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  1. temporary marriage

    Whether a woman can divorce without her husband's agreement is a contentious and disputed topic. What, specifically did the court say? That the court divorces her on her husband's behalf, or that the court orders her husband to divorce her? As for the second question, the repeat or renewal of mutah, yes, it's absolutely allowed (assuming the woman is indeed divorced from her first husband) and no iddah is required to marry the same man again. They will need to speak the words of contract and agree upon conditions and mahr again.
  2. Hurricanes 2017

    May all the people be safe and damage to property minimized. I don't know if it's related, but hurricane and tropical storm events in UK and Europe was predicted as one of the results of global warming a long time ago, before anyone outside of the scientific community every heard of global warming. It's not unprecedented, but it's rare.
  3. Thoughts 2017

    Yes, Imam Zayn ul Abideen is also known as Imam Sajjad, the imam of prostration in prayer. His life was one of the most tragic imaginable, but he maintained piety, strength, compassion, and dignity through it all.
  4. Anti-Bucket List

    I am sure they exist wherever there are mountains. Mine was actually snow covered, with evergreen forests visible far below. ---------- I have so many "never again", I don't even know what to say. I hope I've mastered learning from my mistakes. Here's one: don't even try to cut a banana tree with a chainsaw. You think it will save time, but a banana tree is not a real tree, it's a leafy tube of wet strings.
  5. Anti-Bucket List

    Me too.
  6. Anti-Bucket List

    Did you ask it for the shortest route? I did that once and it first took me to a road that was closed for the winter, then to a narrow path on the edge of a cliff.
  7. How can I revive dead heart

    Pray. Contemplate. Serve others while expecting nothing in return. Pray some more. Repent of your sins and omissions. Be in nature. Do good deeds. Pray some more.
  8. betrayal and....... guidance???

    Doing the right thing for the wrong reasons is still better than not doing the right thing. And who knows - maybe in time your reasons will change.
  9. Thoughts 2017

    @LeftCoastMom at least y'all aren't the generic bad guy in popular crime/military dramas anymore.
  10. sex and marraige

    Has he always been this way? Is he also emotionally distant? Would you consider him to be your friend, or just an acquaintance who you are married to? Is he under some stress at work, at home, or in his family?
  11. Thoughts 2017

    Haha! Only a man can escape in that way - women have responsibilities!
  12. He's bad enough without any need for false reports! But yeah, the mainstream media is more interested in stirring up chaos to get viewers than actually reporting. It's probably impossible for a human to be fully unbiased, but they don't even try anymore.
  13. How to develop creative thinking?

    My specialty is solving problems. I'm very good at making things work without adequate resources. Necessity is the mother of invention. If you have everything and things are easy for you, there's not any need for creativity. For example: manual windshield wipers. Couldn't afford the part to fix them properly.
  14. How to develop creative thinking?

    Read a lot. Think a lot. Be fearless. Come up with ideas without worrying about whether they are right or wrong.
  15. Read the Quran. It speaks for itself. Find a good translation into your preferred language.