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[miss.a]

i just got a shiver down my spine for some reason after reading this post.

i hear about these kind of people all the time. Its weird

[_zahra]

Wahaay this is freaky stuff but its true...

Similar incident happened to me with 2 other SCers...

The first one is a guy on here who somehow got my email addy and started chatting about stupid stuff and asking personal questions...didn't answer any but thank god for the block button on msn

The second person was a girl who added me and 2 other SCers also and I seriously had no clue how she got my email but she kept sending offline messages saying things like.."habibty how are you, a7ibuki" etc etc


*sighh whats this world coming to

[miss.a]

This world is a messed up one

[dingdong]

Be patient and just wait for the reappearance of Imam Mahdi .

[hubbe_hussein110]

_zahra, on Apr 20 2008, 08:06 PM, said:

The second person was a girl who added me and 2 other SCers also and I seriously had no clue how she got my email but she kept sending offline messages saying things like.."habibty how are you, a7ibuki" etc etc

Ohh her

[FatimehJ]

Asalaam alaikum,

I just wanted to share something along these lines.

I don't really go on many forums anymore and I am quite wary too. I have found shiachat to be great and when things start getting a bit nasty, the moderators tend to step in. I personally have had no real problems.

But I subscribe to another Islamic forum (mainly sunni members) - mainly to receive specific info/newsletter. A few days ago a member posted something that prompted me to reply. He was querying a talk given by a sufi sheykh who suggested that when Imam Mehdi appears, Imam Ali will be his vizier. He said this was strange and confusing and listed names of the 4 sunni calipha and said he didn't understand it. All I did was ask what was confusing in a reply post.

I then got a reply as an email in my inbox which was quite insulting and rude and without thinking I clicked on 'reply'. From this he got my business email address and must have guessed my website from that. I then received a barrage of really nasty and insulting emails that really upset me. I had been caught with my guard down and really never expected this.

I cannot find a moderator for the group so have basically posted his email reply but it isn't showing up on the site! It is weird not having instant access to report to a moderator, so I think I will unsubscribe/block this site. Even though I am in my own home and my husband is here it made me feel vulnerable, the fact that this man knew stuff about me. After posting just a few words asking him what was confusing, because it would make sense that Imam Ali would return he said stuff like
" So you wanna teach me this??? What are you talking about girl???

It seems you did not understand anything from our message.

So go away, sell your herbal medicine and also take something to
extend your limited brain functions."

This is so scary, I am a herbalist, but how the heck did he know this??? As I said he must have tried typing www. before the domain on my work email (which I stupidly used).

This only happened yesterday so I am still feeling a little shaken by it. So - please sisters, be on your toes at all times and don't let your guard down by being so involved in debates and by being naive like me and feeling secure because you are on an Islamic site.

Allah hafez
Fatimeh

[_zahra]

Hubbe_Hussein110, on Apr 21 2008, 08:56 AM, said:

Ohh her

hehehe yehh "her"

[Maula Dha Mallang]

hmph why dont pervy WOMEN ever perv on ME  

[adore2lights]

FatimehJ, on Apr 21 2008, 09:54 PM, said:

.... please sisters, be on your toes at all times and don't let your guard down by being so involved in debates and by being naive like me and feeling secure because you are on an Islamic site.

Allah hafez
Fatimeh

thank u for saying that.

[Shiasister_*]

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Well i have put my email adress on my profile for a girl She wanted to add me on MSN. But everytime i say to here delete it after you added me . And she does you know.

[Yiligiz]

lol MDM i want the perv girl like this tamarind too

now thats worser than me posting images of man eating frogs and rats

[ummleyla]

adore2lights, on Feb 5 2008, 06:29 PM, said:

  
sister...this oldie dude...could be the one of persons i was refering to...
be careful with this guy
did he say he lives in canada?
did he say something like,...err...u seem to be so polite and have good knowledge in islamic issues...i need woman's perspective for my marriage life...and so on and so on...and BANG!...slightly start talking like a genuine pervert...   

Maybe it's the same guy who contacted me....Lives in Canada and in the 40's. He seemed to be nice at first but then when i was in a difficult situation he turned out to be kinda pervert.He was married but not happily married and and started to ask about my breasts and stuff. I felt like ......yaaaak...and said he should concentrate about his wife and not me.I said I didn't like he talked that way and it was haram.I have cut contact with him now.Alhamdulillah.And I have taken away my e-mail addresses from my profile too  but that I did before I read this warning.

[ummleyla]

nada1603, on Feb 5 2008, 08:59 PM, said:

OMG HE DID SAY HE WAS FROM CANADA D:!!!!

And he was like 'what's your height?' and I stupidly told him and he's like... 'Oh I'm three inches shorter, will have to bend down to kiss...' And I went   OMG!! EWWWWWWWW! Fudging hell! Some people have no shame whatsoever, man, it's sick! Yeah but he said he's seperated with three kids. I saved the convo and showed it to all my friends later lol.

OMG he said almost the same to me.,.... And he said he had 3 kids yes and from Canada. he asked about my height too and he said he dreamed about me so much hehe. <h used that I was heartbroken but I was never interested at all. He said he was married just cause of his 3 kids...It MUST be same guy!!

Edited by ummleyla, 09 July 2008 - 09:43 PM.

[ummleyla]

adore2lights, on Feb 6 2008, 02:00 AM, said:

DEFINETELY!!!

That is the man!!!

and i believe he's not the only one. and they all are not amateurs   look at the Mohsin_k's case. well i'm not sure he was the same person, but look at how "smart" he was to fool us all (even the mods gave replies there, he'd fooled me too. lol) that's why i said they are not amateurs!!

so all sisters, please be careful to this man. he really doesnt care wether you are married or not. i bet he's totally a maniac! dont be too naive, keep aware!!! and i bet they will keep coming to SC, no matter how often they've been banned!!   

salam.

It MUST be the same who contacted me!!  When I said to him in first chat long time ago  that I was married he said" I am too" and didn't care that I was married. I ignored him for a long time...

[Fasiha Jafri]

^^^       

Oh wow...

I had my email on SC for the 1st month or so, but after 50 add ons in MSN, I took it off. And even when people emailed me, I just say sorry, I don't add people I don't know. And this one guy started sending me messages like where do you live and are you studying...and I said ummm. bro i dont mean to be rude, but stop messaging me and he said: There's nothing wrong with a platonic friendship...and I'm a good guy... bla bla bla ... I just blocked him.

But this kind of stuff is more than redundant on facebook... just recently this guy messaged me and his profile pic was a bare chested Chad Michael Murray when I asked him, replies: "He is my best hero."

And I reiterated more than a million times that I was not going to add him...and he continued bothering me with bad grammar... WIll you best friends me? Im good guy and I be your best friend...will you plzzzzzzzzzz add me best friend... so I told him shut the hell up and stop bothering me in URDU and he still didn't listen, so I finally said: "Kya larkion ka dimagh khana aap kee hobby hae????" STOP BOTHERING ME!

[ummleyla]

nada1603, on Feb 6 2008, 03:34 AM, said:

Okay so at first I wasn't going to like name names and all but a lot of people have told me to actually post the name so the mods can check the person out or whatevs. I believe his username was northernlights or something like that. So. Ban him, please?

Adios.

It's Northernlight alright!!!! He told me that too.Definitly him.originally from Pakistan. Said I was in his heart all the time and I was a good woman and bla bla. In beginning he seemed so sincere but when he started talking dirty....He wanted to have kids with me.... I said that's impossible cause we are not married and he didn't wanna divorce either cause of his kids. Like he wanted me as second wife or something.Poor his wife.

Edited by ummleyla, 09 July 2008 - 10:02 PM.

[ummleyla]

There's nothing wrong with a platonic friendship...and I'm a good guy...

Exactly that he said to me too. And that if niyat is good it's nothing wrong to chat...Then he went..You know the rest...I have blocked him too. And deleted him. I told him not to contact me anymore but since he did I had to block him.Cause first I only deleted him without blocking..

[umnajla]

Salamualaikum,

I am a sister trying to meet new people in other communities. How can I do this if no one wants to share info for fear of crazy people? I guess I need to do this in a safe way also. So how do I?

[adore2lights]

insyaAllah, there are still many good people out there who really are sincere...i believe.
just dont believe every information you get from any person you've never actually met, untill you get second opinion from your reliable source..and if you are at one point do believe on him/her, and he/she ask for a meeting, make sure that you pick public place and ask someone to come with you. prevention is the best.

salam

[thats me titch]

I've been in similar situations, but these ^^^^^ are really scary.

[Muna]

adore2lights, on Feb 4 2008, 07:49 PM, said:

IT'S WAY TOO RISKY!!

dont put any address, not your yahoo/msn/hotmail or whatsoever on your profile. it's also applied to the married sisters. believe me it's very dangerous!!
you should be extra careful, if there is someone ask u for your personal information even if he (sometimes "SHE" ) ask it with some long pathetic prelude, it's better for you for being suspicious in the first place to avoid being manipulated later.
just dont give it away. internet can be a very risky place to have a friend. there are actually some pervert wrapped in "piety outlook". so be extra careful sister. i've already done my personal research on this.

Please view these videos

Thanks for the warning!

[iraqiunited]

question: why does it even ask u to put your email on ur profile?

[syedashah]

Dear sister!
I am totally agree with you but still 1 should be careful being a female.