcomings. We should not be pessimistic about forgiveness of any of our sins, and remain hopeful about satisfaction of every one of our wishes. We should not be satisfied in our prayers and pleas with less, since if some of our wishes are not in our interest, the Lord will grant us something better. No pleas or prayer would be discarded and if we could, we should only wish to have "Him," Himself. 3- Be restless for God The great God has stated himself in the Qur'an that the Night of Destiny "is better than a thousand months" (97:3). Let's make the Night of Destiny the time when the best memories of our lifetime are realized. Let's be restless for achieving intimacy with the Lord on the Night of Destiny and only think about what He expects from us. 4- When the faithful resembles the sinful, the sinful resembles the faithful The faithful ones should present themselves before God as if they are sinners with empty hands, and the sinners, just like the faithful, should pray before God with a heart filled with certainty about God's ultimate kindness and generosity. [Remember,] if God did not intend to forgive us, He would not call on us, and if He wanted to make it difficult, He would not raise the divine rewards of the Nights of Destiny so high. 5- Absorbing God's compassion through [our] kindness to others We should pray for others and invoke the names of our friends one-by-one, and don't forget all those in need of [our] prayers. When God observes our kindness toward others, He extends his compassion to us even farther. Let's empty our hearts from grudges and sincerely forgive each other, so that God would forgive us more easily. 6- Let's be generous Let's pray for success and honor of our nation and for the prosperity and development of our country. Let's not limit our prayers and pleas to the closed and tiny circle of ourselves and our family, since God would be more pleased with those of his servants that exercise patient and generosity and treat them more graciously. We should also pray for all the oppressed across the globe, particularly the oppressed faithful of the region and wipe their painful tears and ease their suffering through our prayers. Let's also support our combatants in the front line of resistance with our prayers. 7- Looking after the needy, being kind to relatives We should sincerely pray for all the sick, particularly our acquaintances, and take care of the poor and remind relatives of our love. We should genuinely pray for others before they ask us to do so. 8- Kindness to parents, pray for the spiritual father Let's not lose sight of the best actions on the Night of Destiny. Ask our parents for forgiveness and be kind to them and tearfully ask them to pray for us. If they have passed away, pay alms on their behalf and pray for elevation of their status before God. We should also ask people around us to forgive us and pray for us. We should also pray for our leader, who is the spiritual father of the society, and for the satisfaction of his invocations, as Imam Sadeq (PBUH) has urged for praying for the leader. 9- Ask for a decent job and the destruction of sources of poverty Plead for your own prosperity and a good career. The faithful should be able to enjoy a decent life so that they would not resort to sinful measures due to poverty and unemployment, and they would never forget to be mindful of the Lord. We should also pray for the destruction of the oppressors of the world since they are the sources of global poverty. 10- Join the gathering of people If we want to pray and meditate in solitude during the nights of destiny, we should at least spend part of the night among public gatherings of people, since this is closer to being humble (before God). This way, we can also benefit from the illuminating light stemming from the good intentions of the faithful in our midst. There is no shortage of people who make peace with God during these nights. The loving Lord then shares His ultimate compassion among all those attending these assemblies. There is no shortage of people in love with God that will be covered by His special grace [during these nights], along with all those sitting beside them. 11- Mood-appropriate prayer Try to recite any invocation or plea that better connects your heart to God and invoke those supplications that put you in the right, tearful mood – although shedding tears is not an absolute condition for answering of prayers, they do provide the best circumstances for satisfaction of our pleas. 12- A bit of Qur'an During the Nights of Destiny, which marks the birth anniversary of the holy Qur'an, it would be appropriate to recite the Qur'an and quench our thirst by its verses. One of the best ways of reading the Qur'an is the recitation of Qur'anic verses during the daily prayers. Let's not lose sight of reciting the Qur'an in this most respectable way. If we have not memorized the verses, we can read it off the book. 13- Reflecting and self-assessment We should also spend some time for meditating and evaluating our carnal desires. Just by feeling remorseful for our shortcomings and regret the waste of our past life, God will take us back in His arms and gently caress us. God likes to compensate us for our entire pastime. 14- Thinking about the moment of leaving life and reviewing our will We should also make time (during these nights) for thinking about the hereafter and the time of our passing. Let's go over our wills and take seriously our glorious journey to the hereafter. If we felt afraid or alone, we should then take refuge to God, so that He would calm us down. We should not, however, try to remain calm by losing sight of our eventual demise. 15- Let's not be neglectful of thinking about and invoking Imam Ali (PBUH) We should also dedicate a portion of our time for reflection – which is the highest form of worship – to thinking about the master of the faithful, Imam Ali (PBUH) and the sufferings that he endured. We should try not to lose sight for even a moment of this oppressed personality who was so dear to the grand prophet (PBUH), and be mindful of his hardships and sorrows and circle around his home like a butterfly and worship God the entire Night of Destiny beside his aggrieved children. 16- Feeling the presence of the living Imam We should treasure every single moment of the Night of Destiny and from the beginning of the night consider ourselves at the presence of the living Imam (Mahdi (PBUH)), and under the bountiful mercy of God. The Nights of Destiny are short during summer time. We should better prepare ourselves to make the best use of these nights by eating less food. 17- Do a bit of planning for the future We should also spend a little time at the end of the down to reflect on how we are going to improve our behavior in the future. You should set brief but permanent plans for the year ahead and plead for God's assistance to help you along in putting your plans into action. The will to change your behavior is going to stabilize your repentance pledge. 18- The third Night of Destiny is the night to pray for the coming of Imam Mahdi (PBUH) If we spend the 19th night of Ramadan mostly for repenting, and dedicate the 21st night to pray and make intimate invocations, let's devote the 23rd night to pray for the savior of humanity and the coming of our dear master [Imam Mahdi (PBUH)]. Let's step out of our home for him, who is the actual home owner, and dedicate our time during the 3rd Night of Destiny for the living Imam so that we can state: "O son of Hassan, we have devoted the best of our time to you, so you too dedicate your best prayers to us." When you pray wholeheartedly for Imam Mahdi's coming, the imam too will pray for you. When you shed tears for his loneliness, your master will shed tears for your hardships. When you're living in comfort and you pray for the sufferings of the oppressed and the disadvantaged across the globe, angels would be proud of your existence. 19- Pray for a good destiny and martyrdom At the end of the night, pray that our destiny will turn out well and if anyone desires, beg God for "martyrdom." [Remember], pleading for martyrdom will not shorten anybody's life; it will only boost the individual's morality and his spiritual power and bring a person closer to the master of martyrs – Imam Hossein (PBUH). 20- Making the pilgrimage to Imam Hossein's tomb By the way, if anyone is able to, he should visit the shrine of Imam Hossein (PBUH) every night, and if he couldn't, he should state three times from afar: "peace and blessings of God upon you o Abi Abdullah (Hossein)(PBUH)." This will win him the same [divine] reward as if making the pilgrimage. Convey greeting and recite 'Fatiha' for all the martyrs, particularly the heroic martyrs of defending the holy shrines, since we owe our livelihood and security to them. I beg for your prayer AliReza Panahian* * Famous Iranian scholar of Islamic studies & ethics, especially among youth & collogue students, for more than 2 decades https://telegram.me/PanahianEN
  5. The First Time salat

    سلام این پاسخ دفتر آیت الله بهجت هستش: با سلام خدمت شما دوست عزيز ضمن آرزوي قبولي طاعات و عبادات با بررسي هاي انجام شده چنين فرمايشي از حضرت آيت الله بهجت در اسناد اين مركز نمي باشد و باپيگيري كه از شاگردان و بيت معظم له شد منبع موثقي براي اين مطلب يافت نگرديد لذا انتساب آن به معظم له تأييد نمي گردد مركز تنظيم و نشر اثار حضرت آيت الله بهجت
  6. The First Time salat

    با سلام،برای همین جمله ای که به ایشون منتسب کرده اند میشه مثالهای نقض زیادی پیدا کرد از اونهایی که به نماز اول وقت اهمیتی نمیدادند اما هم کار خوبی دارند هم ازدواج کرده اند و هم بچه دار شده اند در سنین جوانی. تقوا ایجاب میکنه اگر انسان اطمینان خیلی بالایی از صحت یه گفته یا شنیده نداره اون رو منتشر نکنه،چون باعث مدیون شدن میشه. آیا اگر چیزی عقلانی باشه میتونیم به قرآن یا احادیث اضافه کنیم؟ خیلی از احادیثی که به ما رسیده از طریق آدمهای مختلف و سینه به سینه بوده،مسئله این نیست که یک عالم شاگردهای زیادی داشته و با شش واسطه ممکنه ما یک حرف رو بشنویم اما باید آدمها و واسطه ها مشخص باشن و بین مردم به تقوا و درستی مشهور باشن. من حتی یک نفر را پیدا نکردم که بگه این حرف رو از زبان آیت الله بهجت شنیده من وظیفم بود که بگم.... با سپاس.
  7. The First Time salat

    ممنون،از کانال بازدید کردم،حرفی از لیمو شیرین نیست،سایت های مختلفی رو دیدم اما بعضی جاها به سایت روضه نیوز ارجاع دادن که اونجا هم هیچ منبعی ذکر نکرده.علمای ما به این راحتی از کسی نقل قول نمیکردن اما متاسفانه بازار داستان و خواب دیدن و نقل قولها خیلی داغ شده و آدم به راحتی نمیتونه اعتماد کنه و منتشر کنه مخصوصا اینکه باعث ضمان میشه و مدیون به این حضرات اولیای خدا خواهیم شد.
  8. Can I go to hawza and study for a degree at once

    salam may Allah help you here you are: http://en.miu.ac.ir/index.aspx?fkeyid=&siteid=4&pageid=2080
  9. The First Time salat

    سلام بزرگوار،مسئله این نیست که نماز اول وقت خوبه یا بده...در نیت خوب شما هم برای انتشار این مطلب شکی نیست... ولی اینکه بدون سند به اسم علما حرفهای خوب بزنیم کار اخلاقی نیست که البته مقصر اولین نفریه که این مطالب رو به ایشون منتسب کرده. من منظورم این بود که آیت الله بهجت این حرف رو نزده. حتی اگر حرف درستی باشه. یعنی اگر شما اسم ایت الله بهجت رو از بالای مطلب برمیداشتید مسئله ای با رفرنس و مرجع نداشتم. من جستجو کردم و بعضی از جاها این مطلب رو منتسب به ایت الله بهجت کردند اما هیچ منبعی نیست که بگه ایا واقعا ایشون این حرف رو زدن یا نه...مثل فیلم یا کتابی یا نوشته معتبری ممنون از پاسخهای شما.
  10. Doubts regarding some practices with turbah.

    " ثم ضع خدك الأيسر وتقول: " يا مذل كل جبار ويا معز كل ذليل قد وعزتك بلغ بي مجهودي " *correction
  11. Doubts regarding some practices with turbah.

    because this is mentioned in hadith: علي بن إبراهيم، عن أبيه، عن عبد الله بن جندب قال: سألت أبا الحسن الماضي (عليه السلام) عما أقول في سجدة الشكر فقد اختلف أصحابنا فيه؟ فقال: قل و*أنت ساجد: " اللهم إني أشهدك وأشهد ملائكتك وأنبياءك ورسلك وجميع خلقك أنك الله ربي والاسلام ديني ومحمد نبيي وعليا وفلانا وفلانا إلى آخرهم أئمتي بهم أتولى ومن عدوهم أتبرا، اللهم إني أنشدك دم المظلوم - ثلاثا - اللهم إني أنشدك بايوائك على نفسك لأوليائك لتظفرنهم بعدوك وعدوهم أن تصلي على محمد وعلى المستحفظين من آل محمد اللهم إني أسألك اليسر بعد العسر " ثلاثا، *ثم ضع خدك الأيمن على الأرض وتقول: " يا كهفي حين تعييني المذاهب وتضيق علي الأرض بما رحبت ويا بارئ خلقي رحمة بي وقد كان عن خلقي غنيا صل على محمد وعلى المستحفظين من آل محمد "* وتقول: " يا مذل كل جبار ويا معز كل ذليل قد وعزتك بلغ بي مجهودي al-Kafi, volume 3, page 325, hadith 17 dar-al-islam publishing recite special dua in three stages: 1-when you are in sojud 2- then place your right cheek on the ground 3- then place the left cheek
  12. Doubts regarding some practices with turbah.

    It is better to perform "shokr sojud" after the prayers.and If turbah is made of Imam Hossein's soil has excellence and revere . But generally torbah is a piece of pure land has been made to this form for ease of access and have no any holiness. some muslims after salah put and rub their both sides of their forehead on torbah as a sign of humility to Allah.
  13. Child violence

    salam may Allah help you if possible during getting report card ، It is recommended you hide with every way such as trip, going to a friends house or relatives and etc. we had a same thread may help you
  14. Revert: Convince me Shia is correct

    http://www.islamquest.net/en/archive/question/fa2163
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