AnaAmmar1, on 08 May 2012 - 11:57 AM, said:
and now i am more convinced to marry an arab girl.
i dont know why but few days back when i was in beirut during gmj,the females there really attract me.
in pakistan i dont even bother them
Sorry sisters that we are trolling on your side of fence..
Brother not so fast. Some Arabs (not all) are bunch of the most racist people I've met. They won't marry you if they have an iota of materialism in them.
On the other hand, If you find a perfect momina among Arabs, they would more likely be willing ... But again they may have other likes such as one of my Arab friends had a hard time finding a wife from Karbala because no Karbala woman was ready to leave Karbala for a life of relative luxary in Europe.
WIth that said, about my comment - apparently sexual liberalism is also relative to the regions as well. There is a famous event of Prophet (s) that Meccans used to be much more sexually liberal than Madina people. So when companions migrated (the famous Hijra) and once they married with Madina women, they complained to Prophet (s) that Madina women would not let their husbands try various positions. And then the hadith keeps going, you can read the rest in the book "Marriage and Morals of Islam". [By the way Sister OP - this is a good book for you and your husband as well - and see this is the kind of advice you miss once you make a sister's only club]
But overall, Arabs, men and women both, seem to be more sexually and relationship liberals than Paks, Indians, and Westerners (its just my experience with friendship with Arabs). Iraqis, Hijazis, Kuwaitis seem to be the best of breed. Lebanon, Syria, North Africa may still have lots of European influences.
In Pak/India, sexuality for women borders almost a constant guilt trip, and among Westernerns, any sexually liberalism touches the extreme perversion which makes it totally unfair to the women anyway.
So I guess this leaves a smaller pool of Arabs for you. Oh well...that's life
OK Ladies, handing the ball back to you - my apologies.
Edited by Waiting for HIM, 08 May 2012 - 04:15 PM.