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[adore2lights]

IT'S WAY TOO RISKY!!

dont put any address, not your yahoo/msn/hotmail or whatsoever on your profile. it's also applied to the married sisters. believe me it's very dangerous!!
you should be extra careful, if there is someone ask u for your personal information even if he (sometimes "SHE" ) ask it with some long pathetic prelude, it's better for you for being suspicious in the first place to avoid being manipulated later.
just dont give it away. internet can be a very risky place to have a friend. there are actually some pervert wrapped in "piety outlook". so be extra careful sister. i've already done my personal research on this.

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Edited by Ya Aba 3abdillah, 05 February 2008 - 05:33 PM.

[Hanieh]

totally agree.. sis.

There are some horrible people around, people who say perverted things and then cry for our Imam practically in the same breath!

Don't give out your msn/email to ANYONE no matter how genuine they sound, even if they are really 'pious' and 'clever' and are showing you the 'right' path. All they will show you is the darket side to human mind.

Its about time these people were taken out of the game.

Edited by Hanieh, 04 February 2008 - 09:50 PM.

[mmm]

SO SOLID SHIA, on Feb 4 2008, 08:23 PM, said:

A7SANT!!!!!! BROTHA SISTA BIG UP YOURSELF.......

there have been many cases on here...people pretending they need help with a long study or assignment and therefore ask sisters to participate in their projects....people who say they are in desperate need of guidance and get details of sisters...

oh how can we forget ..people who pose really religious and post Ayats from Quran and hadeeths all over to show everyone how much knowledge they have so that the sisters start asking them questions and BANG....manipulation for the nation...

there are seriously too many perves on here...there are also 'prominent' people who everyone loves.....trying it with members of the same sex.....so sistas be aware of other women getting over friendly and doing the whole "AWWWWWWWW SIS I WANNA MAKE FRIENDS WITH UUUUUU I WANNA GET TO KNOWWWW U SISSS..." am not saying everyone is like that but as adore2lights person said...just be vigilant

There are a lot of lesbos running around here too acting all shia like....lookin for the naive sisters to take advantage of....BE CAREFUL OF THEM TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SCUM!!!!

oh an before anyone says anythin about me.... I been a pervert since day one..I don't need to do tafseer of Kitab Al-Irshad or Peshawar Nights to get your attention!!!!

Hey brother sss,
What is your yahoo. I need help on this uhh one assignment. Also my uhh husband just died in a car accident. Please do dua for him  

[hubbe_hussein110]

mmm, on Feb 4 2008, 11:00 PM, said:

Hey brother sss,
What is your yahoo. I need help on this uhh one assignment. Also my uhh husband just died in a car accident. Please do dua for him  

^^ LOL to both posts...I think it has been said before but SO SOLID SHIA 4 PREZ!  

[mmm]

Hubbe_Hussein110, on Feb 5 2008, 12:00 AM, said:

^^ LOL to both posts...I think it has been said before but SO SOLID SHIA 4 PREZ!  

Wouldn't midn that

[adore2lights]

i hope all men who replied to this warning arent those as to whom the sisters should be careful with.

[Hanieh]

I think sisters should me more wary of some OTHER SISTERS, or perv-ETTES as they may also be referred to. I know that is going to be met with a load of abuse by the usual suspects (you know who you haters are), but I don't care. Most intelligent girls will have a finely tuned 6th sense when it comes to pervy men. We all know when a man is trying it on, and we know (hopefully) to stay the heck away.

The pervert radar does not always detect pervs of the same sex, if a girl is being kind and claiming to be helping you, you might not think anything of it. It's messed up. A boy being a perv is something you might expect, when a girl does is it, it is unexpected and leaves a deep psychological impression. It is horrible to think about but it happens.

The  original post might have about that weird perv who managed to defy science and get pregnant only to kill off his husband all in the name of getting some msns. But the fact is we aren't safe from anyone-male or female.

Edited by Hanieh, 05 February 2008 - 07:57 AM.

[dingdong]

oh good I havent put up my email address. I ahve just given it to memebrs of SC whom I gain knowledge from or to people who I help. and the total SCers on my IM are only 4.

what do these folk backstabbers do and why do they do what they have to do? so should i not give me email to other brotehrs?

[mmm]

dingdong, on Feb 5 2008, 08:07 AM, said:

oh good I havent put up my email address. I ahve just given it to memebrs of SC whom I gain knowledge from or to people who I help. and the total SCers on my IM are only 4.

what do these folk backstabbers do and why do they do what they have to do? so should i not give me email to other brotehrs?

Brother dingdong,
has being in the sisters forums for too long affected you in a way that you think you are a girl?
I think most perv's usually go after girls...

[adore2lights]

Hanieh, on Feb 5 2008, 07:56 PM, said:

The pervert radar does not always detect pervs of the same sex, if a girl is being kind and claiming to be helping you, you might not think anything of it. It's messed up. A boy being a perv is something you might expect, when a girl does is it, it is unexpected and leaves a deep psychological impression. It is horrible to think about but it happens.

couldnt agree more than that.

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The  original post might have about that weird perv who managed to defy science and get pregnant only to kill off his husband all in the name of getting some msns. But the fact is we aren't safe from anyone-male or female.

that too.
but i personally had proven some other cases. couldnt let it out here, too risky. lol
but you've made your point hanieh. and it's undeniable, we just cant close our eyes from this reality :
we are not safe from anyone male-female. the fact is harsh, but indeed is happening here.
now again ladies, not like i want to scare you all or what, but just be more vigilant.
the immoralities have spread every where, even in this forum (which i used to think the safest internet forum). it spread like a virus. we can not kill virus, all we can do is increasing our self immunity by that means be extra vigilant!

salam.

[dingdong]

Well here in the UAE they have started attacking boys too (especially my age I think ) and what makes you think I ahve been in the women's forum too much? I just click on View New Posts and all the stuff comes.

[nada1603]

OMG. I've had like a bazillion people add me off SC in the past week or so. One guy went PROPER into detail. He like wanted to know about my mum first and I'm like... 'Errr she's happily married, thanks' and then he was all asking about mine. And cos I have my picture on MSN he was all like, 'You're so attractive and we should meet up' etc. And this guy was like 45-years-old and I'm like... 'Dude, I was BORN when you were a quarter of a century OLD!' Gosh. Cradle robber, much?

But yeah. Having said that, I'm off to take my email off.

[Muslimah_IBe]

I have been here, on and off, since 2002. I must have been under a huge rock or something because I had no idea this stuff was a common practice here on shiachat. I thought I got away from that when I was on an old sunni (now defunct) internet forum a couple of years before signing on with shiachat.

Wow!



Thanks for the warnings and the advice to be aware and vigilant.

wasalaam

[Eurybia]

Thanks a lot for sharing this sister
now i'll make sure, that i remove my Email ID, where ever i've mentioned it.

[adore2lights]

nada1603, on Feb 5 2008, 09:34 PM, said:

OMG. I've had like a bazillion people add me off SC in the past week or so. One guy went PROPER into detail. He like wanted to know about my mum first and I'm like... 'Errr she's happily married, thanks' and then he was all asking about mine. And cos I have my picture on MSN he was all like, 'You're so attractive and we should meet up' etc. And this guy was like 45-years-old and I'm like... 'Dude, I was BORN when you were a quarter of a century OLD!' Gosh. Cradle robber, much?

But yeah. Having said that, I'm off to take my email off.

  
sister...this oldie dude...could be the one of persons i was refering to...
be careful with this guy
did he say he lives in canada?
did he say something like,...err...u seem to be so polite and have good knowledge in islamic issues...i need woman's perspective for my marriage life...and so on and so on...and BANG!...slightly start talking like a genuine pervert...   

Edited by adore2lights, 05 February 2008 - 12:14 PM.

[nada1603]

adore2lights, on Feb 5 2008, 04:29 PM, said:

  
sister...this oldie dude...could be the one of persons i was refering to...
be careful with this guy
did he say he lives in canada?
did he say something like,...err...u seem to be so polite and have good knowledge in islamic issues...i need woman's perspective for my marriage life...and so on and so on...and BANG!...slightly start talking like a genuine pervert...   

OMG HE DID SAY HE WAS FROM CANADA D:!!!!

And he was like 'what's your height?' and I stupidly told him and he's like... 'Oh I'm three inches shorter, will have to bend down to kiss...' And I went   OMG!! EWWWWWWWW! Fudging hell! Some people have no shame whatsoever, man, it's sick! Yeah but he said he's seperated with three kids. I saved the convo and showed it to all my friends later lol.

[hubbe_hussein110]

nada1603, on Feb 5 2008, 01:59 PM, said:

OMG HE DID SAY HE WAS FROM CANADA D:!!!!

And he was like 'what's your height?' and I stupidly told him and he's like... 'Oh I'm three inches shorter, will have to bend down to kiss...' And I went   OMG!! EWWWWWWWW! Fudging hell! Some people have no shame whatsoever, man, it's sick! Yeah but he said he's seperated with three kids. I saved the convo and showed it to all my friends later lol.

Well now you know better than to disclose any personal info online to random people...the web is really dangerous!

[hippiehijabi]

ABsolutely!! Especially when true_malangs.... after getting kicked in the face for their arrogance and bigotrry on SC... er.. like where was it.. oh yeh.. ISO NOHA... then true_malangs.. become... Hubbes... this and hubbe that.. oh yeh.. even becomes chiks on SCs... ahahahahah

REALLY BE CAREFUL SIS.   

Hubbe_Hussein110, on Feb 5 2008, 02:08 PM, said:

Well now you know better than to disclose any personal info online to random people...the web is really dangerous!

[Armans Wife]

Yeah, I knew that all along (but thank you for telling all the sisters though). I'm very careful with whom I give my personal info to. I never put my msn id on any profile on the internet although I never (alhamdulillah) had a bad experience with any sisters I met online. Everyone turned out to be who they claimed to be.. and they are very nice alhamdulillah

also avoid forwarding letters to each other (with lots of emails adresses).. it's also dangerous.. well not dangerous but your email id will be exposed to strangers and maybe they'll add you on their msn.

[adore2lights]

nada1603, on Feb 6 2008, 01:59 AM, said:

OMG HE DID SAY HE WAS FROM CANADA D:!!!!

And he was like 'what's your height?' and I stupidly told him and he's like... 'Oh I'm three inches shorter, will have to bend down to kiss...' And I went   OMG!! EWWWWWWWW! Fudging hell! Some people have no shame whatsoever, man, it's sick! Yeah but he said he's seperated with three kid. I saved the convo and showed it to all my friends later lol.

DEFINETELY!!!

That is the man!!!

and i believe he's not the only one. and they all are not amateurs   look at the Mohsin_k's case. well i'm not sure he was the same person, but look at how "smart" he was to fool us all (even the mods gave replies there, he'd fooled me too. lol) that's why i said they are not amateurs!!

so all sisters, please be careful to this man. he really doesnt care wether you are married or not. i bet he's totally a maniac! dont be too naive, keep aware!!! and i bet they will keep coming to SC, no matter how often they've been banned!!   

salam.

Edited by adore2lights, 05 February 2008 - 07:25 PM.

[syeda_zaidi]

nada1603, on Feb 6 2008, 02:59 AM, said:

OMG HE DID SAY HE WAS FROM CANADA D:!!!!

And he was like 'what's your height?' and I stupidly told him and he's like... 'Oh I'm three inches shorter, will have to bend down to kiss...' And I went   OMG!! EWWWWWWWW! Fudging hell! Some people have no shame whatsoever, man, it's sick! Yeah but he said he's seperated with three kids. I saved the convo and showed it to all my friends later lol.

LOOOOOLLLL sister.. loooolll (omg i  cant stop laughing!!)
i cant believe these losers!! they always think they can get away with these stupidities but dont they think tht WE CAN USE THE INTERNET TOO???? the msg will spread in a blink of an eye like this one!! and how long would tht take u to get banned??
GET A LIFE U PERVS!

[adore2lights]

^ i was going to say that too...get a life you perves!!!
but apparently this is the way they've been livin

and right now, they could be here...viewing this thread as a guest or the invisible or even the member   and thinking to make a reply so people would think they are trustworthy

well...read my lip you perves...i've slapped you on the face, havent i? lol

Edited by adore2lights, 05 February 2008 - 07:59 PM.

[nada1603]

Okay so at first I wasn't going to like name names and all but a lot of people have told me to actually post the name so the mods can check the person out or whatevs. I believe his username was northernlights or something like that. So. Ban him, please?

Adios.

[adore2lights]

Armans Wife, on Feb 6 2008, 03:13 AM, said:

also avoid forwarding letters to each other (with lots of emails adresses).. it's also dangerous.. well not dangerous but your email id will be exposed to strangers and maybe they'll add you on their msn.

hey, that never occured to me. yeah..thank u for the warning sis...

[adore2lights]

Hubbe_Hussein110, on Feb 6 2008, 02:08 AM, said:

Well now you know better than to disclose any personal info online to random people...the web is really dangerous!

yeah, true. btw, you are canadian...do you have any idea who is this man we're talking about? i know so many people there, but maybe you have heard any rumour about this sick man?