Ali Huzaifa, on 20 September 2012 - 09:28 PM, said:
I am not sure if super duper love and compassion is good for relationship.
The answer to your questions depends on a number of things. It could depend largely on the woman that you choose to marry and her preferences. Additionally, some women may be fine with it initially, but not long term. And it also depends on the manner and ways in which you express this "love and compassion." What you define as exp
ressions of love, another might define as insecurity, obsession, clingy, etc.
People give and receive "love" in different manners. The key is to either find someone who is completely compatible with the way you give and receive love, or to mutually learn to be considerate of and adaptable toward each other styles.
For me personally, when I read your post, I think "insecure, obsessive, clingy" and lastly "stifling and suffocating." That may or may not be how you are, but it was my immediate reaction to your question.