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  1. He just wants to have a physical relationship with you. Is he your fiance? or are you planing to marry him?
  2. 9 misconceptions about Shia Islam

    I can't see them...
  3. aeeza

    You got these options - Water (Ocean, River, Well) - Or drop it in Imam's Ziyarat (Zari)
  4. marriage

    I know a person who experienced sometime similar to this. A guy was very liberal and after marriage he met some wahabies who brain washed him.
  5. I am not saying that she should marry him.
  6. I did change I was very possessive person, but after marriage I did change. May be I was very young that time but I did change tho.
  7. Toddler nutrition

    @Inner Peace In our family you just spank your kid and make him eat that food.
  8. Toddler nutrition

    You wanna go my grandmothers way... She used to tell me what is on the table you have to eat it. if you don't want to eat this food go to bed. You won't get anything to eat... It happened like couple times and I was starving to i had no choice. And after that i started eating everything. And I never say No to any food as long as it i halal. Eat your food and say thank to Allah for his blessings. So its my way or highway.
  9. what is wrong with this Trump's decision?

    Cost baby cost who is gonna pay for it?
  10. Shia in the West & Islamophobia, find balance?

    Yes, Toronto has a lot of Muslims. I am not sure about Quebec, I would tell you not to party a lot. Try to pray all 5 prayers on time and don't hang out with party people. Read Quran everyday and listen to Islamic lectures as much as possible.
  11. marriage

    Consequences: Worse case scenarios: He might stop you from attending majalis, azadari You kids will be Sunni or confused. You might become Sunni He might taunt you in future or regret marrying you.
  12. marriage

    If you follow Ayatollah sistani and if that person is right person according to sharia you don't need your parents consent. And please teach our parents something about Islam. Ask him if Allah or rasool has forbidden this? Tell him that Syeds are decedents of Prophet (PBUHAP) through bibi Fatima (a.s) so according to that was Imam Ali (a.s) syed? of course not and stop that hashmi syed things with me. That doesn't exist. And Quran says يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنَّا خَلَقْنَاكُمْ مِنْ ذَكَرٍ وَأُنْثَىٰ وَجَعَلْنَاكُمْ شُعُوبًا وَقَبَائِلَ لِتَعَارَفُوا ۚ إِنَّ أَكْرَمَكُمْ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ أَتْقَاكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ {13} [Shakir 49:13] O you men! surely We have created you of a male and a female, and made you tribes and families that you may know each other; surely the most honorable of you with Allah is the one among you most careful (of his duty); surely Allah is Knowing, Aware.[Pooya/Ali Commentary 49:13] This is addressed to all mankind and not to the Muslims only, though it is understood that in a perfect world the two would be synonymous. All races of men, white, brown and black are His creation. Allah has made them to vary in colour, language and mode of life, and has placed them in different lands, but before Him they are all one and cherished by Him alike, and he is most honoured who is most righteous. The Holy Prophet said: "Do not take pride in superior birth, tribe or nation." Even the descendants of the Holy Prophet, known as sharif or sayyid, have been forbidden to give themselves airs on account of their relationship with him because it will not save them from punishment on the day of judgement if they have transgressed the boundaries laid down by Allah. Imam Ali bin Husayn Zaynal Abidin said: "The hell has been made ready for those who disobey Allah, be he a most important person in the society; and only those who obey Allah will go into paradise, be he a slave." It is reported that a Muslim bought a slave who appealed to the people gathered in the auction square that he who was ready to allow him to pray behind the Holy Prophet should buy him, and the slave was always in the rows formed behind the Holy Prophet. After a few days the Holy Prophet noticed his absence. He went to his place. He was sick. After three days he died. The Holy Prophet personally attended to his funeral rites, bathed him, gave him a shroud and buried him. When mahajirs and ansar showed signs of astonishment this verse was revealed. It is said that once the disciples of Isa asked him as to who was to be considered as superior among men. Isa took a handful of dust in his hand and said: "All man are from the dust and they shall return to dust. In the eyes of God he is most honoured who is most righteous." This verse renders null and void all distinctions based on race, colour, caste and social position. Taqwa (obedience to Allah and His laws) is the only criterion for superiority or honour. The Holy Prophet said: "No man is superior to another on account of race or colour, taqwa (wisdom and piety) alone is the distinction." In this way man finds his individual as well as collective freedom, material progress and spiritual happiness, peace and order in Islam. To have an idea of taqwa refer to the commentary of Baqarah: 2 to 5 and 177. Maximum degree of taqwa is found in the Holy Prophet and his Ahl ul Bayt.
  13. Chilla jamaat

    Thigs you should do to get closer to Allah. Pray Fast Pay khums and zakaat Don't hurt anyone. Don't make fun of anyone. Never think you are better than anyone else Sulah rehmi Stop lying. Stop paying interest (this one is hard) Respect others. Perform Mustahab acts. Be kind to others. Amr bil Maroof wa Nahi ‘anil Munkar (at least stop them once and in a good manner) Treat everyone equally. Stop doing all haram acts such as music, gambling, stealing things (etc. etc. etc.)
  14. Dastarkhwan e Imam Hassan as

    Sure why not? whats the menu?
  15. Imam `Ali and Surah Zilzal

    @Mansur Bakhtiari @realizm @Ashvazdanghe [Shakir 99:1] When the earth is shaken with her (violent) shaking,[Pooya/Ali Commentary 99:1] See commentary of Ghashiyah. It refers to the uprooting which will take place when the present order of the world is destroyed and the new order of justice and truth begins in the spiritual hereafter. It will dissolve the material world as if it never existed. وَأَخْرَجَتِ الْأَرْضُ أَثْقَالَهَا {2} [Shakir 99:2] And the earth brings forth her burdens,[Pooya/Ali Commentary 99:2] (see commentary for verse 1) وَقَالَ الْإِنْسَانُ مَا لَهَا {3} [Shakir 99:3] And man says: What has befallen her?[Pooya/Ali Commentary 99:3] As after the terrible disaster the day of judgement will begin, it will be so a far-reaching convulsion that no earthquake which has taken place before can even be compared to it. It only gives some idea of the world-shaking event. Having no idea of such a tremendous convulsion, consequences of which will be totally different from any convulsion experienced by man, he will not be able to make head or tail of it. He will be in a puzzled agony of total confusion. يَوْمَئِذٍ تُحَدِّثُ أَخْبَارَهَا {4} [Shakir 99:4] On that day she shall tell her news,[Pooya/Ali Commentary 99:4] The earth will divulge all the events that ever took place on her. The present order will pass away, but the deeds done therein, even the most secret, will be made known when Allah will give the command. See commentary of Nahl: 68 for the inspiration (wahi) or direction given to bees. It is written in Minhajus Sadiqin that according to Fatimah Zahra one day an earthquake sent the people of Madina into a panic, and all of them along with Abu Bakr and Umar came to Ali. He took them outside the city and addressed them: "The quaking of the earth has overwhelmed you with fright. What will you do when it will quake before the day of judgement?" Then he put his hand on the earth and commanded it to cease quaking. It stopped to quake. He said: "Do you wonder at what has happened? I am he to whom the earth will speak on the day of judgement," and recited surah al Zilzal.
  16. marriage

    Lolo are you a woman? and where are you from?
  17. teddy bear

    Now if you have teddy bear in front of you of course you can't but you could if you not facing teddy bear.
  18. Can't marry the person i love

    Sistani: 2385. If a girl has reached the age of bulugh and is virgin and mature (i.e. she can decide what is in her own interest) wishes to marry, she should, obtain permission from her father or paternal grandfather, although she may be looking after her own affairs. It is not, however, necessary for her to obtain permission from her mother or brother. 2386. In the following situations, it will not be necessary for a woman to seek the permission of her father or paternal grandfather, before getting married: If she is not a virgin. If she is a virgin, but her father or paternal grandfather refuse to grant permission to her for marrying a man who is compatible to her in the eyes of Shariah, as well as custom. If the father and the grandfather are not in any way willing to participate in the marriage. If they are not in a capacity to give their consent, like in the case of mental illness etc. If it is not possible to obtain their permission because of their absence, or such other reasons, and the woman is eager to get married urgently.
  19. teddy bear

    Of course i know what synonym means and they are synonyms of hypocrites.
  20. teddy bear

    no but i have heard about wahabis and salafies
  21. teddy bear

    But the do keep Benjamins ($100 bill has a picture of Benjamin) in their pocket
  22. teddy bear

    Aww you can go to bed with Eli??? I just don't understand how people come up with these type of questions. One they they will be asking if i could eat 2 plates of rice? or I could use shampoo? or i could take shower without soap?
  23. Shia in the West & Islamophobia, find balance?

    Are you going to stay in Toronto or suburb of Toronto? @Ron_Burgundy