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  1. 13 points
    shiaman14

    Appeasing Sunnis

    Salaam, Anyone else notice a trend that there are some shias who are too worried about what Sunnis think of us? These are shias who hate on other shias because they perceive their actions to be something the Sunnis disapprove off. When the issue of bayat (allegiance) came up, Imam Hussain (as) did not say "well 99% of Muslims have given bayat so I should as well. What will they think of me otherwise?". He said, "One like me can never give bayat to one like Yazid." He really didn't care what anyone else did or say. If you are comfortable and confident about being a Shia, it doesn't matter what Sunnis think of us. Stand tall and hold your head up high - you are a shia.
  2. 10 points
    wolverine

    Thoughts 2018

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  3. 9 points
    So Guys, I am only Trying Shia Islam of ONLY FOR 6 MONTHS. If I will Like it I will follow it. If I don't like it I will leave it. On the request of @Hussaini624 @Gaius I. Caesar @Hamodiii @Ashvazdanghe
  4. 9 points
    yasahebalzaman.313

    Your Own Captured Photos

    I visited an exhibition yesterday made by my friends honoring the lebanese and iranian martyrs. Here are some pictures, Enjoy them! The 3rd picture is for a shaheed his name is Ahmad al Hajj, They say he had a very close relationship with ahlulbayt. He used to visit arbaeen every year! He used to pay for people aswell as a charity to take them to iraq. The last time he visited Imam l hussein he in the masjid till 3 am, when he went home he told his family that next year i won't be visiting imam l hussein, instead i will be next to him. He has a 10 year old daughter, she dreamt that imam l mahdi came to her and wiped her forehead. (Usually that's a sign that the kid is an orphan). Hence, after 4 months of the zyara He died in the battlefield. The 7th picture is a helmet for a shaheed who's blood is still on it. and you can see the small hole of the bullet that killed him. Next to it lies a paper written by another martyr in arabic who was speaking to God, It says: I, sir, do not want the paradise of rivers, of immortality and of bliss, not out of greediness of what you have, but of what is better than all of this, My paradise sir, is next to Aba Abdillah al Hussein. The last picture is for an iranian, مفقود الأثر, meaning he's either captured and imprisoned or killed by the enemies and buried by them. This martyr is missing since last month of ramadan on the borders between iraq and iran. His mother cried so much that he once came to her in her dreams, he told her ''mother don't cry anymore i'm happy where i am, Sayeda fatima al zahraa(As) come to visit me everyday!''
  5. 9 points
    ShiaChat Mod

    Thoughts 2018

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  6. 8 points
    While learning languages is a great endeavor, you want to make sure you learn in a sustainable and productive way. Simply dedicating a solid week to writing sentences won't be enough. You need to also understand how the individual words in the sentence come together to form the sentence, in other words, learn the grammar of the language, this alongside doing practical learning such as translating, writing sentences, speaking activities, and reading. And you want to actually create a schedule and stick to it, that means studying the language a certain amount of times a week -- preferably daily -- and consistently sticking to it. That means you should also pick a language you're interested in because you'll need to keep motivation up, especially during the moments you feel like you're not learning anything or it gets boring. One week challenges might be fun and you might learn somethings but if you really want to learn a language well then keep all this in mind. For those wanting to learn Arabic I'd recommend you check out the reprint of the madeena books (seven books now rather than the original three). I personally liked Wheeler Thackston's grammar of Quranic Arabic, Alan Jone's grammar of Quranic Arabic is also very good and more palatable for people who don't know anything about grammatical terms. Wright's grammar is a good intermediate grammar. For Farsi I liked Lambton's Persian Grammar, Thackston also has a good book. I've also heard good things about the Easy Persian website. ___________________________________________________ And while we're in the business of recommending languages, I'd recommend Syriac to those interested in early Islamic history and/or want to understand the types of Christianity the Prophet would have encountered. Thackston's grammar of Syriac, Coakley's paradigms, and Noldeke's Compendious Grammar as a reference for syntax would leave you with a pretty good understanding of the language. And maybe Ancient Egyptian just for fun (refer to Alan Gardiner's grammar).
  7. 8 points
    Salam Alaykum SubhanAllah... I just had to share this And they ask us why do we believe in imamate? I can't believe each and every one of them was murdered...
  8. 8 points
  9. 8 points
    Spending more time on my deen to get closer to Allah.
  10. 8 points
    The main point here is that although hijab is wajib, disrespecting a women who is not wearing it by talking about her, making assumptions about her morals, etc, do not help with the goal of convincing her to wear it. It will just push her away and make her less likely to wear it, in most cases. We should post encouraging words and realize that we all do sins and we all have areas of our religion that we need to work on. To the sisters who are not wearing hijab, I would say if you're not ready to wear it, at least uphold the Islamic morals of haya and modesty, and try to dress in a way that doesn't show your body to non mahram. If you do this, you will gradually move toward the hijab, and this is a natural progression.
  11. 8 points
    Hameedeh

    Thoughts 2018

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  12. 8 points
    starlight

    When did men stop being men

    Yeah, blame it on the women. Would a righteous,self respecting,well brought up 'man' act different if girls around him were behaving like drama queens or trying to act like starlets. Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى has appointed men as leaders, then why do they let their behaviour be dictated by how women around them are acting? How we conduct ourselves should not be controlled by people,that alone shows weakness of character. A gentleman will always treat her woman with respect at least in public. The conflicts can be settled in private. If a woman is having melt down or lost control over her emotions that's no excuse for the man to act likewise.
  13. 7 points
    I love Imam Khamanei. In this video you can see him teary during qunoot, subhanallah. I hope I can at least achieve a fraction of his piety.
  14. 7 points
    Shah Khan @Shah Khan "Interested in Islamic History, Islamic Jurisprudence, Astronomy, Mathematics, Health in Islamic Perspective. Biology."
  15. 7 points
    Hassan-

    Sunni to Shias on ShiaChat

    This topic will be a compilation of posts from people that converted from Sunnism to Shi'ism on this website. The list below was obtained from a quick Google search to find the posts, but there are definitely hundreds of more convert posts on the forums that I haven't included in the list, but inshAllah I will keep updating the list from time to time. In Taqiyya Journey from Sunni to Shia Wants to say the Shahada Proud Shia Another Proud Shia Unsure how to tell family Unsure how to tell family #2 Had the courage to tell the family Respected & Intellectual member Believes in the purity of the 12 imams Respected & Intellectual member Wants to be shia embracing shiism Proud Shia Young Shia convert The procedure Learning about Shiism opened her mind Alone in a sunni family Follower of Ahlulbayt Rough life being shia Wants to meet shias Lover of Ahlulbayt Couldn't stay Sunni anymore Used to be Anti-Shia Alone Shia in the family Shias are the only people that fight Zionism The truth was hidden from her Conversion story Why he became Shia The truth made everything easier ex-Salafi Christian to Sunni to Shia Shiism can convince anyone Convinced shiism is right Shiism is the right path 4 years of research Conversion story Conversion story #2 Conversion story #3 ex-Salafi Difficulty coming to the true path Her and her parents converted to Shiism Losing her/his Sunni friends Embraced Shiism Shia adhan touched her heart Mother to shiism Shiism was the logical way Difficult to join a shia community Muharram intrigued her Being Sunni is like living in an illusion His family was not happy ex-Salafi Only Shiism made sense Blessed to be Shia Her and her husband joined Shiism Found the true path Somalian Shia His family was displeased Her and her mother converted to shiism Wants to convert to shiism Shiism is with the true path His mother embraced shiism Used to be anti-Shia Conversion story ex-Sunni Joined Shiism after marrying Shia man Christian to Sunni to Shia Sunni lectures never talk about the Ahlulbayt His ancestors went from Sunni to Shiism Half of her family joined Shiism Her parents were in shock Sunnism is irrational She only found peace with the Ahlulbayt In taqiyya from nasibi parents ex-Salafi
  16. 7 points
    King @King "When a thread goes off track, he might ignore and reply to the OP."
  17. 7 points
    I don't mind getting into this discussion as long as some parameters are defined. The discussion on this should not be by "appealing to authority", and if you do appeal to authority you do it only to put forth the arguments and evidence of a scholar - OR - you bring your own personal arguments and evidence based on what you have understood. This way the discussion will be concentrated on the argument itself, and not on who is making the argument. For example, I don't care if numerous scholars have a problem with Wahdat al-Wujud or if Shaykh Hurr al-Amili or Ayatullah Ishaq Fayyaz consider Ibn Arabi a heretic or Ayatullah Hasanzadeh considers him a Shi'a, or if Aristotle wrote about Logic, or if Hisham bin al-Hakam wrote a refutation on Aristotle or anything of that sort. What matters to me is the reasoning for why one believes such a thing. Naturally, this requires one to take a step back and strip the views of these highly respected scholars from holding any sanctity, and consider them open to invalidity. Another point I want to mention is that in order to engage in this discussion, one needs to look at it as a complete outsider. Consider yourself a non-Muslim, a person who has nothing at his or her disposal except tools of knowledge that all humans share (intellect, sensory knowledge, experimentation, knowledge by presence). Try to discard as much baggage as you can with regards to what you think you have understood from religious texts about God or anything else. In other words, if you want this discussion to go anywhere, don't enter it dogmatically and don't take any premise for granted (except self-evident axioms). If any non-axiomatic premise is being taken for granted, then that needs to be made clear, so that participants know that this is a premise being taken for granted simply because both sides agree to it (thus, it will not require a separate discussion of its own). For example, a self-evident axiom may be: I exist, but the axiom: a reality external to me also exists may not be self-evident, but given both participants agree to it, we can take it for granted for the purpose of the discussion. All this is much easier said than done, even if we may tell ourselves otherwise.The discussion concerning intellect vs. revelation or transmitted knowledge ('aql vs. naql) is a challenging one that has not been completely settled even until today. Thus it is important to clarify what we mean by all terms we use as to diminish possible misunderstanding and confusion. --- To start off, I will make my own position clear: When I use the word intellect ('aql), on the onset, I am referring to the mere ability to conceptualize and put together concepts in order to formulate and assent to propositions and syllogisms. The intellect itself can perceive certain realities, while other realities it itself knows it cannot perceive them on its own. The latter are things that are more often than not, particularities. For example, there is no way to say that a man named Muhammad (p) was a Prophet in Arabia through purely rational reasoning. You will have to resort to transmitted knowledge (history, narrations, affirming the miracle of the Qur'an yourself etc.) alongside your intellect to conclude that a man named Muhammad (p) was actually a Prophet. That being said, the intellect is one of the most important criteria I possess to judge the truth or invalidity of any given proposition. As my back-up to establishing this claim, I can also refer to numerous traditions in Shi'i hadith works that reiterate the same thing. For me, if revelation and the traditions hold any value, they hold value if we have: 1) certainty that they were actually uttered the way we have them at our disposal today, and 2) certainty with regards to their intended meanings. We don't have both of these for more than 90% of the traditions or verses (I believe #1 even applies to some of the verses of the Qur'an due to Qira'at differences) - thus they are called prima-facie or apparent meanings. So, when it comes to the Qur'an and Hadith you are more often than not, dealing with speculative knowledge and very little certain knowledge. So to put it in simple terms, the premises I hold to be true are: 1) The intellect is the most valuable tool we have for 2 reasons: a) it can be used to judge the validity and invalidity of many propositions, especially universal propositions, and b) one can formulate arguments by it to convince others of their beliefs, and thus engage in dialogue or debate (something that cannot be done through knowledge by presence, or spiritual visions - unless both of those are also turned into propositions by the intellect and turned into syllogisms). If you were to begin from scratch, this will be the tool that will get you to God (alongside knowledge by presence), and beyond that it will get you to Islam while swifting through transmitted knowledge. 2) The intellect realizes the authority of revelation and the words of an infallible, specially in particularities and theological matters that cannot be perceived by the intellect 3) We have two challenges at our disposal: a) majority of the traditions are speculative from the perspective of us determining whether they were uttered in those exact words, and b) majority of the verses and traditions are speculative from the perspective of us determining their exact intended meaning - so they they are considered prima-facie or apparent meanings, leaving them open to many possible interpretations The above 3 are my basic premises and presumptions - if anyone disagrees or has a question, feel free to ask and I will try to respond. Given the above 3 premises, if one can prove Asalat al-Wujud and subsequently Wahdat al-Wujud on purely rational grounds, they will have no choice but to accept it, even if their speculative understanding of the Qur'anic verses or traditions tells them it cannot be true - because certainty triumphs speculation. Questioning the intellect in those scenarios is problematic, because the intellect was the very tool by which they arrived at religion to begin with. To question the certain-findings of your own intellect because of a speculative report or a speculative understanding of a verse and a tradition should necessarily dent your trust in your own intellect, and it should even lead to you questioning your whole religion. This works out to be exactly like the notion of infallibility that the majority of Shi'i scholars accept. They arrive at the conclusion (primarily through the intellect first) that the Prophet was infallible and therefore all traditions that we have on Sahw al-Nabi are rejected by them completely. Anyone who has done research on this knows that the traditions on Sahw al-Nabi are not just 1 or 2, but well over 10, and not to mention they also exist in Sunni works. Yet, because these scholars claim to have proven with certainty that the Prophet was infallible, they have no choice, but to either 1) reject these traditions altogether, or 2) find an explanation for them (in the case of Sahw al-Nabi, they say the narrations were uttered in Taqiyyah). In the case of Asalat or Wahdat al-Wujud, Shi'i scholars do the exact same thing, and inshallah when we get to it, I can quote numerous traditions or verses that these scholars quote to show what they arrived at with their intellect is also present in transmitted knowledge. If there are any traditions that seem to go against Wahdat or Asalat al-Wujud, they will be forced to either reject them, or explain them away in a way in which they can be reconciled with the certain findings of their intellect. So to conclude: The Qur'an and Ahl ul-Bayt can't be flawed, but our understanding of what they meant and what we have at our disposal (with all the issues that these traditions came down to us) can be flawed, highly subjective, and deficient. Our intellectual conclusions are flawed when there is a fallacy in our argument (and I mean fallacy in a very general sense which also includes absence, limitation, and subjectivity of our knowledge with respect to somethings), otherwise, no, I don't believe the intellect can be flawed. Based on these outlines, we can move on to the actual discussion of Asalat al-Wujud if the members are interested. Wasalam
  18. 7 points
    Sorry, but what a jerk! Tell him you are not going ahead with the marriage because you deserve someone better.
  19. 7 points
    Islandsandmirrors

    Jaw Surgery in 6 days.

    I got my surgical tads removed today by my surgeon. It wasn’t too uncomfortable because they used local numbing. I could feel them remove the mini-screws, though, which was weird. Now there are small holes where the tads were that will close-up with time. They want me to work on my range of motion. My range of motion is great and he says that based on how things have progressed, I should be able to get it back fairly quickly. I can open my mouth wide at 25 mm (about three fingers.) and they want me to open to 38 mm (four to five fingers.) I have been given new exercises to help with that. I also have to work on side to side range of motion and I almost have full range of motion moving my jaw to the right. Thankfully, I have much better range of motion than most people at this stage post-op (even though I was wired-shut.). Next appointment is in a month because things are going great
  20. 7 points
    Hamodiii

    Thoughts 2018

    Hope my whole family goes to heaven! Hope Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى is pleased with them! Thank you Allah for giving me a family! Thank you! Thank you, Allah!
  21. 7 points
    Imagine what difference knowledge can make to your perception if you are willing to acquire it with an open mind and a honest heart.
  22. 7 points
    As a mother, she will have a big impact on the children. If she doesnt wear hijab then her daughters are unlikely to aswell. For me thats not acceptable
  23. 7 points
    Yes there is. There are many, Here's one. إِنَّنِي أَنَا اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنَا فَاعْبُدْنِي وَأَقِمِ الصَّلَاةَ لِذِكْرِي "Verily, I - I alone - am God; there is no God but Me. Hence, worship Me alone, and be constant in prayer, so as to remember Me! Quran 20:14 As for your other points about Jesus(peace be upon him). I am willing to discuss these if you promise to stick to only this point (Did Jesus say he was God in the Bible) and not try to as they say in Arabic 'take a stick from every valley'. Otherwise I will let others continue with this.
  24. 7 points
    With all due respect, It surprises me how people can ever dare to believe in such an irrational idea that "Jesus is son of God in a literal sense"
  25. 7 points
    notme

    When did men stop being men

    The worst are the ones who are respectful and hold doors and all while trying to win a woman's affection, then leave her to carry the burden and care for the children once he has her. Those males don't deserve to be called men. They barely even qualify as human. (I really hate deceivers.)
  26. 6 points
    In the name of Allah, Salam, *This is only generic advice. Please see your doctor or a trained professional for you own unique circumstance* The bodybuilding industry is currently led by steroid taking users, who pump their bodies with these hormones and chemicals and reach results in six months that are unattainable for most people even after years of dedicated natural lifting. These individuals are sponsored by greedy companies trying to sell you products you generally do not need, work out plans that work best for steroid users, and not the average person who is dedicated to doing this safely and naturally. I am going to summarise as succinctly as possible exactly what you need to do to build muscle, in terms of the kind of work outs you do, how often you do them, and what you select to do in each work out. I will also briefly touch upon the nutritional side and tell you what is actually useful, and gimmicks to just ignore from the body building industry. How often? You often see certain body building websites advise an 'arm day' , a 'leg day' , a 'back day' and the like. This means you train each muscle group with a once a week frequency. For the vast majority of people who are lifting as almost any stage, this sort of frequency is not optimal whatsoever to build muscle mass. It works better with steroid users than people who have average genetics and are doing this naturally. I repeat, the vast majority of us will never reach even half of what these steroid users are in terms of their physiques. However an impressive natural physique is still attainable, and steroid physiques go way too far regardless. I am going to try to only give advice to beginners, which is where many of us here probably will fall to get you on the right track. Beginner: A beginner is someone who has not been working out consistently for at least six months. This means anyone, even if they trained years ago and lost it all, will be classed as a beginner. Scientific research shows that a beginner should work out three times per week using a full-body work out. Beginners who work out each body part once per week are wasting valuable time , when their bodies are designed to be able to handle more frequency in the earlier stages. However, because you will work out three times per week, you can now work out each muscle group with the same intensity each work out as you would if you were training it once per week. A beginner should work out each body part three sets, and ensure they can perform each set for at least 60 seconds, which usually translates to 8-12 reps, but it is time under tension (i.e moving the weight) that matters more than arbitrary counting reps. A full body work out may look like this: 1. Pull ups 2. Squats 3. Deadlifts 4. Bench Press/ Dumbell Press 5. Shoulder press 6. Bent over rows. 7. Abdominal work. 8. Optional Bicep Curl/Tricep Extension You would then do the above On a Monday, then a Wednesday, then a Friday, and take the Weekend off. Remember, three sets between 8-12 reps is geared towards volume. People do lift far too heavy weights and can only fo 3-5 repetitions are only increasing more in strength and less in building muscle. For hypertrophy (growth of muscle) you need to strike a balance. Too little and you gain more strength, too much and you are basically gaining more endurance. You should also learn to perfect form and watch videos by Athlean X on Youtube who teaches perfect form for these exercises. Do not ego lift, you will benefit more from quality lifting than just trying to rush things. What you want to do is add a little bit more weight when you can handle it, and stick to the time / rep range. Furthermore every few weeks, try to switch your work out up. If you're just doing shoulder press, try lateral raises for one week. If you're doing dumbbell presses, try pec flies. Diet: In order to gain, for the average person, you need about 1g of protein per Lb of body weight. Some argue that should be 0.75g, and others say it should be 1.5g. It's all up for dispute, but i would argue getting in at least one gram , if not a little more is probably the safe way. You can get this from your diet, and also purchase a halal protein powder that doesn't upset your stomach to top up that balance. Furthermore, you need to be consuming 500-1000 calories above your maintenance. Generally speaking, a lot of people 'lean bulk' or 'dirty bulk' because you will gain Muscle much faster on a higher caloric excess , but also gain fat too. Furthermore, Muscle growth is slow, so beginners can only expect a maximum of 2.5lbs per month at most, which decreases as they lose beginner gains (fast growth early on) and diminishing returns establishes. Consume a healthy meal around two hours before your work out. Consume an energy drink half an hour before, and consume a protein drink or meal with protein in it shortly after your work out. Supplements: Fish Oil is a must. In edition, ensuring you have a multivitamin and are not low on Zinc or Vitamin D is also essential for testosterone. Other than that, don't be fooled by all of the pre-work outs and post work outs you see being sold. Even creatine isn't that significant in the difference it will make.
  27. 6 points
    Tatbir is a grossly misdirected act of faith. As a former sunni, it took me forever to learn and come to the realization that the practices are not actually part of the Shi'i school of thought. Alhamdulillah.
  28. 6 points
    Hamodiii

    Surah ikhlaas

    Imam Ali (a.s) said: "When a person recites this Surah 100 times, then all his sins from the last 50 years will be forgiven (besides the sins relating to the murder of innocent and theft of human property). Whoever recites this Surah 1000 times will not die until he sees his place in paradise. "
  29. 6 points
    May Allah lengthen this man's life The love of the dunya does not exist in his heart
  30. 6 points
    notme

    #26 Amr bil Ma'roof

    I would advise them. They must stop themselves.
  31. 6 points
    ShiaChat Mod

    Thoughts 2018

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  32. 6 points
    Even if we ignore Saddam's oppression, he was probably the worst leader in modern history for many reasons. - He took over Iraq officially in 1979 - He starts the 8 year war with Iran in 1980 - Iraq's economy is terrible after the war, so he decides to invade Kuwait in 1990 - He is kicked out of Kuwait in 1991, and the international sanctions which destroyed Iraq begin. Iraq now has no ally or helper. Iraqi airspace is fully controlled by the United States. - The sanctions and pressure remain until 2003 when he is overthrown. That is basically his entire Presidency, Iraq as a nation gained nothing but destruction from his rule.
  33. 6 points
    Reproduced below is a conversation between Ibn Abbas and Umar bin Khattab, recorded by Ibn Athir in his Tarikh al Kamil. Allama Mutazili has also recorded it in his Sharh al Nahj al Balagha, vol. 3, p. 107. Umar said: "O Ibn Abbas, do you know what made the ummah deprive you (Bani Hashim) of the khilafat after Muhammad?" "The ummah," he continued, "did not want to see both the prophethood and the caliphate resting with you (Bani Hashim) for fear that you might injure the interests of the nation and trample her at your will. The Quraysh, therefore, chose the caliphate for themselves. They made a right decision and were successful in getting it." Ibn Abbas said: "Regarding your remarks that the Quraysh chose the caliphate for themselves, that they were right and were successful in obtaining it, I have to observe that the Quraysh would have been right and none would have questioned their claim to the caliphate or been jealous of them only if they had chosen it for themselves in accordance with the will of Allah. As to the remark that the Quraysh did not want to see both the prophethood and the caliphate resting with us (Bani Hashim), I remind you of the words of Allah, who described a nation that disliked Allah's choice: 'This is because they disliked what Allah caused to descend and so Allah destroyed all their deeds (Muhammad: 9)." Umar said: "Woe to you, Ibn Abbas, you have been reported to have said that we deprived you (Bani Hashim) of the caliphate through jealousy, injustice and oppression." Ibn Abbas said: "As to injustice and oppression, all educated and uneducated persons know it to be so. As to jealousy, there is no wonder if you, as children of Adam, are jealous of us who are (also) his children." Umar said: "By Allah, you (Bani Hashim) have always been jealous." Ibn Abbas said: "You should not attribute the impurity of jealousy to the hearts of that group of persons from whom Allah has kept away all sorts of impurities and uncleanliness and purified them with a thorough purification."
  34. 6 points
    Some people asked the meaning. One person said: I’m sorry I don’t know what this means but I know it holds value to you .. so it’s wonderful 112,014 likes (I wonder if some people liked it, even though they don't know the language. ) Somebody posted this, so it might be a translation: our life consists of two days. One, when this day is useful. And don’t be so proud of yourself when this comes. And second, when this day is harmful for you, and do your best to be patient until this day ends.
  35. 6 points
    Be wary of women, get the heck out of South Carolina and remember, you are really smart. You don't give yourself enough credit, you have ambition and a vision that you don't realize yet. Be prepared for betrayals and heartbreak from family.
  36. 6 points
    starlight

    Thoughts 2018

    Reminder to all brothers and sisters who are living in countries which were struck by an earthquake today(India, Pakistan, Afghanistan etc) or having a lunar eclipse; one namaz e Ayaat is obligatory for each of these events( as per Sistani) Here is the method for Namaz e Ayaat https://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/2258/
  37. 6 points
    No signs of respect. Imam Ali never taught us this, he carried Aisha back home out of respect of our prophet. Sunni are not our brothers, we should see them as ourselves, despite the fact we may disagree about their version of Islam. Thank you.
  38. 6 points
    I have to agree with @hasanhh, Hillary was a lying snake, at least Trump is too stupid to act differently from what he is and the whole world can see him for what he is.
  39. 6 points
    starlight

    How tall are you?

    Thank you for saying this^^^ @Intellectual Resistance I have been following this thread and I wanted to add a few things. You perception of girls rejecting men only because of height is wrong, nor it is as important a parameter as you are thinking.Being south asian myself I can safely south Asian girls are NOT obsessed with 6foot tall guys. Imam Ali (as) wasn't the tallest of men Afaik. Instead of making efforts to increase height which DO NOT yield significant results in most cases brothers should make efforts to excel in piety, akhlaq and their education/career. Taking care of your health, staying fit is advisable for both men and women but their is absolutely NO need to bend over backwards to achieve a certain height or complexion, or a certain bank balance to conform to the standards of the society. If we do that means we are not only agree with the superficial standards set by the society but are also contributing to it.
  40. 6 points
    Hameedeh

    Loudly crying during salah

    Crying during your prayer is okay if you are thinking about Allah SWT. If while you are praying you are crying because you are sad that you lost your ring (for example), that crying would make your prayer void.
  41. 6 points
    Hameedeh

    Struggling with insecurity

    Salam, Sister. You are married to him but living apart until your wedding reception. You haven't started living together yet and you already think he is going to leave you. Yes, this is an irrational thought. Everyone has an irrational thought sometimes. The difference between all of us is how we deal with these negative thoughts. Some of us dismiss an irrational thought and don't let it torture us. It's just a bad thought, not the truth. Some people think irrational thoughts are from Satan and some think it is a medical problem. Some people, like me, think it doesn't matter how this irrational thought came to us, we should learn to deal with it. For people who can afford to go to a therapist, this is a good option to talk about mental health issues with someone. For those who cannot afford therapy, they can work on their mental health by speaking to a friend or relative. When an irrational thought pops into your head, you don't need to believe it. This bad thought which hurts you should be ignored. When you think a bad thought, such as "he is going to leave me" then tell yourself something to stop that thought. Remind yourself that you always show kindness and loving attention to your husband so he wouldn't have any excuse to leave you. Or you could just tell yourself something short, like "I am loved" which pushes out the "he will leave me" bad thought. Or don't say anything at all but just take a deep breath. I have a relative who closes her eyes and breathes deeply, then she opens her eyes and smiles. Maybe she is thinking of a time and place that makes her happy. Just get back into the positive thoughts and be kind to yourself.
  42. 6 points
    Ashvazdanghe

    Thoughts 2018

    Pure Irfan Ayt Behjat : Practical advice is higher than linguistic advice (Be director to Allah except your comment)
  43. 6 points
    Sunnis always do this. Any virtue of Ali (as) they try to attribute to shaykhayn or other than them. For instance they call Abu Bakr as-siddiq when Ali (as) said in sunni traditions "I am the servant of Allah and the brother of the messenger of Allah. I am the greatest truthful one (siddiqul akbar) and no one claims this after me except a liar. I prayed for 7 years before the rest of the people"
  44. 6 points
    I don't care what anyone says, because I know for a fact that Imam Ali (as) was in a different league. Just study the sayings of Abu Bakar and compare it with the eloquence and perfection of Imam Ali's (as) words. You don't have to be a scholar to recognize the beauty of Imam Ali's words. (as) Dua Kumayl itself should be a proof that Imam Ali (as) was special and a million times more knowledgeable.
  45. 6 points
    Unacceptable, what do you mean by this? Most people are not Muslims in the West. They are more apt to give her grief for wearing hijab, so I don't blame her if she decides not to wear it. To wear a hijab is a sign of bravery for me, but I can't help be concerned about nasty people giving hijabis a lot of trouble. Look at this: https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/2016/11/12/hijab-wearing-u-m-student-threatened-being-set-fire/93726806/ https://www.buzzfeed.com/mbvd/muslim-woman-wearing-hijab-set-on-fire-in-new-york-city?utm_term=.yk855Kv8Qp#.gv6BBQ4aly ^This has become more prevalent ever since Trump became president. This is what worries me.
  46. 6 points
    Salaam Alaykum Hijab is Wajib in Islam. It's difficult for converts at the beginning, but they gradually notice that no body looks at their body because of their appearance. Allah's will cannot be summed up with people's will. Each Muslim should choose one. Some women are afraid of other people, and they decide not observing Hijab. Prophet said:" Allah said whoever chooses me, I am enough for him/her. Whoever chooses someone else, I leave him/her to that person".
  47. 6 points
    notme

    Ate/Eating/Will Eat?

    Twenty three. I have twenty three varieties of tea.
  48. 6 points
    Abu Hadi

    Feel like I lost my iman

    Salam Br, If you have done sins, we have all done sins. There is no one living right now that can say they never committed sins, except Imam Mahdi(a.f.s). Everyone else is a sinner. I am the same as you, there is no difference between us. The key is to never lose hope in the mercy and forgiveness of Allah(s.w.a). Imam Sadiq(a.s) was asked, what is the most hopeful verse in the Holy Quran. He(a.s) replied with the following قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَى أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ ‘O you servants of Mine who have transgressed against your own selves! Despair not of God’s mercy: behold, God forgives all sins - for, verily, He alone is much-forgiving, a dispenser of grace!’ ” Holy Quran 39:53
  49. 6 points
    I think it’s sad, since you never know what another person is going through. Many nonhijabis have considered wearing the hijab, and no one’s personal opinion should override the person’s journey to become closer to Allah. Many brothers reject girls based on her not wearing hijab, not considering her character qualities or general compatibility. Islam is not a religion of appearances. Islam is a religion on how to perfect one’s character.
  50. 6 points
    Sisterfatima1

    A good man's attitude

    Salam A good man is someone who brings you closer to Allah and ahulbayt
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