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[Ali Huzaifa]

I was just wondering last night, if u are extra super duper lover and care taker and sensitive about the matters of your family, will this scare away wife and KIDS?


I am not sure if super duper love and compassion is good for relationship.

people around me (new couples are quite dead and I am shock how cold hearted they are for each other )

Edited by Ali Huzaifa, 20 September 2012 - 09:29 PM.

[Zulfiqar-e-Ali]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 09:28 PM, said:

people around me

That's the key.  They don't act super lovey dovey in public.  It's not appropriate.  But in private

[Ali Huzaifa]

Zulfiqar-e-Ali, on 20 September 2012 - 09:36 PM, said:

That's the key.  They don't act super lovey dovey in public.  It's not appropriate.  But in private

GOD knows....


any ways they dont take there wife out even for months, and hardly go home from shops on time....so I am not sure what time they give to there kids and wife.

basically I live in sunni dominated area, and distance betwen my shop and house is around half kilometer, in that distance there are arround 30 sunni girls who wont even re think to tell me yes for marriage ( I know how sunnis treat there wife)

but the problem is I cant afford my kid wake up some day and say UMAR(ra) nauzobillah

[macisaac]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 09:54 PM, said:

in that distance there are arround 30 sunni girls who wont even re think to tell me yes for marriage

Someone thinks he's quite the stud muffin, doesn't he..

[Ali Huzaifa]

macisaac, on 20 September 2012 - 09:57 PM, said:

Someone thinks he's quite the stud muffin, doesn't he..

wanna visit my place? I am sure u will forgot blonds......

Mashallah sunni girls over here are quite sensible, they hardly care about looks and bank balance, 80% are hijabi and quite deen daar.

[race]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 09:28 PM, said:

I was just wondering last night, if u are extra super duper lover and care taker and sensitive about the matters of your family, will this scare away wife and KIDS?


I am not sure if super duper love and compassion is good for relationship.

people around me (new couples are quite dead and I am shock how cold hearted they are for each other )

Personally, I think they will come closer to you, but depends on circumstances and how you act.

[Zulfiqar-e-Ali]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 10:02 PM, said:

wanna visit my place? I am sure u will forgot blonds......

Where do you live?!  I'm on my way!

[Ali Huzaifa]

Zulfiqar-e-Ali, on 20 September 2012 - 10:31 PM, said:

Where do you live?!  I'm on my way!

here I am located

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[No body]

why dont you convert one of sunni girls or maybe a few? who are you to think that they don't deserve to go to jannah?
start with your neighbors dude and then move onto the shia chics...charity begins at home and then neighbours
yahan tumhari dal nahin galne wali..lol

[Ali Huzaifa]

No body, on 20 September 2012 - 11:14 PM, said:

why dont you convert one of sunni girls or maybe a few? who are you to think that they don't deserve to go to jannah?
start with your neighbors dude and then move onto the shia chics...charity begins at home and then neighbours
yahan tumhari dal nahin galne wali..lol

I dont mind sunnis at all but as I said no peace with UMAR what so ever....

Edited by Ali Huzaifa, 21 September 2012 - 12:07 AM.

[No body]

kya baat hai....dal gal gayi to phir kha lo nalayak warna sarh jayegi

[Hot hot]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 11:30 PM, said:

I dont mind sunnis at all but as I said no peace with UMAR what so ever....

Kya Baat hai maara bhai fikar no Kar Tane chokhri Mali jaase

[Ali Huzaifa]

Hot hot, on 21 September 2012 - 02:09 AM, said:

Kya Baat hai maara bhai fikar no Kar Tane chokhri Mali jaase

bus tu dua kar, ane thai sake to mara waaste chokri dundh

look for a wahabi,sunni,shia,tayyebi girl for me, only condition is she shud not say or teach UMAR(ra) to my kids nauzobillah

Edited by Ali Huzaifa, 21 September 2012 - 03:38 AM.

[Chaotic Muslem]

[Hot hot]

Ali Huzaifa, on 21 September 2012 - 03:25 AM, said:

bus tu dua kar, ane thai sake to mara waaste chokri dundh

look for a wahabi,sunni,shia,tayyebi girl for me, only condition is she shud not say or teach UMAR(ra) to my kids nauzobillah

Tamari jaat Na bau log aiyan chhe maro ek dost ne Pakistan ni bohri ladki ti shaadi Kari lidhi
Ee bhi ene Internet par hi Mali
No wahabi yaar have some status

[Ali Huzaifa]

^ who made this s**** ?

[ZephyrWind]

Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 09:28 PM, said:

I am not sure if super duper love and compassion is good for relationship.

The answer to your questions depends on a number of things.  It could depend largely on the woman that you choose to marry and her preferences.  Additionally, some women may be fine with it initially, but not long term.  And it also depends on the manner and ways in which you express this "love and compassion."  What you define as expressions of love, another might define as insecurity, obsession, clingy, etc.  

People give and receive "love" in different manners.  The key is to either find someone who is completely compatible with the way you give and receive love, or to mutually learn to be considerate of and adaptable toward each other styles.

For me personally, when I read your post, I think "insecure, obsessive, clingy" and lastly "stifling and suffocating."  That may or may not be how you are, but it was my immediate reaction to your question.

[ImAli]

macisaac, on 20 September 2012 - 09:57 PM, said:

Someone thinks he's quite the stud muffin, doesn't he..

This mentality is a growing problem among the middle eastern male species. Most of them should just get married to a mirror.

[Ali Huzaifa]

Hot hot, on 21 September 2012 - 04:46 AM, said:

Tamari jaat Na bau log aiyan chhe maro ek dost ne Pakistan ni bohri ladki ti shaadi Kari lidhi
Ee bhi ene Internet par hi Mali
No wahabi yaar have some status

if you know how much tawakkal wahabis have on Allah you would not say this....all sects in ISLAM has its own quality.

[Hot hot]

Ali Huzaifa, on 21 September 2012 - 06:59 AM, said:

if you know how much tawakkal wahabis have on Allah you would not say this....all sects in ISLAM has its own quality.

Ohh really? I know much more wahabis then you yes you are correct they have a strong tawakkal for Allah but it doesn't give them rights to demolish the shrines of aale muhammed, hunting down innocent people and specially the lover of Husain,calling muawiyah a great sahaba what is all this?
Do you think Allah swt is well pleased with them because of their tawakkal and hatred for others
Get a life yaar wahabism is worst then the worst.

[lalala123]

ImAli, on 21 September 2012 - 06:51 AM, said:

This mentality is a growing problem among the middle eastern male species. Most of them should just get married to a mirror.

And the South Asian men.

ImAli, on 21 September 2012 - 06:51 AM, said:

This mentality is a growing problem among the middle eastern male species. Most of them should just get married to a mirror.

And the South Asian men.