Be honnest to your sleves before being honnest to others
I challenge any of the males to sware by Allah that he doesnt constantly fall into sins which are much bigger than (going to a club without drinking or fornicating)
you have to weigh the sins and see which one is bigger ,,,,
when you talk like this you remind me of this funny joke:
a man fornicated with a woman and made her preganant.,,,,,, they asked him why did you double the sin by not only fornicating but also making her preganant.,,,,,, he said " i heard that counterceptives are makrooh"
lolol idiot you heard that conterceptives are makrooh but you didnt hear that fornication is haraam ? lol
its the devil that makes you stupid so you fall in t he bigger sin and avoid the halal way because you think the hallal way involves a makrooh act,,,,
they call this WASSWASSS and ist the desease of the faithful people
A man who masturbates and fantisizes good women of his environment or takes out his anger and frustration on others because of the hunger for marriage can not say
" oh I can not do mut3a because i will fall into sins"
god never forces you to fal into sins,,, you can be smart ,,,, u can explain,,, you can be missionary.,,, you can change the culture
even the worse case scenario of going to clubs,,, analyse whats haraam about clubs
supporting evil enviroenement and evil culture
when you go you dont intend any of the above if your looking to get married,,,
your looking to change the enviroenement and culture and boycott the drinking,,,,,
your looking to change the mentality and tell them that all this rubish that they do, god has solved it in one simple thing called marriage.....
so it depends why you go and if your going for the sake of marriage then Allah will not punish you because you are forced to avoid bigger sins
Allah says : "and whoever was forced without being and intentional tranbsgressor then there is no sin on him"
if you masturbate or fantisize good women in your enviroenment then you cant say
" oh i will not go to club and i will not do mut3a with christians because it wil involve sin"
you have a duty by the religion to exhause all the methods to get married even if that means marrying a prostitute or going to nightclub and marrying a loose girl from there..
you are never forced to do sin
If your going for the sake of music and alcohol and watching naked females then yes you shouldnt go.
But if your constantly falling in sins and you have no other avenue then its wajib on you to exhaust all methods to get married including the club.
God never forces you do sin,,, you can go into a club and show boycot towards drinking and make your intention very obvious...... music in the background is not haraam on you because your not lsitning to music , just like when you enter a shopping center and they put music in the back ground
looking at naked people is not haraam if they do not care themsleves exceot when there is temptation ( you can check the fiqh books for Alkhoie) and if you get tempted your intention if mariage so Allah allows special cases for that,,,,
and even if its counted as sins you have to weigh it and see how big is it compared to staying single ,,,,
Allah has allowed all sorts of special cases for those who want to marry.... a man is allowed to look at the features of a female and even to see her with no hijab if he has the intention of marrying her
just check the fiqh books
all this so you dont have the execuse to do the haraam....... and in judgment you will not have the execuse to tell god ,,, oh i was forced to do the haraam
because he will askl you did you exhause all the methods ??? and you say oh i didnt go to club becaue it has sin,,,,, he will tell you " good but did you abstain from sin or did you end up doing a bigger sin ???" and you will say " i ended up doing a bigger sin" and he will ounish you for that,,,, because he will tell you " i gave you a brain to weight the sins and i made all special cases for you to get married yet you decided to do the haraam instead of the hallal"
i knwo some who go to club and they maried some loose girls from there ,,,, these guys are much cleaner than some who dont go to club because the others turned gay,,,,,
It doesnt look like people have reached this level as some here prefer to do the haraam just so they could have a peaceful life....
Dont forget that Allah knows all thse situations so he even allowed the men to amrry a prostitute,,,,
now tell me where will you find the prostitute ??? in the mosque ???? or in the schoool???
do when Allah aloowed this did he not know that approching prostitutes will allways involve sin ??
supporting a prostitute is a sin because its confirming her actions ..... but yet Allah allows it as a lesser of two evils and he makes the law generally makrooh (permissible with undesirability)
Some people can abstain from clubs and evil environment and and stay pure from sin so that is thier choice,,,,
but most people can not do that so its much better for them to exhaust all emthods to get married,.