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[Quranist]

ok this is from a brother, and he is active participant of shia chat   , but he just wants to remain anonymous, so i am opening this thread on his behalf  

ok sisters, I mean come on, what has happened to girls these days?


I mean this brother is quite handsome, quite religious,making good money,belongs to a reputed family,humble in nature and hardly has any bad habit....


but still he is not able to find a appropriate girl for him self.....

so what shud be done now?

[md. ammar ali]

dua

patience

patience is a virtue

[_JuGNii]

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yamolaAlimadad, on 28 March 2012 - 07:31 AM, said:

so what shud be done now?

P.S. @ MUSHU : I told you I'll hook you up innit.. JUST BE PATIENT..

[Quranist]

most girls on this websites are unislamic and they run away like a thief when hears name of HIJAB and NAMAZ lol

brothers and sisters please pray for him.....plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


do you hear thissssssssssssssssss? I am serious.

jazakAllah

[_JuGNii]

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yamolaAlimadad, on 28 March 2012 - 07:43 AM, said:

most girls on this websites are unislamic and they run away like a thief when hears name of HIJAB and NAMAZ lol

[Quranist]

_JuGNii, on 28 March 2012 - 07:45 AM, said:

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YoNiqaabi.com

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Let'sReadNamazTogetherForever.com

MuslimCouple.com

this isnt joke

[md. ammar ali]

may Allah swt show him, his dream girl and let him marry her aameen

happy married life

[_JuGNii]

What are you expecting a girl gonna stand up and say .. I'LL TAKE HIM .. jeez He isn't a sale item .. and these things happen with TIME.. you gotta be patient.. and if he has all these qualities he will find the right girl at the right time.. he can involve his parents .. there are many MORE options BEETTER than opening a topic on SHIA CHAT.  

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Or maybe the Bro needs to lower his expectations or just wait until he finds her..

[Quranist]

_JuGNii, on 28 March 2012 - 07:52 AM, said:

What are you expecting a girl gonna stand up and say .. I'LL TAKE HIM .. jeez He isn't a sale item .. and these things happen with TIME.. you gotta be patient.. and if he has all these qualities he will find the right girl at the right time.. he can involve his parents .. there are many MORE options BEETTER than opening a topic on SHIA CHAT.  

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Or maybe the Bro needs to lower his expectations or just wait until he finds her..

InshAllah...Ameen

his parents are already involved, only GOD knows for what reason things are not working out....

hijab and namaz cant be counted in high expectations

Edited by yamolaAlimadad, 28 March 2012 - 08:01 AM.

[md. ammar ali]

it will work out soon inshaAllah

may be Allah swt plans the best for him
Allah swt is the best of the planners isnt it

just dua

[Quranist]

varun loves ahlulbayt, on 28 March 2012 - 08:06 AM, said:

it will work out soon inshaAllah

may be Allah swt plans the best for him
Allah swt is the best of the planners isnt it

just dua

INshallah Ameen

[zeinab94]

Asalamu Alaikum,,

speaking from a girls point of view,, i would never except someone that isnt religious,, so im sure there would be someone thats like that as well,, there r boys i know who are religious,, when they find someone who is religious they dont go for her because of her looks,,

has he tried looking at his local mosques and stuff,,

Inshallah he finds what he is looking for

[_JuGNii]

When did i specifically say that.. that is my point. they are not high expectations.. and there are MANY GIRLS out there who fall into this category.. if he still can't find obviously hijab and namaz aren't the reason.. !

So like i said PATIENCEEEEEEEEEEE.. coz opening a topic on shiachat isn't gonna grab Allah swt's attention

yamolaAlimadad, on 28 March 2012 - 08:04 AM, said:

hijab and namaz cant be counted in high expectations

[Quranist]

zeinab94, on 28 March 2012 - 08:27 AM, said:

Asalamu Alaikum,,

speaking from a girls point of view,, i would never except someone that isnt religious,, so im sure there would be someone thats like that as well,, there r boys i know who are religious,, when they find someone who is religious they dont go for her because of her looks,,

has he tried looking at his local mosques and stuff,,

Inshallah he finds what he is looking for

he is going to get a reply from a girl, who was introduced to him by mosque, now let see what comes out...pls keep him in your prayers.GOD knows who is more closer to him(Allah) and his/her prayer gets accepted.

Edited by yamolaAlimadad, 28 March 2012 - 08:41 AM.

[Khadim uz Zahra]

Mushu, on 28 March 2012 - 02:13 PM, said:

I'm FINE.

Jugniiiiiii Jiiiii, Mushu does not need any help from you; we boys already have a mentor for this: Kamran Syed aka "The Eloper"!

[Aqua]

Well I am kind of in the same situation and I understand how frustrating it can be for decent people to find worthy marriage partners, especially in communities where people don't take religion seriously and just see it as a "culture" rather than a deen and a way of life. But no matter what everyone tells you about how every girl doesn't wear hijab or doesn't pray, trust me, there are plenty of girls who do. So just tell your friend to have sabr (patience), and not to turn down every suggestion that is made to him. Ask for suggestions of relatives who may know potential people, get to know who they are, their family, and even if they don't wear hijab or something, maybe consider that they can change. I dunno, just a thought.

[_JuGNii]

Mushu fittey mun.. if you get serious with me then..

Dafaa ho

Mushu, on 28 March 2012 - 02:13 PM, said:

I'm FINE.

[Quranist]

Aqua, on 28 March 2012 - 03:32 PM, said:

Well I am kind of in the same situation and I understand how frustrating it can be for decent people to find worthy marriage partners, especially in communities where people don't take religion seriously and just see it as a "culture" rather than a deen and a way of life. But no matter what everyone tells you about how every girl doesn't wear hijab or doesn't pray, trust me, there are plenty of girls who do. So just tell your friend to have sabr (patience), and not to turn down every suggestion that is made to him. Ask for suggestions of relatives who may know potential people, get to know who they are, their family, and even if they don't wear hijab or something, maybe consider that they can change. I dunno, just a thought.

thats constructive comments, thanx

_JuGNii, on 28 March 2012 - 04:27 PM, said:

Mushu fittey mun.. if you get serious with me then..

Dafaa ho

pls do not derail this thread with all this non sense

[Hassan R Syed]

Khadim uz Zahra, on 28 March 2012 - 02:40 PM, said:

Jugniiiiiii Jiiiii, Mushu does not need any help from you; we boys already have a mentor for this: Kamran Syed aka "The Eloper"!

WTH, loooool brooo people might not know it's a joke. Everyone he's joking Btw Mushu blad - text me more often you wasteman.

Khadim.. Don't hate bro.. Don't hate..

(obviously it's kam right now btw)

wasalaam.

Edited by Hassan R Syed, 28 March 2012 - 10:09 PM.

[Khadim uz Zahra]

Hassan R Syed, on 28 March 2012 - 10:09 PM, said:

WTH, loooool brooo people might not know it's a joke. Everyone he's joking Btw Mushu blad - text me more often you wasteman.

Khadim.. Don't hate bro.. Don't hate..

(obviously it's kam right now btw)

wasalaam.

Is it me who is at fault or you? Am I hating or are you the one who abandoned us - I am sure the reason was that you eloped with someone!

[3laweyaZainabiya]

Men...

Maybe he's looking in the wrong place? Or maybe he's not looking hard enough? If he wants a good Muslim girl, odds are she won't advertise herself.
Tell the local sheikh. He's bound to know a Muslim woman for him.

[Shia_Debater]

Hassan R Syed, on 28 March 2012 - 10:09 PM, said:

WTH, loooool brooo people might not know it's a joke. Everyone he's joking Btw Mushu blad - text me more often you wasteman.

Khadim.. Don't hate bro.. Don't hate..

(obviously it's kam right now btw)

wasalaam.

blad you didnt even call

[La fata illa Ali]

we all know you are talking about urself Yomola...cmon man, just admit it.

[-Enlightened]

yamolaAlimadad, on 28 March 2012 - 07:31 AM, said:

so what shud be done now?

http://www.duas.org/matri1.htm