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  1. I wish wealthier men would practice polygamy. It would help so many women ...divorced, never married, widowed , with or without children.
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    Finding peace in a Shia/Sunni Marriage

    Salam @StillStriving as far as I know , the children take the fathers religion. Please speak to a scholar regarding your situation.
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    How did that happen?

    I feel very bad for this sister who is now pregnant. How will she explain this to her family and friends? Who will financially support her? How will she manage on her own? I pray that she'll be ok.
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    Ayatollah Shirazi's Son is arrested

    Salam @repenter, you mentioned this Shirazis used to have great legitimacy, back in the early 1900z, not anymore. What happened that they lost their legitimacy? I work with a lot of Shirazis. Thank you.
  5. @Fatimaflow, I'm so sorry for what has happened to you. Please feel free to PM me and we can speak further. It will work out, everything will be ok in time.
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    Marijuana(Weed) Muslim FAQ

    @Abu Hadi, damn that, lol.
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    Marijuana(Weed) Muslim FAQ

    Yeah but what about women who need it for menstrual cramps?
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    What is your star sign?

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    Do looks matter to you

  10. Salam friends, hope you are all well. This is an interesting topic that @Hussaini624 has raised and always relevant. I find that what helps me most in overcoming my nafs, is living in the moment, being present and focused. Sometimes I read words of wisdom from Imam Ali (as) or I listen to meaningful lectures like the one above.
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    Sufism in Shias

    Salam @Shah Khan, if you would like to know more about this topic, I highly recommend Dr. Rebecca Masterton's course: http://onlineshiastudies.com/esoteric-knowledge-in-tashayyu/ You will benefit hugely in your understanding of the topic you have raised here. We can always discuss what you think of the course outline through PM, if you so wish. Good luck with searching for your answers, may Allah guide you and all of us.
  12. Salam dear brother @Shia.Romania, welcome, welcome to our online family. I'm so pleased to know that there are Shia in Romania. I have met a wonderful lady here who is Romanian and she is very interested in Shi'i spirituality. If you ever need help with anything, please let me know.
  13. Salam friends, I went on the duas.org website to find duas for the safety and protection of my children and it is recommended to write certain surahs in saffron, which can then be placed in a locket. This is an important issue for me, so any help would be appreciated. Does anyone here know of people who can do this? I live in London.
  14. ah @monad, we can always rely on you for such good advice. DON'T YOU THINK I WOULD'VE DONE THIS MYSELF IF I COULD WRITE AN ENTIRE SURAH IN ARABIC. You're such a doughnut.
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    Women are not always emotionally stronger than men, in fact, more women than men suffer from eating disorders, depression, self-harming and suicide ideation. These quotes from pious scholars (men), are hollow. They mean nothing if a strong man is not standing behind his woman and supporting her. To put all the responsibility on women to be kind, sensitive, loving, caring, nurturing, etc, allows men to be off the hook. It's unfair and puts a great burden on women. Please rethink putting these quotes up for all and sundry.
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    Salam @Ron_Burgundy, what happened that brought on her early labour? I'm very worried for both of you and the baby, so I will pray long and hard for you. Please PM if you need anything.
  17. Why is the chat room so dead? 

  18. Salam. Does anyone know of duas I can recite so that I might be protected from toxic people who seek to do me harm? This is quite urgent. Thank you for reading.
  19. There is also Safeer TV. Great channel with interesting live shows this Ramadan
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    Ramadhan Mubarak, Y'all

    Walaikum assalam @hasanhh, Ramadan Mubarak to you and all my dear shiachat.com friends. Thank you for the tip about the chunk of cheese, I will be sure to eat some before Fajr. First thing I need in the morning though, is a mocha with a chocolate croissant, eggs on toast too. But sure thing, by Monday I'll be used to the long days, but kinda worried too.
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    I can't cry during Muharram?

    I thought I was the only one who experienced this. I think it's because of my sins too. I wish I could cry for imam Husain.
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    Qiyam al-Qa'im (2017)

    Salam @Qa'im , again thank you so much for your hard work and efforts. I was going to ask the same question as I would also like to purchase a copy online. Please could you email a PDF copy , thank you.
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    2017 Iran Election [OFFICIAL THREAD]

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    Imam Mahdi ajfs ahadith - must read

    Thank you brother @Qa'imth
  25. What you say is correct brother, so perhaps this thread should be closed now. I keep thinking about his wife and children. I hope they are okay.