^ you deserve your title..
ImamAliLover, on 08 July 2012 - 12:53 PM, said:
i think this says it all:
There are some practical problems that need to be addressed because of the changing mindset of women.
Yes, you can go ahead and marry the second woman (assuming you meet the shari' conditions), but a lot of women would give you hell over it.
Not all though. Each couple has their own unique situation.
And Allah(swt) knows best
okay, kind of said it all, but not all. we shia also have the mut'ah-thingy. it's also not needed to ask permission to do mut'ah. this means i can do mut'ah behind the back of my wife. i know that this isn't the best way to behave as a man, but there isn't a law that prohibits this. so even if i would do this, i could not be blamed.
how is that to be explained..
Kaniz e Zahra, on 08 July 2012 - 12:54 PM, said:
You are bound to make justice,so asking or no asking does n't effect.If you are unjust then what if your wife allows you its still worse for your hereafter,and if she does n't then doing it would ruin your this world,so there is a loss in both cases.
dear kaniz, didn't understand a thing.
could you try again?
Edited by Al-Muntadhar, 08 July 2012 - 02:02 PM.