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#26 AlphaMale_ASAD

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:01 AM

View PostAsadullabdallah, on 08 February 2012 - 01:31 AM, said:

Everyone who wants to get married inshaAllah. Comment below and give one reason why you wanna be married and one reason why you think you would be a good husband/wife.

I wanna get married because it's part of Islam. Its half the faith and when you revert the last thing you wanna do is play games. I'm naturally a strong man and feel I need something to take care of and protect or I feel lost. Nothing more beautiful al hamdu lilaah to see two people really in it for the right reasons. Specially in today's world where the women grow more independent and the men still out there going from person to person no one wants to commit. No one appreciates the marriages that last 40-80 years long. No one sees that no more. We need to bring that back.

Why I would make a good husband? Allah knows best. When you see all the wrong choices in ya life it's not too hard to see the right ones.

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:04 AM

View Postbehayaat, on 08 February 2012 - 02:54 AM, said:

Yea if she wants to do a little work in the house. it wont  be an issue, but her main priorty will be dealin with kids.Also im not planin to hve kids so early..hopeful when im 30.  I want to travel alot. lets hope god is on my side.

30 :o omg forget travel have kids ( thats just a perosn opinion loll) inshallah Allah swt gives you the ability to travel all over the world


View PostAsadullabdallah, on 08 February 2012 - 03:01 AM, said:

I wanna get married because it's part of Islam. Its half the faith and when you revert the last thing you wanna do is play games. I'm naturally a strong man and feel I need something to take care of and protect or I feel lost. Nothing more beautiful al hamdu lilaah to see two people really in it for the right reasons. Specially in today's world where the women grow more independent and the men still out there going from person to person no one wants to commit. No one appreciates the marriages that last 40-80 years long. No one sees that no more. We need to bring that back.

Why I would make a good husband? Allah knows best. When you see all the wrong choices in ya life it's not too hard to see the right ones.

May Allah swt send you a great wife soon inshallah :)

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You are as I like You to be, so make me as You want me to be!


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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:18 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 03:04 AM, said:

30 :o omg forget travel have kids ( thats just a perosn opinion loll) inshallah Allah swt gives you the ability to travel all over the world




May Allah swt send you a great wife soon inshallah :)

lol i knw 30 is kinda late, but i dont want to travel with an army of migiates to anywhere i go. :D

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:20 AM

View Postbehayaat, on 08 February 2012 - 03:18 AM, said:

lol i knw 30 is kinda late, but i dont want to travel with an army of migiates to anywhere i go. :D

LOLLL well get married earlier travel then have your army  before thirty haha , and your planning on having an army and eating out everyday you must have a good job lol, sorry but im just shocked at the maid and take out loll

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:23 AM

InshaAllah imma have 4 wives( 3 iraqi widows who have kids). Raise them to be my clan and have all the boys have 4 wives and marry my daughters off to strengthen tribal ties. And take over! Lol

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:24 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 03:20 AM, said:

LOLLL well get married earlier travel then have your army  before thirty haha , and your planning on having an army and eating out everyday you must have a good job lol, sorry but im just shocked at the maid and take out loll

Its not good when a mother takes her anger out on her kids, bc shes too busy with house chores.. so i dont want the same happein to my kids..It will work out. :) im not a cheap man.

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:28 AM

View PostAsadullabdallah, on 08 February 2012 - 03:23 AM, said:

InshaAllah imma have 4 wives( 3 iraqi widows who have kids). Raise them to be my clan and have all the boys have 4 wives and marry my daughters off to strengthen tribal ties. And take over! Lol

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View Postbehayaat, on 08 February 2012 - 03:24 AM, said:

Its not good when a mother takes her anger out on her kids, bc shes too busy with house chores.. so i dont want the same happein to my kids..It will work out. :) im not a cheap man.

loll inshallah , but seriously your wife sound slike shes going to live a very care free life niyelah

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:30 AM

salaamz,

I want to get married so I could complete half my faith. So I could be closer to my lord. My prayers in my lords eyes will be valued more. So I can be protected from Shaitan 70%. So my Faith gets strengthened. Ofc have kids (LOVE KIDS:D) Have a wonderful family who just submits to the ALL MIGHTY. INSHALLAH.

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:34 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 03:28 AM, said:

:mellow:



loll inshallah , but seriously your wife sound slike shes going to live a very care free life niyelah

yup :) i believe in comfort the most. life is so short so dont create problems and live happily until ur call .

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:52 AM

View Postbehayaat, on 08 February 2012 - 03:34 AM, said:

yup :) i believe in comfort the most. life is so short so dont create problems and live happily until ur call .

may Allah swt send you your wife soon inshallah :)

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 03:54 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 03:52 AM, said:

may Allah swt send you your wife soon inshallah :)

haha

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:11 AM

View PostDawud., on 08 February 2012 - 02:28 AM, said:

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That's easy for you to say...you're married.  Spare a thought for us single desperados

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LET'S CHANGE THE RULES!!!! LANAT ON FULAN AND FULAN!!!

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  And don't play coy with claiming to not know who the fulans and fulanas are...

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:19 AM

i've got a friend who's really keen on getting married ASAP. any takers?

he's from east turkey (kurdish), born and raised in germany. he lives in the middle east now. he recently found his faith, and you can say I've taken on the responsibility to be his wayfaring mate on the start of his religious journey (with the aid of Allah swt).

long shot, I know.

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:23 AM

I wanna get married; more for having a 'companion'. I want there to be someone with whom I can share my life.

But Arab families are against early marriages these days :(

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:24 AM

The only thing this thread is lacking is a match maker!

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:41 AM

View PostMushu, on 08 February 2012 - 06:23 AM, said:

I wanna get married; more for having a 'companion'. I want there to be someone with whom I can share my life.

But Arab families are against early marriages these days :(


dont worry about arab families, my brother in law married my sister and there both still 19 so stuff culture and find a girl and marry her!!!


View Postpepsi, on 08 February 2012 - 06:24 AM, said:

The only thing this thread is lacking is a match maker!

that would be me :D , i have set up 4 successful couples *grows a head* lolll


im just still working on setting myself up its harder when you have to find one for yourself :dry:  loll

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:42 AM

View PostMushu, on 08 February 2012 - 06:23 AM, said:

But Arab families are against early marriages these days :(
So are Pakistani/Indian families sigh. "Get a good degree, start earning, buy a house yada yada then we'll let you marry who we pick" ah gotta love our backward parents ^_^

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 06:47 AM

View PostReplicant, on 08 February 2012 - 06:42 AM, said:

So are Pakistani/Indian families sigh. "Get a good degree, start earning, buy a house yada yada then we'll let you marry who we pick" ah gotta love our backward parents ^_^

LOLLL hahaha thats soo funny , they say it with full confidence as if theres nothing wrong with THEM picking who WE will marry

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:04 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 06:41 AM, said:

dont worry about arab families, my brother in law married my sister and there both still 19 so stuff culture and find a girl and marry her!!!


InshAllah :dry:

Unfortunately my criteria is very limited. It would be extremely hard for me to find a wife young.

View PostReplicant, on 08 February 2012 - 06:42 AM, said:

So are Pakistani/Indian families sigh. "Get a good degree, start earning, buy a house yada yada then we'll let you marry who we pick" ah gotta love our backward parents ^_^

:lol:

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:08 AM

View PostMushu, on 08 February 2012 - 07:04 AM, said:

InshAllah :dry:

Unfortunately my criteria is very limited. It would be extremely hard for me to find a wife young.



offfttt he want to be picky kamen :P loll, when your hanging out with shiekh hamid tell him to set you up with someone lol

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:27 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 07:08 AM, said:

offfttt he want to be picky kamen :P loll, when your hanging out with shiekh hamid tell him to set you up with someone lol

Lool no not so much picky...

:lol: he did actually mention that there were some half Lebanese half Mexican (I think it was Mexican...) girls looking to get married :lol:

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:28 AM

View PostMushu, on 08 February 2012 - 07:27 AM, said:

Lool no not so much picky...

:lol: he did actually mention that there were some half Lebanese half Mexican (I think it was Mexican...) girls looking to get married :lol:

GOO FOR IT, if there nice and pick one only loll dont take them both haha :P, sheikhs are good at setting people up you can be married in no time!

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:29 AM

View PostReplicant, on 08 February 2012 - 06:42 AM, said:

So are Pakistani/Indian families sigh. "Get a good degree, start earning, buy a house yada yada then we'll let you marry who we pick" ah gotta love our backward parents ^_^

Now the criteria is bit changed, " Get a good degree, start earning in Pounds or dollars, settle in west, then find we'll find ya good match, coz parents know what is best for their children"


I agree with last part of it, but first one............. " Just love the way they think" :excl:

What is "the world" except the forgetfulness of God.

It is not family, possessions, wife and children.


I hate those who try to enforce Islamic rules on others, Why don't u understand Islam isn't for every one and there is no "Jabr" in Islam too. If You are that sincere then first implement these rules in your life and pray for others...

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:33 AM

View Postmuslimah1, on 08 February 2012 - 07:28 AM, said:

GOO FOR IT, if there nice and pick one only loll dont take them both haha :P, sheikhs are good at setting people up you can be married in no time!

Lool nahh i'm not that shallow that i'd go for them for that reason :lol:

Well, first and foremost I need a girl who will agree to come with me to live in Najaf whilst I spend my years in the Hawzah. Not many girls these days would be willing to do that.

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Posted 08 February 2012 - 07:39 AM

Complete half our deen... nikkah please, get real.  The only reasons you lot want to get married is because you cant control that thing between your legs (legit reason), and also to experience that warm tingly feeling every time she calls your name.  Dont worry, that feeling wont last long either, soon enough you will be digging for that mouth tape you invested a G in.

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