Male in 21st century Western Culture
Chases women - either the guy from a vile pornographic movie or the man with multiple women at once
Does things to please women
No responsibility (it's OK to be playing COD for 2 hours every day from the age of 12 to the age of 33 when it's time to get married)
No sense of standing for truth and against evil (it's their choice! Don't judge!)
Either an obnoxious insecure bodybuilder who needs to take steroids and poise in briefs to show off his muscle - or a nancy boy who spends his days complementing and helping women buy their clothes
Spends too much time around women - Islam doesn't allow us to talk beyond the minimum for a reason (and totally forbade things like joking with non-mahrams), and it's not just for fear of lust.
Man in Islam - the true alpha male
Has Gheerah for the women of his family
Doesn't bully - always pushes the rest of the pack forward, only wants the best for others
Says sorry - knows when he's wrong and is grounded. Not an self-worshipping brat
Reads - ask Teddy Roosevelt or Napoleon what made them the man who they were
Doesn't care what people think - if the whole world turns against them they literally don't care - all they want is to stand for truth and justice. Doesn't suck up to authority - he stands with anybody who is on the path of truth, whether they are the most powerful person in the world or the weakest of the weak
Doesn't try to attract women - they'll come if you are a proper man
Irons his own clothes, does his own laundry, cooks his own food. Sure, a wife should be helping him do these things but he doesn't need it. He's learnt ever since he was living with his parents
Has the courage to fail gloriously - again, if the whole world turns against them it doesn't matter. Bankruptcy - pphhh! Please!
Lives hard - does an extra set at the gym, sleeps just enough for his health, doesn't waste his life in front of the TV.
Isn't a dead emotionless body - kind and compassionate with his family and expresses his love for them. You aren't macho if you have to act macho around your wife and kids.
Knows the meaning of being honourable - earns a halal living, prays on time, is respected for who he is and what his values are. Even if there is nobody else to help them, he will run towards the weakest person to aid them.