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#51 Gotham

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Posted 24 February 2012 - 04:08 PM

View PostUmm Sakina, on 24 February 2012 - 12:22 PM, said:

Salaam, Made another post on Shia Sunni Unity:
http://theperfection...th-justice.html

short but nicely written sis! :D
Someone picked up the head of Hussain: "These lips that kissed The Prophet now kiss the dust."

"Sometimes you find requests are not immediately granted. Do not be disappointed. Fulfillment of desires rest in the true purpose or intention of the prayer. More often fulfillment is delayed because merciful Lord wants to bestow upon you suitable rewards. In the meantime bear patiently hardships, believing sincerely in His help. You will get better favours, because, unknowingly you may ask for things which are really harmful to you. Many of your requests, if granted, may bring eternal damnation. So at times, withholding fulfillment is a blessing in disguise."

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Posted 01 April 2012 - 12:31 AM

Salaam, Here's an entry titled, "Practice What You Blog."

http://theperfection...you-preach.html

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Posted 17 April 2012 - 08:56 AM

Salaam, New Blog Post: "Don't Shop Til You Drop"
http://theperfection...llowed-her.html

Edited by Umm Sakina, 17 April 2012 - 08:56 AM.


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Posted 26 April 2012 - 05:54 PM

Salaam, "Hollywood Imams" are misguiding people and need to be exposed!
http://theperfection...wood-imams.html

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Posted 18 July 2012 - 04:16 PM

Salaam, A little on my experience with a street sermon in DC. We need more imams like this in our mosques!
http://theperfection...ng-justice.html






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Posted 25 July 2012 - 01:53 AM

Salaam, Here's my blog entry titled "Why We Fast."

Excerpt: "There's a downside to hiring a babysitter who's a neat freak."

http://theperfection...hy-we-fast.html

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Posted 25 July 2012 - 04:04 AM

I will start reading your blog too :)

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Posted 31 July 2012 - 01:28 AM

Thank you, Your sister in faith!
Here is my latest entry titled "Matchmaker Extraordinaire"
http://theperfection...aordinaire.html

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Posted 31 July 2012 - 01:35 AM

Your welcome :)

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Posted 03 August 2012 - 07:21 AM

Salaam, This one it titled, "Repelling Evil."
Excerpt: "When my preschooler revealed what another girl said to her in class one day, my mama bear instinct took over."
http://theperfection...lling-evil.html

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Posted 04 August 2012 - 05:09 AM

Salaam, Tazaabha, Thank you! There is a fb share button at the bottom of every entry right below my name. it's kind of light in color that's maybe why you missed it. Thank you for sharing!

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Posted 08 August 2012 - 06:12 PM

Salaam, I live in the town with the controversy over the new mosque. My thoughts on its opening this week in the eve of the violent attacks on houses of worship across America. It's titled: "Build Mosques, Not Country Clubs"

http://theperfection...ntry-clubs.html

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Posted 13 August 2012 - 09:55 PM

Salaam, This is a sensitive topic for some--accepting criticism! It's called "Ruffled Feathers."
http://theperfection...d-feathers.html

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Posted 21 August 2012 - 06:29 PM

Salaam, My "Eid Reflections."
Excerpt: As a child, my favorite part of the Eid holiday was the melodious chants heard from afar as my sisters and I--dressed in assorted colors of the same traditional Pakistani shalwar kameez outfit and matching glass bangles--approached the mosque for morning prayers.
http://theperfection...eflections.html

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Posted 29 August 2012 - 04:08 PM



Salaam, This one is on "Parenting a Tween!" May Allah help all parents, iA, and forgive us for the trouble we gave ours!
http://theperfection...ed-reading.html


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Posted 08 September 2012 - 05:46 PM

Salaam, Muslim national leadership and the shunning of Dr. Aafia Siddiqi.
http://theperfection...-oppressed.html

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Posted 08 September 2012 - 06:12 PM

Bismehe Ta3ala,

Wa Alikum Assalam Sister Umm Sakina,

I particuliarly (excuse the sp. mistakes) enjoyed this entry.  Parenting is no easy task, and I worry about my boys a lot, even at this odd hour of the night (2 a.m.).  Insh'Allah, Allah swt gives us the wisdom to know how to raise our children with good moral traits and become God-conscious mo2mains.

Currently, I'm reading The Confident Child by Dr. Apter. I hope to gain some insight on how to build a healthy self confident child and have a strong personality where they don't need to fall for peer pressure and turn their ear to the social pressures surrounding them.  Granted they are still 3, but I hope I raise them to be leaders themselves and not followers to the bad apples out there.  Please pray for my boys.  God bless you and your daughters.

Keep up the good work with your blog sis.  Mash'Allah it is informative and it keeps me coming back to read more. BTW, at what age did you start reading to your daughters, and how did they become interested in reading books?  If you don't mind with the personal questions, do they watch a lot of TV at home?  If not, what do they do to stay busy?

M3 Salamah, FE AMIN Allah

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Salaam, This one is on "Parenting a Tween!" May Allah help all parents, iA, and forgive us for the trouble we gave ours!
http://theperfection...ed-reading.html



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We call ourselves shias. But is there anything we learn from the modesty of the ladies of kerbala ?....Dr Aale Syed
assalam 3la fatimah wa abeha wa b3leha wa baneeha wa sir al moustoud3ee feeha, rouhe elakum al feda2.

الهي كفى بي عزّا أن أكون لك عبدا ، وكفى بي فخرا أن تكون لي ربّا... أنت كما أُحبُّ ، فاجعلني كما تحبُّ اللهم عجل لوليك الفرج يا الله

"In the beginning of a change the patriot is a scarce man and brave, and hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, the timid join him.. for then it costs nothing to be a patriot".Mark Twain

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Posted 10 September 2012 - 10:26 PM

salaam, Sister Laayla, Thank you for your kind words. Please do post tips here after reading the book. I started reading to my kids when they were really young---under one. I usually get 20-25 books from the library and leave them in a stack in the family room and they pick them up when they are bored. TV only on the weekends in our house! Boys  are a bit different so it may take them a few more years to get into reading, iA.

Here is my latest post. A bit more political but very important to bridge the growing Sunni/Shia divide.

http://theperfection...s-saviours.html

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Posted 13 September 2012 - 09:42 PM

Salaam, On kids and anti-Islam films.
Excerpt: "When my kids threw a fit after I suggested they take treats to school to celebrate the Eid holiday with classmates, I threw one back."
http://theperfection...-prejudice.html

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Posted 18 September 2012 - 11:52 AM

Salaam, Blog post on "Mercy to the Universe."

Excerpt: The drive home from school is usually catch-up-on-what-happened-today time, but last week my van rocked instead to Maher Zain's song "Assalamu Alayka" on repeat. (Click here to listen.)

http://theperfection...o-universe.html

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Posted 20 September 2012 - 09:43 PM

Salaam, Confused on how we should respond to films maligning our beloved Prophet (S)? Here is what I've learned:
http://theperfection...whose-been.html

Edited by Umm Sakina, 20 September 2012 - 09:44 PM.


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Posted 24 September 2012 - 04:47 PM

Salaam, I analyzed CNN's news coverage of the protests against the film and it was quite revealing, not only about the mainstream media but also about Muslim "experts."
http://theperfection...-of-speech.html


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Posted 11 October 2012 - 09:31 PM

Salaam, Learn what people across the country are doing to promote the Prophet (S)!
http://theperfection...-prophet-s.html

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Posted 30 October 2012 - 11:19 PM

Salaam, Learning how to courageously speak up for the truth (from a non-Muslim friend).
http://theperfection...red-her_30.html

Edited by Umm Sakina, 30 October 2012 - 11:19 PM.


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Posted 06 November 2012 - 11:19 AM

Salaam, I have a post from a guest this time, "Empire's New Clothes: An Election Primer."  Loved his quote from Lupe Fiasco!
http://theperfection...ion-primer.html



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