Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
^Brother, you always put the biggest smile on my face every time I read your posts... A bit like this:

but sometimes like

Alhumdililah. I thought I was boring and annoying everyone to death. I feel dumber than when I first became a Muslim, because at least then I could absorb something. Now I'm gonna have to re-learn everything, and then not get confused between the Sunni way and the correct way. LOL.
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
It's so beautiful to see another brother who lives on the other side of the earth take the same path to Islam as I did. I truly find it amazing that you looked beyond the BS that is pumped into so many innocent Muslims minds about the Shia. Alhamdulliah I never had this problem. The Brothers at my Masjid don't care if I am Shia. Probs because I havnt really told them lol but I am pretty sure the Imam knows becuase I am really good friends with his son and his son has prayed next to me many times and never has spoken about why I use a leaf or Shia or anything like that. They aren't stupid, I am pretty sure some know but they don't even mention it or anything.
Oh, trust me, I believed all that [Edited Out]. Three main things made me question if the Shi'a were really that bad.
First, there was a brother named Ali that I used to work out with (in school, we both went before school to weight lift -- and dammit I'm still fat) and now I have him in my animation design class, where I sat next to him until I moved to be closer to other people I am friends with. He was a really nice brother, and seemed more sincere than most Sunnis (well, or Shi'as as most Muslims in my school are Shi'a but they're not that good of Muslims tbh), and that really impressed me. He told me about his life in Iraq before he moved here, and how Ramadhan is always harder here (in the US) because (this year, at least) it's 18 hours, where in Iraq it's like 10 every year, no matter what. The times don't change as much as they do up here (Washington state).
The second reason was the book I mentioned earlier called "After the Prophet". I actually picked up that book in order to confirm that the Shi'a were backwards, racist, Iranians, but Alhamdulilah it led me otherwise. It showed the history from a very objective point of view, without any Sunni or Shi'a bias. It focused on Muhammad, Ali, and Hussein (as well as others, but these were the three sections of the book). I remember hearing great things about Muawiyah and Yazid (well, hearing that they were great people. I never actually learned what they did that was so great) and I literally became sick after reading what really happened.
The third was a girl named Saleel in my English class. I was on the computer with my Atheist friend Chris and we were looking at news articles to use in our essays and Saleel along with another girl was there and the three of them were talking about movies and whatnot. The subject turned to gay marriage and I made the statement that homosexuality is wrong, and, according to my religion, they should be put to death (I dunno if I truly agree with that, as I think homosexuality is a choice and you can change . . . but idk. I'm not gay so I really wouldn't know if it's a choice or not) and Saleel asked me for my religion. I told her I was a Muslim and she (obviously) is because she wears hijab. So we got into discussing the deen, and I found out she was Shi'a. My first reaction was "but you seem like such a good person, do you beat yourself?!" and she was like "uh, no, ew" haha. So we talked a lot more for like 2 days (the whole class hours) and yeah. It turns out that Shi'ites aren't that bad . . . =P
So then I came here, and posted this thread under the nickname Abdul Alim, but I had it changed to Ja'far to reflect my inner change. =O
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
It's really funny how it's only the young Brothers who come and approach me about the leaf. Whenever they come I just tell them that in our Prophets (pbuh&hf) time, they didn't have carpet and carpet was put into his Masjid centuries after him. Its a Sunnah to pray on natural material and we have traditions that state sometimes he made a mat made of leaves just to prostrate on. One Brother said to me afterwards when I told him why: "Ah that's so cool" or something along those lines haha.
I find that interesting too. It seems the younger ones are always the more judgmental, or if not, they voice their opinions a lot more. I had to be corrected a couple of times in the Sunni mosques and the younger brothers would just be like "you're doing it wrong" while the older ones would actually explain and show me how to do it properly (like not wearing shirts with an image into the masjid).
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
May Allah reward you for your effort in seeking the truth. Thank Allah everyday that He has guided you the right path.
If you need anything just PM, I'm certain i can help you out if you ever need it as it was only months ago, that I was literally in your shoes.
BarakAllah Feek.
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
Brother in Jaffari Fiqh (Jurisprudence) we are permitted to combine our Salah. This is based on the fact that it's a Sunnah of the Prophet and he would combine his Salah on many occasions and sometimes for no reason at all. The reason why it doesn't mention Asr and Isha is because from the time of Zuhr we can pray Asr straight after but separately. So like, you can do some Dhikr, read Quran ect after Zuhr and then straight away do Asr and you don't need to pray until Mahgreb

for Maghreb it's rhe same, after the time of Maghreb, once you have done Maghreb Salah you can then do Isha afterwards at anytime that is convient to you.
Oh, okay, thanks!!
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
Our religion came to bring ease, not hardship. Imagine being a doctor and in the middle of a surgical opporation having to Pray Maghreb at 6:00 pm and then around an hour later perfor Isha? Our Prophet (pbuh&hf) gave us the option to combine our Salah when we needed to. But it is better to separate if possible.
I find that the Shi'a school really is a lot easier. Wudhu only took me like 30 seconds, where doing it the Sunni way took me several minutes. I dunno about Salah, but it seemed to go by faster. Maybe that's just because I was doing it out of want instead of "ugh I have to pray now" =P
Ali
, on 28 May 2012 - 12:51 AM, said:
Hope that helps

It has, Mash'Allah, thank you bro!
Ahlulbayt~lover, on 28 May 2012 - 06:57 AM, said:
Asalam o alikum brother we can read asr right after zuhr without any gap of time and same case in maghrib and isha.
There are many sunni and shia traditions which states that prophet combined [zuhr,asr and maghrib,isha] without any reason(rain,travel or any other thing) and the reason behind it was just for the ease of ummah.All our jurist agree that we can perform combine prayers.However it is better according to our some/all jurists to pray seperately.
Oh, okay, thank you for explaining. The Sunnis say that you can only combined prayers if you are traveling, but that is not the case here. Thank you so much!