How Would You FeelAnother poll for the sisters
Posted 22 August 2012 - 11:06 AM
I thought that we recite in the sigha that marriage is being performed to abide by the sunna and stay away from haram. The brother in the OP was probably genuine and spoke what he felt and wanted. And nikah literally means sex and every momin/momina have biological needs. I have seen people getting unconfortable with mutah and nikah and are okay with zinah.
Sex is definitely the most important reason behind marriage and needs more attention in our community but he probably chose the wrong girl . She is probably the kind of woman who thinks lowly of a man who speaks truth however according to ahadees being truthful is manliness.
She definately may wish to not marry him even if he is religious because it is she who will spend the whole life with him. She may reject the guy for his looks, wealth, or family but rejecting due to religiosity may be a problem and I think the hadees being talked about is just that. You like his religion, like him but have reservations due to poverty, race etc.
Imam Reza a.s. Says: One who Claims that he is greater than a Slave(Abd) of Ali a.s., he is definately Misguided.
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faoslukee subula rabbiki zululan (16:69)
Abase Yourself in Front of the Paths(14 Masoomeen a.s.) to Your Rabb
Imam jafar as sadiq a.s said: That a monk from bani Israel worshipped Allah azwj so much that he became like a dry stick.Allah azwj revealed to the hujja of that time to go and say to him that. Allah azwj says: by my greatness might and power even if you wworship Me till you melt like something in the cooking pot I will not accept it from you anything until you come to Me from the door I have ordered for you.Iqaabul amaal , hadees 1 by sheikh sudooq.
Posted 22 August 2012 - 01:17 PM
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Abee Ja`far (al-Jawaad) said: ‘Verily the Messenger of Allaah (Õáì Çááå Úáíå æÂáå æÓáã) said: “If someone comes to you and you are satisfied with his manners and religion, marry him. Verily, if you do not do that, there will be fitnah(sedition) on the earth and great fasaad (corruption)”’
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Edited by Abu Abdullaah, 22 August 2012 - 01:17 PM.
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