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[SyedaZainab]

Asaalm-O-Laikum,
I would like advice on the topic of finding a Syed man to marry, I myself am Syed and currently looking for marriage Insha'Allah. I am coming on to the age of eighteen, I would say so myself I am mature for my age although this sounds ever so young. Wondering how I would take this about? Advice is appreciated.

[Ya Aba 3abdillah]

Good thing you're a basic member and can't reply to the 23984239982374987 PMs you're about to get

[awaiting_for_the.12th]

Good thing you're a basic member and can't reply to the 23984239982374987 PMs you're about to get

oh gosh there goes my proposal.

[Ali_Ibn_Hussein]

last time I checked ShiaChat wasn't a marriage matchmaker!

EDIT: will you settle for a mirza?

Edited by Ali_Ibn_Hussein, 10 August 2012 - 09:25 PM.

[Walkin' Fashion Statement]

He's already married LOL
Sister, don't worry
It's gonna be on between men on here bahahahaha

[Walkin' Fashion Statement]

last time I checked ShiaChat wasn't a marriage matchmaker!

Heyyyy c'mon now, last time I checked, I didn't see you were an admin jk, you know, why not help this sister? You'd get ajr for sure

[Sapphire]

Good Luck Sister. I will pray for you. INSHALLAH you will find someone soon.

[Ya Aba 3abdillah]

last time I checked ShiaChat wasn't a marriage matchmaker!

It's not, and it'll never be.

[Walkin' Fashion Statement]

Sister 1 advice : Do not marry any man off here, ok?

[Ali_Ibn_Hussein]

http://www.shiaspouse.com/

[El-shia]

I do not understand why it must be a Syed? Shouldn't you try to find someone based on his piety/religiousness? instead of his background ?

Someone who could be a great spouse but is not a syed gets instantly rejected?

May God guide you.

[Peace!]

Asaalm-O-Laikum,
I would like advice on the topic of finding a Syed man to marry, I myself am Syed and currently looking for marriage Insha'Allah. I am coming on to the age of eighteen, I would say so myself I am mature for my age although this sounds ever so young.
Wondering how I would take this about? Advice is appreciated.

Talk to your family first, and let them help you in your search for a compatible spouse.

[Gypsy]

You don't need to specifically look for a Sayyed boy to marry. You can marry a non-Sayyed boy also.

Try one of the online matrimonial site.

[John Al-Ameli]

ShiaChat - Find your partner today

[SyedaZainab]

last time I checked ShiaChat wasn't a marriage matchmaker!

EDIT: will you settle for a mirza?

Wow thanks for letting me know that ShiaChat isnt a marriage matchmker.. but I was simply seeking advice, my intention was not too find anyone on here..

Good Luck Sister. I will pray for you. INSHALLAH you will find someone soon.

Thank-you so much Sister, I appreciate it

salamun alaikum sister

wow mashallah 18 lol, am 18 also and im sayed too alhamdulillah, inshallah all the best...so whats the rush lol..if you dont mind me asking
you should go to hawzah there are many good sayed brothers there..

fi aman Allah

Wa-alaykumus-Salaam Thank-you, I appreciate it. I suppose there is no rush in particular, I am just thinking through things and was talking to my Mum about this the other day too, and would just like overall advice, obviously the only advice you take in the end is yours. And what is hawzah, isit a place of study?

Sister 1 advice : Do not marry any man off here, ok?

Lol, dont worry I have no intention too

I do not understand why it must be a Syed? Shouldn't you try to find someone based on his piety/religiousness? instead of his background ?

Someone who could be a great spouse but is not a syed gets instantly rejected?

May God guide you.

Hey, there is no need to jump to conclusions.. I would just prefer a Syed to keep the Syed bloodline going but if not and if I do find somebody compatible who is not Syed then I would not mind.. Allah knows best.

Talk to your family first, and let them help you in your search for a compatible spouse.

I suppose so.

LOL i think thats why she posted this thread someone from here,but i agree sis no man from here lol

No I had no intention actually to get a marriage from this website I was merely seeking advice.

You don't need to specifically look for a Sayyed boy to marry. You can marry a non-Sayyed boy also.

Try one of the online matrimonial site.

I suppose not, but I would prefer him to be Syed.

[Kamranistan]

Talk to your parents????

[SyedaZainab]

Talk to your parents????

Yes I have already spoke to my Mother

[Kamranistan]

1) Make sure he's not a waste
2) Don't rush through potentials
3) Make sure you know yourself in & out (your strengths and weaknesses - v imp imho)

But most importantly marry someone pious/'religious'.

Lol i just condensed it to this list. Insh'Allah you find someone worthy.

[SyedaZainab]

1) Make sure he's not a waste
2) Don't rush through potentials
3) Make sure you know yourself in & out (your strengths and weaknesses - v imp imho)

But most importantly marry someone pious/'religious'.

Lol i just condensed it to this list. Insh'Allah you find someone worthy.

Thank-you for this list, I agree with all of them especially the last

marry someone that brings you closer to Allah swt and takes you to jannah

Insha'Allah that is very true!

[Sheraz]

No problem at all getting married at a early age ... you should try and find a spouse and ive seen you hve alrdy told you mum ... hopefully someone decent pops up for you

edit: Karman define "waste" get out

Edited by Sheraz, 12 August 2012 - 06:09 PM.

[Lady]

lol kamran how can u know if a man is a wasteman from the first glance? They all seem like good religious men, and the second the wedding ceremony is over, you realise you're doomed!!!

[SyedaZainab]

No problem at all getting married at a early age ... you should try and find a spouse and ive seen you hve alrdy told you mum ... hopefully someone decent pops up for you

edit: Karman define "waste" get out

Thank-you

lol kamran how can u know if a man is a wasteman from the first glance? They all seem like good religious men, and the second the wedding ceremony is over, you realise you're doomed!!!

Lol! Maybe he meant like once you get to know them