Salam I am really unhappy with how things are with my marriage. I feel like sharing with someone. I discussed with a sheikh about a problem that I was facing. My husband does not fast or calls religion boring whereas me I talk about religion a lot and it is a clash between us. He said he gets sick when he fasts and I have seen him not eating at all till near maghrib time. I questioned him about it and he quickly said he does get sick if he doesn't eat or drink at all. The sheikh told me to convince and if nothing works , I should leave him. The leaving idea was a shock because I am not perfect myself in anyway, I can only try! This is one of the reasons why I am not happy with my marriage because I can't share anything related to religion with him. I wish I could . Few other things that I am unhappy about are a) He keeps telling me I can't do anything in life b) I have seen his profile on shiamatch and seen him active( the last seen). The profile said he has never been married before. When I asked him about the account. He said he hasn't accepted a single request , his account does not work because he paid for it in UK and doesn't work anymore. c) He owns a business , no job but whenever he travels , he asks me to go back home . It has been hardly few months to my marriage and he said that's his work nature. so i am mostly home. d) My inlaws are totally disconnected. They haven't called me to ask about me. Though my father requested them to treat me like their daughter. They said they will. It hasn't been like that e) Since I am sensitive, I do get moody like shut off when he talks negative about me. He keeps telling me to change my behavior and I said I am ready too if he changes too! We both need to make an effort to change things. I am kind of in a phase to give up on everything. I don't feel being married. It is because of lack of respect and care I am getting. During our fights, he completely switches off, he won't pick up my phone. He told me I am not his responsibility when I am at my place. I feel alone and realize it was a wrong decision to marry this person. I have kind of lost peace within. help.