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  1. Asalam. At times, when a person can not truly understand their selves they should not look for a spouse. If you are not able to completely understand your attraction to the same gender, how will others understand it? Specially a Muslim Shia Women. This generation and times are very diffuclt on the Muslims(specially youth) but we must stay strong. As a female that has a social media account, beautiful women with gorgeous bodies come across me and i am attracted to them. However, not in the sense of desire or wanting them. I might look at their posts longer or be fascinated by them but i am not sexually attracted to them. Maybe when you look at males, you are attracted to them but believe that it is taken in the wrong way. Have you ever been in a relationship with a male? Where you not attracted to your ex-wife? If for a fact that you know you are sexually attracted to males than you must try to end this temptation through discipline. For example, you pray and fast and pay khums which all show traits of a human with discipline. Yes, it will take time, effort and be difficult but in the end you are challenging yourself for god and islam. This also can be seen as Jihad Al nafs (fighting your soul in the way of god). I will keep you in my prayers Inshallah & hope i helped you in any way.
  2. Salam, I feel your definition of A Hijab is wrong. Hijab is not wrapping yourself in clothes, or showing your body figure and just throwing a piece of cloth on your head. Unfortunately , it has been very common like that in the Western countires. Girls and women wear very revealing clothing that are tight but still cover the skin and hair. An Hijab is not made to cover skin and hair only. You must cover your body shape. Thats why the Hijab is modest because your literally not showing your self to men. Your right,a guy that sees you can still imagine your body shape even if your covered properly, but he will never know how it truly looks like. When a guy sees that a girl is covering up,he will not look as much and there isnt really much to see. Do you ever notice how queens of countries never wear like girls that go to a club? Its because she is modest. God is gifting us by his command to cover up 10x more than so we can be the most modest and classy women.
  3. What if its something i cant control, how do i send a private message on here?
  4. Salam, The past couple months, I have not been praying on time, not listening to dua, nor reading the Holy Quran. I feel like i am a big hypcocriate. I was so in love with doing religious activites and making sure I did not miss a single one, but now I miss all of them. I wonder know if i will even pray. Fortuanely when I visited Karbala', I fell in love even more with my religion and kept wanting to learn and do more to please God. After I returned, I was doing everything possible to stay away from sinning, but now i am doing disgusting bad habits that i have never even done before. I used to wait on the prayer matt for time of prayer to come, and i was in love with it. Now i hate that im delaying my prayers, but not enough to get me back to how i was . I need help, i need to return to loving to pray and reading dua. I don't know what to do anymore. But all i know is that i can not stay like this any longer. Was it just a phase? Will i never return to loving to pray again? I am scared.
  5. Salam, I am not figuring out how to acess the dropbox, it keeps saying page not found. Help as soon as possible would be much aprreciated. May God bless you all and Ramadan Kareem.
  6. Kheera

    Hi can you do one for me?
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