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  1. Okay, let's assume I am wrong and you are right. What exactly do you mean by "it was abnormal"? Are you referring to people's behaviour? Did every single person you met behave the same way towards you? Can you think of only ONE instance where a person was nice to you? You say that you were the only one going through this. What makes you think that you were the only one?
  2. I don't think it's the people that are rude. Maybe you expect everyone to be nice to you and let's be honest, not everyone can be nice towards you. Maybe you are too focused on the negatives that you overlook the nice things about people. Stop thinking in binary terms: e.g., "People are either rude or nice." Most people don't perfectly fall into either of these categories.
  3. Belief is not all-or-nothing; we can believe more or less firmly, with more or less certainty and tentativeness. This then dictates how we behave in any given situation. We may act differently upon a tentative belief than upon a firm one. Another thing is that our belief may be very strong, but still overriden by other beliefs. Then there are degrees of unethicality. For example, we know that some crimes are worse than others and I am sure you would agree that murder is worse than armed robbery, which in turn is worse than shoplifting. In some circumstances we might do something which is wrong in order to avoid a greater wrong. Sometimes we have to make a decision on the basis of insufficient evidence. We must simply make the best decision we can with the knowledge we have. These are all grey areas.
  4. Ineffective salat.

    Just because you offer salah doesn't mean it will get accepted. You are kept away from sins as long as your prayers are being accepted.
  5. Salam. Congrats on being a Mod! :) 

    1. Zarla


      Wa Alaikum Assalam, brother. Thank you! :) 

  6. Thoughts 2017

  7. Thoughts 2017

    ^That's crazy. I can't imagine swallowing even one!
  8. Seen w/out hijab

    Like @notme said, stop using Snapchat. Stop sending unnecessary messages to guys. Also, try to better understand the purpose of the Hijab - why do you wear the Hijab? Once you have understood this, you will subsequently be able to act or behave in ways that will reflect the true purpose of the Hijab. This will hopefully also prevent you from getting into undesirable situations (e.g., a non-mahram seeing your hair).
  9. Interview The Person Below

    Very rarely. What do you spend most of your money on?
  10. ramadan

    Most people in Australia will be starting their fast on Sunday.
  11. اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد وعجل فرجهم
  12. Thank you for this eloquently written poem. May Allah enable us all to practice kindness, peace and faithfulness in our lives.
  13. Looking too old

    Salam sis, Don't change the way you dress in order to change other people's perception of you. I guarantee you that even if you do that, people will still find something negative to talk about. Do what you think is right not what you think people will like. Wear the Hijab to please the Creator not the creation. I know it can be hard not to care about what others think of you, but always keep in mind that with struggles there are rewards, especially if you are doing it for the sake of Allah.
  14. I have watched this! He makes some great points. I don't know why some females here felt the need to get defensive while none of the things you mentioned were wrong. Anyway.