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#1 diracdeltafunc

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 03:50 PM

(bismillah)


Laughing and Smiling


1ـ الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): كانَ ضِحكُ النبيِّ صلى ‏الله ‏عليه ‏و‏آله التبسُّم .
1– Imam Ali (as) said, ‘The Prophet (SAWA)’s laughter was a smile.’[Amali al-Tusi, p. 522, no. 1156]


2- الإمامُ الباقرُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): إذا قَهْقَهتَ فقُلْ حينَ تَفرُغُ: اللّهُمّ لا تَمقُتْني .
2– Imam al-Baqir (as) said, ‘When you laugh boisterously, say, ‘O Allah do not despise me’ when you have finished.’[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 664, no. 13]


3- الإمامُ الصّادقُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): القَهقَهَةُ مِن الشَّيطانِ
3– Imam al-Sadiq (as) said, ‘Loud boisterous laughter is from Satan.’[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 664, no. 10]


4- الإمامُ الصّادقُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): ضِحكُ المؤمِنِ تَبَسُّم .
4– Imam al-Sadiq (as) said, ‘The laughter of a believer is a smile.’[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 664, no. 5]


5- الإمامُ الصّادقُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): مَن تَبَسَّم في وَجهِ‏أخيهِ كانَت لَهُ حَسَنةٌ .
5– Imam al-Sadiq (as) said, ‘He who smiles at his brother gets the reward of a good deed.’[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 206, no. 1]


ذَمُّ كَثرَةِ الضِّحكِ


The Censure of Laughing Too Much



6ـ رسولُ اللهِ‏ِ (صَلَّيَ اللهُ عَلَيهِ وَ آلِهِ): إيّاكَ وكَثرَةَ الضِّحكِ؛ فإنّهُ يُمِيتُ القَلبَ .
6– The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘Beware of laughing too much for verily it kills the heart.’[Ma`ani al-Akhbar, p. 335, no. 1]


7ـ رسولُ اللهِ (صَلَّيَ اللهُ عَلَيهِ وَ آلِهِ): لو تَعلَمُونَ ما أعلَمُ لَضَحِكتُم قليلاً وَلَبَكَيتُم كثيرا .
7– The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘If you knew what I know, you would laugh but a little and you would cry much.’[Nur al-Thaqalayn, v. 2, p. 249, no. 261]


8ـ في حديث المِعراجِ: عَجِبتُ مِن عَبدٍ لايَدري أنّي راضٍ عَنهُ أو ساخِطٌ علَيهِ وهُو يَضحَك!
8– It is narrated within the tradition about the Prophet (SAWA)’s ascension that Allah said, ‘How I wonder at the servant who laughs while he does not know whether I am pleased or displeased with him!’[Irshad al-Qulub, p. 200]


9ـ الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): مَن كَثُرَ ضِحكُه ذَهَبَت هَيبَتُهُ .
9– Imam Ali (as) said, ‘The earnestness of one who laughs too much deteriorates.’[Tuhaf al-`Uqoul, p. 96]


10ـ الإمامُ العسكريُّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): مِنَ الجَهلِ الضَّحكُ مِن غَيرِ عَجَبٍ.
10– Imam al-`Aaskari (as) said, ‘Laughing without cause stems from ignorance.’[Bihar al-Anwar, v. 76, p. 59, no. 10]




Source : http://darolhadith.n...vid=251&scid=12

Edited by diracdeltafunc, 03 August 2011 - 03:51 PM.

Ali a.s. Imam-e-manasto manam ghulaam-e-Ali a.s , Hazaar jaan-e-giraami fidaa-e-naam-e-Ali a.s.!!.

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 03:56 PM

View Postdiracdeltafunc, on 03 August 2011 - 03:50 PM, said:

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10– Imam al-`Aaskari (as) said, ‘Laughing without cause stems from ignorance.’[Bihar al-Anwar, v. 76, p. 59, no. 10][/size][/color]
... and mental retardation. :unsure:

Thank you for sharing. *smile*
وَخُلِقَ الإِنسَانُ ضَعِيفًا [...]

[...] and man is created weak (4:28)



قال الإمام علي (ع) : مسكين ابن آدم؛ مكتوم الأجل، مكنون العلل، محفوظ العمل.. تؤلمه البقة، تقتله الشرقة، وتنتنه العرقة


Imam Ali (عليه سلام) said: Pitiable is the son of Adam! His death is hidden [from him], his illnesses are invisible and his actions are recorded. A mosquito causes him pain, a gasp can kill him and [a little] sweat makes him stink.


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Posted 03 August 2011 - 04:01 PM

View PostBasim Ali, on 03 August 2011 - 03:56 PM, said:

... and mental retardation. :unsure:

Thank you for sharing. *smile*

lol :)

بَقِيَّتُ ٱللَّهِ خَيْرٌۭ لَّكُمْ إِن كُنتُم مُّؤْمِنِينَ

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 04:13 PM

View PostBasim Ali, on 03 August 2011 - 03:56 PM, said:

... and mental retardation. :unsure:

Thank you for sharing. *smile*
Is that part of the translation?
Ali a.s. Imam-e-manasto manam ghulaam-e-Ali a.s , Hazaar jaan-e-giraami fidaa-e-naam-e-Ali a.s.!!.

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 04:20 PM

very nice hadith :)
Hazrat Ali (AS) says: "The Holy Prophet brought me up in his own arms and fed me from his own morsel. I followed him wherever he went, like   a baby camel which follows its mother. Each day an aspect of his character would beam out of his noble soul and I would accept it and follow it as a command."

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 04:22 PM

(salam)
Very nice.

Thanks for sharing.

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Posted 03 August 2011 - 04:58 PM

Thanks for Sharing!

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Posted 01 April 2012 - 09:31 AM

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Thank you for sharing. Hopefully we can all take the Imams' (as) advice. :)

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Posted 01 April 2012 - 12:32 PM

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Surely laughing is one of my weak points. Thank you brother for enlightening my heart.

Duakum

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 04:24 PM

View PostAwaiting_for_My_Master, on 01 April 2012 - 12:32 PM, said:

(bismillah)
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Surely laughing is one of my weak points. Thank you brother for enlightening my heart.

Duakum

(wasalam)

My pleasure!
Ali a.s. Imam-e-manasto manam ghulaam-e-Ali a.s , Hazaar jaan-e-giraami fidaa-e-naam-e-Ali a.s.!!.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 06:31 PM

I laugh/giggle too much too. Makes me seem like an idiot and I think I get less respect. Makes sense with these hadith in mind.
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Posted 02 April 2012 - 06:37 PM

I was shocked and afraid when I first encountered ahadith of this nature a few months ago. Though the more one ponders, the more one realises the transient and misleading nature of laughter.

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Posted 02 April 2012 - 07:34 PM

There has to be a balance, we also have narrations on the merits of laughing and joking:

The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘A believer is fun and playful, and a hypocrite is grim and angry.’
[Tuhaf al-`Uqoul, p. 49]

Imam al-Baqir (as) said, ‘Indeed Allah loves those who are playful among people without obscenity.’
[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 663, no. 4]

Imam al-Sadiq (as) said, ‘Every single believer should have playfulness in him.’ [The narrator said] I asked, ‘What is playfulness?’ He replied, ‘Joking.’
[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 664, no. 2]

Imam al-Sadiq (as) asked Yunus al-Shaybani, ‘How much do you jest around with each other?’ I said, ‘Little.’ He said, ‘This is not how it should be, for playing is part of good character, and through that you bring happiness to your brother, and the Messenger of Allah (SAWA) would jest with people wanting to make them happy.’
[al-Kafi, v. 2, p. 663, no. 3]

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Posted 04 April 2012 - 06:46 PM

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^Here is some more to add; all from al Kaafi by Shaykh al Kulayni, Book of Social Manners, Chapter 23: Funny Stories and Laughing

2. A number of our people have narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad ibn Khalid from Sharif ibn Sabiq from al-Fadl ibn abu Qarrah from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Every believing person knows how to tell funny stories. I asked, ‘What is al-Da’abah?’ The Imam said, ‘It is funny stories.’”

3. It is narrated from him (narrator of the Hadith above) from Muhammad ibn Ali from Yahya ibn Sallam from Yusuf ibn Ya’qub from Salih ibn ‘Aqabah from Yunus al-Shaybani who has said the following:
“Abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, has said, ‘How is your telling funny stories for each other?’ I said, ‘It is very little.’ The Imam said, ‘Do not do so. Telling funny stories is of delightful moral discipline. You can bring joy to your brother (in belief). The Messenger of Allah would tell funny stories to bring cheerfulness feelings to a man.’”

4. Salih ibn ‘Aqabah has narrated from ‘Abd Allah ibn Muhammad al-Ju’fi who has said the following:
“I heard abu Ja’far, recipient of divine supreme covenant, saying, ‘Allah, the Most Majestic, the Most Holy, loves a funny storyteller in a group free of abusive matters.’”

5. A number of our people have narrated from Sahl ibn Ziyad from Ali ibn Asbat from al-Hassan ibn Kulayb from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“The laughing of a believing person is smiling.”

6. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Mansur from Hariz from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Much laughing deadens the heart. He has also said, ‘Much laughing melts one’s religion just as water melts salt.’”

7. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from al-Nawfali from al-Sakuni from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, has said, ‘It is ignorance to laugh without astonishment.’ The narrator has said that the Imam would say, ‘In laughing do not allow your teeth to become visible, when you have committed disgraceful deeds. One who has committed evil deeds should not feel secure about what kinds of misfortune the night may bring.’”

10. It is narrated from him (narrator of the Hadith above) from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Hammad from al-Halabi from abu ‘Abd Allah, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Laughing loud is from Satan.”

20. It is narrated from him (narrator of the Hadith above) from ibn Faddal from al-Hassan ibn al-Jahm from Ibrahim ibn Mehzam from those whom he has mentioned (in his book) from abu al-Hassan, the first, recipient of divine supreme covenant, who has said the following:
“Yahya (John) ibn Zakariya would weep and would not laugh. Jesus, son of Mary would laugh and weep. What Jesus did was better than what Yahya would do.”

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