I'm married. Personally, when I see an act or word of intelligence from my wife, I wanna die for her. Even when we're fighting.
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Are Men Attracted To Intelligence?
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, Jul 08 2012 08:38 PM
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Posted 19 July 2012 - 04:07 AM
salman80, on 13 July 2012 - 06:15 PM, said:
I'm married. Personally, when I see an act or word of intelligence from my wife, I wanna die for her. Even when we're fighting.
Aw, that's so cute! The intensity of passion is quite something to behold. It's like a layer of the essence of Allah has been pealed off for us to acutely admire and indulge.
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 07:40 AM
kadhim, on 09 July 2012 - 08:45 PM, said:
I'd be hard pressed to name one, to be honest. I've met a good heaping handful of men I'm humble enough to recognize as my betters. But women? Yet to happen.
There was one girl in my physics program in university; she was extraordinary in that subject. Beat me consistently in that subject. Lacked roundedness though. Social trainwreck.
I'm more of a Renaissance Man polymath of the old school, and that's what I really respect; that sort of overall knowledge and ability. I've never met a female who can go toe to toe in the all around competition.
Mashallah tho, you seem pretty smart, the smartest guy I know was a pre-med math major at UNC and volunteers at a clinic with me, he's really cool, but the first thing that attracts him his a pretty face lol but then again, he's not muslim
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 08:07 AM
If I will look for intelligent women then I'll be a bachelor forever.
Khud Apne Fazaael Ko Chupaya Hai Ali Ne,
Phir Bhi Usay Logon Ne Kaha hai yeh Jali Hai,
Mai Maut Talak Jaa ke Bhi Ye Jaan Na Paaya
Jis Ne Mujhe Paala Hai Wo Allah hai Ke Ali Hai
- imam shafi of ahle sunnat.
Phir Bhi Usay Logon Ne Kaha hai yeh Jali Hai,
Mai Maut Talak Jaa ke Bhi Ye Jaan Na Paaya
Jis Ne Mujhe Paala Hai Wo Allah hai Ke Ali Hai
- imam shafi of ahle sunnat.
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 09:05 AM
"intelligence" is very attractive and in fact very "useful", this is because men in many cases may think wrong or decide wrong or do something wrong, and an intelligent wife can be there to guide the husband and introduce her opinions which can be very beneficial.
however, unfortunately, many (and i say "many" and not "all", i'm not generalizing) women who are intelligent end up thinking because they are intelligent, they do not need to listen to their husband, or that they know more, this intelligence can lead to ignorance which will have a very wrong effect in life.
the same thing goes for men, if a man thinks he can ignore his wife's inputs, this can also have major ill effects in life.
Personally i think it is very important to have a religious wife with great religious knowledge and a great self-sacrifice personality.
Men can become too busy with providing for family and hence they may at times neglect the Islamic teachings when providing for their family and may do certain unislamic things in order to get more money to provide for their family.
a wife with the above attributes, can remind the man what he is doing is haram, and she can ensure the husband that she doesn't require a lot of money for her life and the husband doesn't have to do such haram actions in order to provide for her.
she can tell him she is satisfied (and prefers to live) with little pure and halal money, rather than a rich life made our of haram income.
however, unfortunately, many (and i say "many" and not "all", i'm not generalizing) women who are intelligent end up thinking because they are intelligent, they do not need to listen to their husband, or that they know more, this intelligence can lead to ignorance which will have a very wrong effect in life.
the same thing goes for men, if a man thinks he can ignore his wife's inputs, this can also have major ill effects in life.
Personally i think it is very important to have a religious wife with great religious knowledge and a great self-sacrifice personality.
Men can become too busy with providing for family and hence they may at times neglect the Islamic teachings when providing for their family and may do certain unislamic things in order to get more money to provide for their family.
a wife with the above attributes, can remind the man what he is doing is haram, and she can ensure the husband that she doesn't require a lot of money for her life and the husband doesn't have to do such haram actions in order to provide for her.
she can tell him she is satisfied (and prefers to live) with little pure and halal money, rather than a rich life made our of haram income.
Live like Muhammad (PBUH&HF), Fight like Ali (as), Die like Hussain (as).........
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 09:07 AM
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If I will look for intelligent women then I'll be a bachelor forever.
no that is not true, there are many intelligent and religious woman on this forum as well, but I am not sure if they really want to get married or just want to live alone whole of there life.
or may be they are just too shy to take initiative, ALLAH knows the best....
Edited by Quranist, 17 December 2012 - 09:19 AM.
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 11:34 AM
And they serve beside Allah what can neither harm them nor profit them, and they say: These are our intercessors with Allah. Say: Do you (presume to) inform Allah of what He knows not in the heavens and the earth? Glory be to Him, and supremely exalted is He above what they set up (with Him). [Qur'an 10:18, Shakir translation]
Now, surely, sincere obedience is due to Allah (alone) and (as for) those who take guardians besides Him, (saying), We do not serve them save that they may make us nearer to Allah, surely Allah will judge between them in that in which they differ; surely Allah does not guide him aright who is a liar, ungrateful. [Qur'an 39:3, Shakir translation]
Now, surely, sincere obedience is due to Allah (alone) and (as for) those who take guardians besides Him, (saying), We do not serve them save that they may make us nearer to Allah, surely Allah will judge between them in that in which they differ; surely Allah does not guide him aright who is a liar, ungrateful. [Qur'an 39:3, Shakir translation]
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Posted 17 December 2012 - 01:33 PM
The question should of been, " Can men handle intelligent woman ?".....
I know your banned now put you should of based your theory on people your own age,not 14 year olds. Abusive men are liked by doormats only. If she respected herself she wouldnt be with a animal in the first place.
According to the cat and dog thread,men are attracted to dogs.Eventhough they ( well some) fit the dog description. Werid right, you see those " bimbos"," dumb blondes", their not as stupided as you think, their smart in their own way.Their are many woman that are smart, that can outbeat men.
The [***] that some of you say round here, just makes me laugh.
I know your banned now put you should of based your theory on people your own age,not 14 year olds. Abusive men are liked by doormats only. If she respected herself she wouldnt be with a animal in the first place.
According to the cat and dog thread,men are attracted to dogs.Eventhough they ( well some) fit the dog description. Werid right, you see those " bimbos"," dumb blondes", their not as stupided as you think, their smart in their own way.Their are many woman that are smart, that can outbeat men.
The [***] that some of you say round here, just makes me laugh.
Edited by Haji 2003, 17 December 2012 - 03:13 PM.
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