salam
As a kid I saw injustice(corruption/insult) my extended family members did against my parents (espeically against my mother) and their kids ( meaning myself and my siblings), But i couldn't do anything bak then. But now that i have gained alot of power by age, i am on war with my main extended family; taking revenge and destorying all family ties, and declaring them dead forever. But my parents still want to keep ties.
why do my parents have mercy for these ppl?
How can my parents think of ties with them ? I have grown old to make things fair and to put them in their graves.
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Posted 05 July 2012 - 09:43 AM
Because your parents are right, and boy you are so wrong. As its obvious, you might have aged but didnt gain any wisdom or patience, and in such have not really gained anything.
Ya Ali tera haseen naam bhala lagta hai
Teri nisbat say ye Islam bhala lagta hai
Log kehtay hain teray ishq mein kafir mujh ko
Meray dil ko ye ilzam bhala lagta hai
Teri nisbat say ye Islam bhala lagta hai
Log kehtay hain teray ishq mein kafir mujh ko
Meray dil ko ye ilzam bhala lagta hai
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Posted 05 July 2012 - 09:45 AM
The seventh Greater Sin is Qat’a ar-Rahm, the breaking up of relations with one’s kith and kin. This is clearly verified by Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) as well as Imam Musaal-Kadhim (a.s.), Imam ‘Ali ar-Riďa (a.s.) and Imam Muhammad al-Taqi (a.s.). The Qur’an has also decreed Hell-fire and the curse of Allah (S.w.T.) upon those who cut off ties with their relatives.
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Posted 05 July 2012 - 11:13 AM
Your deeds alone are faithful: make them your refuge, for they alone will accompany you into the depths of the tomb - Rumi
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Posted 05 July 2012 - 05:34 PM
salam
As a kid I saw injustice(corruption/insult) my extended family members did against my parents (espeically against my mother) and their kids ( meaning myself and my siblings), But i couldn't do anything bak then. But now that i have gained alot of power by age, i am on war with my main extended family; taking revenge and destorying all family ties, and declaring them dead forever. But my parents still want to keep ties.
why do my parents have mercy for these ppl?
How can my parents think of ties with them ? I have grown old to make things fair and to put them in their graves.
You are going to kill them? Such a decision would not benefit anyone, not even yourself.
Listen to your parents, they are wise people. Anyone can muster up the courage to fight back, few can muster up the courage to forgive. Your parents have faith in a greater justice, executed by the greatest power in the universe— Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì. Be patient. If you want, you can talk to some of the members of your extended family and ask them why they tortured you and your family so much. Don't do anything violent unless you want them spared on the day of judgement. Just wait.
"The Truth Is Available For Those Who Sincerely Seek It"
- Imam Ali Naqi (as)
"There Is Always Enough Light For One Who Wishes To See. "
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Posted 06 July 2012 - 03:41 AM
salam
As a kid I saw injustice(corruption/insult) my extended family members did against my parents (espeically against my mother) and their kids ( meaning myself and my siblings), But i couldn't do anything bak then. But now that i have gained alot of power by age, i am on war with my main extended family; taking revenge and destorying all family ties, and declaring them dead forever. But my parents still want to keep ties.
why do my parents have mercy for these ppl?
How can my parents think of ties with them ? I have grown old to make things fair and to put them in their graves.
Learn to forgive Brother. Forgiveness is a great virtue of a muslim. This world will end. And the hatred will remain here. We have to face Allah(SWT) one day.
"Hold to forgiveness, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant. (Qur'an, 7: 199)"
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Posted 06 July 2012 - 04:56 AM
salam
As a kid I saw injustice(corruption/insult) my extended family members did against my parents (espeically against my mother) and their kids ( meaning myself and my siblings), But i couldn't do anything bak then. But now that i have gained alot of power by age, i am on war with my main extended family; taking revenge and destorying all family ties, and declaring them dead forever. But my parents still want to keep ties.
why do my parents have mercy for these ppl?
How can my parents think of ties with them ? I have grown old to make things fair and to put them in their graves.
If you really wanted to put them in their graves, you would have already instead of posting and nagging on an internet forum... It's better you become AN HERO before thinking of mass murdering your extended evil family...
Or in all, just have a kit-kat and let it go...
Shab Az3ar
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