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  1. Thanks I thought that would be best. I'm in Brighton, UK. So didn't know how I can go about that was hoping it wasn't too complicated but I guess emailing marja or something seems like the safest bet
  2. Salam, I am a student and at the moment thanks to the UK system I've racked around a £34,000 debt as of now. I am going to be on a 'placement' i.e. one-year work scheme and will earn approx £15-20k. I wanted to know will it be obligatory on me to pay Zakat and if so is there a way to calculate it? A lot of zakat calculators I find have a lot of things that have nothing to do with a student situation and silver, gold etc. Any help would be of great benefit, Thanks!
  3. My Friend, I am doing my University exams in the UK, and I can assure you Fasting is a benefit for ur studies during Ramadan just think when are you more likely to receive Allah's support than when fasting in the Holy Month? To study in Ramadan is a strategy, you need to be decisive with your foods. Complex carbohydrates such as wholemeal bread, slow digesting dense foods such as hummus maybe, and bananas for water retention, dates for sugar then water water water! I have been doing this and I sleep 5/6 hours a day and I feel great whole way through while fasting all due to my diet being exactly as how it's needed. This is just advice as making up 30 Kaffara's isn't something rationally possible.
  4. Salam, This is the first Ramadan I will spend alone but it is quite exciting, I feel it will be a good time to get closer to Allah. I still have my exams so Insha'Allah fasting may bless me more than hold me back. What other struggles will people be going through this holy month?
  5. one, it was doubtful and you weren't sure two, you were in a tough situation and it was a lesser of the two evils. Because it was not your intention to consume such foods I believe you have nothing to worry about.
  6. Not just on fathers permission but I just want to point out, if you do go ahead with this, you will most likely damage your relationship with your family, his family will fall apart if their not happy about it and his relationship with his family. Everything will crumble if theres is not mutual respect across all parties, whatever happens, I really hope this isn't a romantic fantasy, excuse my jumps to conclusions but you have to be in the situation to understand it and I'm basing it on what I have understood. Ijust want you to contemplate the ripple effects your decision may have...
  7. Life is a game of hide-and-seek with death, no matter where you hide or run, you will never know when he finds you, but when he does, the game is over. -HayderM 2017 (Unless someone has already thought of it before me)
  8. Call/Email a Marja, please don't get a ruling on Shiachat unless it has evidence such as starlights post above.. I wish only the best and will pray for those the topic is concerned about.
  9. Why do I feel that is not acceptable...
  10. Based on all the ignorance I've seen in my life (so far)... My brain.
  11. Logically, do you think Allah the merciful is going to send an All-out-Warlord onto the Arab world to massacre everybody? He is still part of the Imamat and the Prophets lineage so how can it be the rest were extremely peaceful and only fought when they need to, but the Imam will just decide to take on a large number of the world's population and put them all to death. There will be reasoning and negotation/preaching (I believe as I don't have evidence of it in terms of hadith/sayings) and remember the Imam will be in line with islamic rules so I don't think hes going to go start on people who don't want to start a war themselves.
  12. Read isaac newton's story in that case
  13. there used to be books or they travel to different lands seeking out the teachers they need. an accessible story which can portray this is Ibn Sina's.
  14. Haha thanks for the concern, I have studied it well and my information is not from documentaries haha, I will be giving it an attempt and see how it goes. Its more of the health aspects to me as I believe its better healthwise without or very low levels of it. Of course I agree I would not try to impose anything on anyone else, this is my personal choice of an experience as it would be everybody elses choice. My issue is currently more around the health aspects of dairy, I found improvements in my health when I cut it out, im glad im getting a general idea that its perfectly okay and down to personal opinon.
  15. The more islamic it is and its people, Allah will help them thrive for he does not abandon the believers. Ofcourse we need to do our bit but the west is slowly crumbling, as long as Iran can hold out the economic downfall in the west it will then rise. America already needs a babysitter for their new president, not sure how many relations you would want with such a person.