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[Hamzi]

its only been 2 months tell ur dad to talk to his dad and see whats going on

[Peace!]

InshaAllah, I hope everything works out fine for you, sis!

[Allahuakbar]

 Kirmani, on 08 August 2012 - 02:43 PM, said:

well depends on what your intention was. So your istikhara should basically be basically asking if a certain path is good for you.

For example if you want to know that you should stay engaged to the guy and pursue the marriage you should say:

"I make the niyyah for Istikhara that InshAllah it is good for me to stay engaged and pursue this marriage". The Ayatollah will always reply either "Your Istikhara is very good" or "Your Istikhara is very bad". So if it comes up good then you know you should pursue this engagement and try your best to make it happen etc etc.


Now keep something in mind, although it is not WAJIB to follow the answer your Istikhara, if you decide to do something contrary to the answer then bascially you will lose (As Allah is Telling you a certain path is not good for you and if you do the opposite you are virtually ignoring Allah's Advice). There were a few Istikharas that I had done for which the answers made me VERY VERY depressed as I really wanted to go down those paths, but I cant tell you how amazing and shocked you feel yourself when you look back in hindsight and realize how true the path you took with Istikhara really was.

I haven't opened the link but I believe istikhara has a specific way to pronounce one's intentions. I believe it is "should I do this act" or hal afa'al in Arabic. To the OP, please research istikhara before using it.

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 Shiashiashia!, on 10 August 2012 - 05:22 PM, said:

Exactly what I thought

people you arent here to judge me. again you want to make comment like that keep  them for your self . i am here asking for help not for comments like that !